Does he really likes me?
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Well obvious you met someone who geylang cannot meet his need and excitment. - Thus he go online to look for prey.
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your name and the situation ur in.... matches!! u are just like a doll to him...srsly!!
Just like a girl plays with a doll, she play dressed up and such then when there's a another cute doll she will play that doll instead or worst (better for the girl), she will play two of the dolls till she get bored then dont play with it anymore. get the picture??
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Originally posted by gr33ndoll:
No la.... I should listen to u
Hi gr33ndoll,
Since the answers to all the questions which Mr Milo has thoughtfully posted up are no, you should have a good idea of what to do right now.
I will suggest that you get some help from your friends and tell that man directly that you wish to end your relationship with him. He may attempt to beg for you to stay, but please do not be fooled by him. However, if he turns aggressive, have your friends stand together with you as a group, and threaten to call the police if he turns aggressive.
Cheers.
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It's pretty obvious that he only harbors sexual agendas in furthering the relationship. Heavy petting should not be occuring so soon in a relationship, even more so when the relationship was bridged in the virtual world.
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Hi Gr33ndoll, I can also be your friend, and I will ask you how you are every day, show you alot of care and concern, and be very nice to you too
Do you want to go to the park with me.. where we can engage in some hugs and kisses followed by some heavy petting...
I miss you too Gr33ndoll... please will you be my girl??
KNN... you understand the above statements can be said by anyone.. you are just his tool to satisfy his own sexual pleasure, you are nothing but a sex tool to him. He is hinting to bring you to hotel so that he can fuck your brain out...
You must be an idiot to keep sticking to be and be his fuck buddy.. simply stupid..
Wise up and get away from him the earliest possible, report to the police that he took advantage of your.. dont continue on this path it will only bring you harm nothing more!!!
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Originally posted by MaNyZeR:
Hi Gr33ndoll, I can also be your friend, and I will ask you how you are every day, show you alot of care and concern, and be very nice to you too
Do you want to go to the park with me.. where we can engage in some hugs and kisses followed by some heavy petting...
I miss you too Gr33ndoll... please will you be my girl??
KNN... you understand the above statements can be said by anyone.. you are just his tool to satisfy his own sexual pleasure, you are nothing but a sex tool to him. He is hinting to bring you to hotel so that he can fuck your brain out...
You must be an idiot to keep sticking to be and be his fuck buddy.. simply stupid..
Wise up and get away from him the earliest possible, report to the police that he took advantage of your.. dont continue on this path it will only bring you harm nothing more!!!
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He likes.. to have sex with u. That one i bet my balls i am corret. Or else i cut !
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Originally posted by gr33ndoll:
I need some advice and suggestion.
I am confused.
I knew a man from internet 3 months ago. We decided to meet up. Few days later, he said he misses me, loves me and wants me to be his girlfriend. Each time we meet, he will bring me to a park, we then kiss and engage in heavy petting.
From the first day we met until now, he has never ceased to sending sms to me every day. However, the smses he sent to me were either what are you doing? do you want to meet? I feel so sad receiving this kind of messages... He never ask about my condition/situation whatsoever. A simple message showing care such as "how are you?" is a "hopeless" to hear from him.
I feel ambivalent whether he really likes me or i am just his tool. Sometimes he will asks me to hotel, though, i never agree.
By the way, he treats me pretty nice.
What should i do? Should i trust him? Should i avoid him? ...
do u wind up in physical contact every single time he asks to meet?
if yes, then stop being physically intimate. by either ceasing contact with him, or being more pro active in planning other activities for dates.
apart from snogging at the park, have u guys had dinner? played sports? window shopped? seen a show?
there's no harm in testing him first before making up ur mind (if u're still unsure). the best person to answer ur questions is u.
but please don't be coerced into being intimate with him or put urself in a vulnerable position.
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Please stop meeting him, It appears that he wanted sex from you. Forget about how nice he was to you, everyone could act nice when they wanted something from you.
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It's hardly in the position as outsiders to help you decide what kind of guy he is and what he is really after. Being outsiders, we do not know the whole situation.
At first sight, he may indeed be using you to satisfy his sexual desires. Or he might just be a very very horny boyfriend. There are not enough evidence to support either stands.
How well do you know him before you got together with him?
There's no need to get sexually intimate with him everytime you meet though. There are lots of other activities that the two of you can do together like what soleachip said.
Never let youself be coerced into something that you might regret in the future.
And never let yourself be easily taken in by honeyed words. Harden your heart if necessary if he is indeed using you.
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Actually, if TS is posting this thread and asking the questions in the first place, she already know the answer in her heart liao.
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Originally posted by Poignant:
mind if i ask, how old are you?
19..
Yes, i know what to do now..
Thank you!
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same same
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Originally posted by gr33ndoll:
19..
Yes, i know what to do now..
Thank you!
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greendoll, what did you fall for in him? how come you feel so attracted to him in the first place?
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Originally posted by spade1:
greendoll, what did you fall for in him? how come you feel so attracted to him in the first place?
Well.... I think i am just bored and lonely. Maybe i was blinded by his words. But, i don't know why i have a feeling telling me that he never lied to me.
In fact, he and i are still friend. I never agreed to be his gf.
He keeps asking me whether i like him or not. I never answered him, though.
I know i should avoid him, should not keep in touch.....
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Originally posted by gr33ndoll:
I need some advice and suggestion.
I am confused.
I knew a man from internet 3 months ago. We decided to meet up. Few days later, he said he misses me, loves me and wants me to be his girlfriend. Each time we meet, he will bring me to a park, we then kiss and engage in heavy petting.
From the first day we met until now, he has never ceased to sending sms to me every day. However, the smses he sent to me were either what are you doing? do you want to meet? I feel so sad receiving this kind of messages... He never ask about my condition/situation whatsoever. A simple message showing care such as "how are you?" is a "hopeless" to hear from him.
I feel ambivalent whether he really likes me or i am just his tool. Sometimes he will asks me to hotel, though, i never agree.
By the way, he treats me pretty nice.
What should i do? Should i trust him? Should i avoid him? ...
I believe what everyone has said here is the truth. He is just treating you as "sex doll". No offence intended. 3 months ago. And he claims to love you and want you to be his girlfriend? Does he even know you well enough? Has the Trust been built up between the both of you? And do you even know him well enough? And the tell-tale signs are when he brings you to the park to do those hanky panky stuff. You are letting him take advantage of you! And the final straw is the line "Sometimes he will asks me to hotel, though, i never agree." Glad you know when to say no. In your mind, you already know the answer to your own question. You are just here to re-affirm what you already know. But you have been swayed by his honeyed words and sweet nothings. Your mind tells you to avoid him, but your heart tells you to stay on. Don't let your heart take control. Be rational! There are plenty of other guys out there who would treat you better and not like some piece of meat. And always take time to know them before proceeding to the next stage. You are still young at 19 and shouldn't stick with such a horny guy. I believe we've all given our thoughts on this and the answer is cut all contact with that guy. Stay away from him. Never be swayed by such "fake" words ever again. Like some of our forumers have said, if they say such sweet words to you right now, would you fall into their lap this instant? Be smart and do the right thing... Cheers! =) -
Hi greendoll, how're u doing. I think you're still young and there are better guy out there. For this guy can drop and forget abt him. He's just taking advantage of you. Don't whet his appetite and put a stop for all this.
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Like what everyone else says, this desperate guy just wanna get into your pants. Don't get swayed by all his lovey dovey words; I guess u just wanna be loved by someone, but obviously this man is not the one for you. A person who truly likes you will not keep asking you to go to a hotel with him. That's just his ultimate motive. If every time both of you meet and engage in intimate physical acts, then something is very wrong here.
At least you are not all without hope 'cos you already have doubts about this man, so wisen up before it's too late. :)
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Originally posted by gr33ndoll:
Well.... I think i am just bored and lonely. Maybe i was blinded by his words. But, i don't know why i have a feeling telling me that he never lied to me.
In fact, he and i are still friend. I never agreed to be his gf.
He keeps asking me whether i like him or not. I never answered him, though.
I know i should avoid him, should not keep in touch.....
Let me phrase it again for you, he really likes you, but not in the way that you would want.
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Originally posted by gr33ndoll:
Well.... I think i am just bored and lonely. Maybe i was blinded by his words. But, i don't know why i have a feeling telling me that he never lied to me.
In fact, he and i are still friend. I never agreed to be his gf.
He keeps asking me whether i like him or not. I never answered him, though.
I know i should avoid him, should not keep in touch.....
Hi gr33ndoll,
You may wish to consider going out more often with your friends, and perhaps have them introduce some better guys to you.
Please do not trust your heart blindly, as it is easy for you to misjudge him in your current situation. Some men can be very good liars and sweet talkers, thus the large amount of conmen around.
Cheers.
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Originally posted by gr33ndoll:
Well.... I think i am just bored and lonely. Maybe i was blinded by his words. But, i don't know why i have a feeling telling me that he never lied to me.
In fact, he and i are still friend. I never agreed to be his gf.
He keeps asking me whether i like him or not. I never answered him, though.
I know i should avoid him, should not keep in touch.....
"In fact, he and i are still friend. I never agreed to be his gf."
As you say, friend only.. Then why he heavy petting you? You are crazy and out of your mind already. You are just selling your body..
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1 question to TS
Do you want to safe yr body or bed with your bf?
Which is impt?
Boy dont lost anything, after all, he can have multipy sex partners.
Girls lost virginity and make her looks dirty and cheap.
So, plse think over carefully, boys play play kick you aside, look for new taste. Girls gana play play, and want to stick faithfully with the boy, will the boy want if the boy only goes for sex?
As what my friend told me: Girls just like coffee. It will be tasteless and need to have new coffee.
My advise, SAY NO TO SEX AND SAFE YR BODY. Not worth going with bf who only wish is to have a taste on you.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
1 question to TS
Do you want to safe yr body or bed with your bf?
Which is impt?
Boy dont lost anything, after all, he can have multipy sex partners.
Girls lost virginity and make her looks dirty and cheap.
So, plse think over carefully, boys play play kick you aside, look for new taste. Girls gana play play, and want to stick faithfully with the boy, will the boy want if the boy only goes for sex?
As what my friend told me: Girls just like coffee. It will be tasteless and need to have new coffee.
My advise, SAY NO TO SEX AND SAFE YR BODY. Not worth going with bf who only wish is to have a taste on you.
You are saying to all guys ar?
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Originally posted by likeyou:
1 question to TS
Do you want to safe yr body or bed with your bf?
Which is impt?
Boy dont lost anything, after all, he can have multipy sex partners.
Girls lost virginity and make her looks dirty and cheap.
So, plse think over carefully, boys play play kick you aside, look for new taste. Girls gana play play, and want to stick faithfully with the boy, will the boy want if the boy only goes for sex?
As what my friend told me: Girls just like coffee. It will be tasteless and need to have new coffee.
My advise, SAY NO TO SEX AND SAFE YR BODY. Not worth going with bf who only wish is to have a taste on you.
Thank you.
I will keep ur words in mind.