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I broke up with my ex-gf around 4years back. During that time, i wasnt really serious about her and just broke up with her because i got no more feeling for her. 3years ago, after thinking about what i did, i realised that i had really fallen for her, but she was already attached. Til now, i still can't get over her. I really need some help here, all the pain i felt is getting unbearable soon. Please tell me what i should do. Thanks for any help, advice in advance.
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Originally posted by shattered09:
I broke up with my ex-gf around 4years back. During that time, i wasnt really serious about her and just broke up with her because i got no more feeling for her. 3years ago, after thinking about what i did, i realised that i had really fallen for her, but she was already attached. Til now, i still can't get over her. I really need some help here, all the pain i felt is getting unbearable soon. Please tell me what i should do. Thanks for any help, advice in advance.
You deserve it for treating her like an object which you can dump so easily. And this comes from a man, not a woman who you may think side with other women.
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learn from it move on with your life
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Originally posted by shattered09:
I broke up with my ex-gf around 4years back. During that time, i wasnt really serious about her and just broke up with her because i got no more feeling for her. 3years ago, after thinking about what i did, i realised that i had really fallen for her, but she was already attached. Til now, i still can't get over her. I really need some help here, all the pain i felt is getting unbearable soon. Please tell me what i should do. Thanks for any help, advice in advance.
Hi shattered09,
I will not say that you are right or wrong, but it was your own choice to end your relationship with her back then. It is too late to look back now, I will suggest that you try to shift your focus to other things in your life, such as your favourite hobbies and activities, and also your studies/work. If you do not attempt to move on now, and keep trying to think about the past instead, the pain will only keep increasing.
You should also try talking to a friend who will listen to you, it will make you feel better. However, please do not attempt to get another girl as your girlfriend just for the sake of numbing your pain - Having another half whom you truly love will help in healing your wound, but having another half just for the sake of filling the emptiness in you will not.
Cheers.
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Originally posted by shattered09:
I broke up with my ex-gf around 4years back. During that time, i wasnt really serious about her and just broke up with her because i got no more feeling for her. 3years ago, after thinking about what i did, i realised that i had really fallen for her, but she was already attached. Til now, i still can't get over her. I really need some help here, all the pain i felt is getting unbearable soon. Please tell me what i should do. Thanks for any help, advice in advance.
What makes you think you deserves to be comforted or consoled?Did you even think about her pain when you left her?
Go kill yourself if you cannot bear if the pain, or live through your pain like a man and remember this pain and have fear of this pain so that you will live to become a better man in your future.
Super Disgusting Behaviour ...
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Move on with your life, and take this as a lesson.
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If u really say u loved her as much as u did u would leave her alone or be her guardian angel standby her when she needs it.
Patience can prove your love to her.
Prove to her this time is real, she is only attached not married so u still have a chance.
Sometimes only when we loses something, then we realize how important it was.
"Usually the most important thing in our life, is invisible in our eyes ~ like the fresh air we breathe, the water we drink......"