How to get over someone which I'm really really in love with.
The worse part is he's my first love. & I took like 2 years to get rid of the infactuation.
Now he's in poly, but we still meet up. As my friends would keep on pestering me to do so cause he's quite handsome :3.
Though the feelings of missing him are sort of gone.
It still haunts me like. every night or even broad daylight. [ Like even when you are busy.]
Haha, you don't tell your friends everything right, cause you will only be the 'weird' one who can't get over it. I don't expect them to understand the fact i can't get it over for like..2 years?
u jus need a new guy
Go ahead, to learn life's lesson, one has to take things straight in the face.
you are jus horny
I understand how you feel.
I am also going through this process...
Guessed that you need to find another target...
so u like him because he is handsome ...???
another gal that just go for looks ???
a rs based on looks
wun last 1
so keep dreaming
xmm
How u ask? Well, u can go around doing things, look for substitutes to distract or even deny what is 'true' in u (only u are privy to that) but it will not go away.
Only when u undestand, accept and allow urself to be - there is a probablity that it may go away.
Otherwise, it will surface or if denied - it is merely being repressed - it will eventually surface in another situation or with someone.
u will meet yr prince charming one day who will be more handsome,taller,smarter and richer than him =D
anyway i know how you feel too... you girl still ok.
Originally posted by Chin_ChinKun:anyway i know how you feel too... you girl still ok.
any difference for boys btw??
its normal. you just have to wait for that new someone to pop up in ur life again. and then you will miraculously find that you will forget cleaning about the guy you were once infatuated to .
Sleep over it for many nights.
Originally posted by R.ebecca:How to get over someone which I'm really really in love with.
The worse part is he's my first love. & I took like 2 years to get rid of the infactuation.
Now he's in poly, but we still meet up. As my friends would keep on pestering me to do so cause he's quite handsome :3.
Though the feelings of missing him are sort of gone.
It still haunts me like. every night or even broad daylight. [ Like even when you are busy.]
Haha, you don't tell your friends everything right, cause you will only be the 'weird' one who can't get over it. I don't expect them to understand the fact i can't get it over for like..2 years?
You didnt state the reason for the breakup. And who broke with who first (i guess it was him). These info are impt.
What do you love about him? Just looks?
Originally posted by Bigcable22:
any difference for boys btw??
i think he meant that girl easier to find partner than boys....
but the difference of how to get over it i know, most of the boys, of cuz not all la... the boys will start to either fight ( as in sparring in a dangerous way ), sports, study until very siao.... i have seen many examples b4...
for girls i dunno... i only saw a few example of my friend just crying and finding substitude.. sad thing la... so immature..
Originally posted by R.ebecca:How to get over someone which I'm really really in love with.
The worse part is he's my first love. & I took like 2 years to get rid of the infactuation.
Now he's in poly, but we still meet up. As my friends would keep on pestering me to do so cause he's quite handsome :3.
Though the feelings of missing him are sort of gone.
It still haunts me like. every night or even broad daylight. [ Like even when you are busy.]
Haha, you don't tell your friends everything right, cause you will only be the 'weird' one who can't get over it. I don't expect them to understand the fact i can't get it over for like..2 years?
Hi Rebecca,
Why do you still meet up with him when you are trying your best to forget about him? This contradictory action certainly did not help you out at all. You need not submit yourself to your friends' requests - have them meet up with him themselves if they want to.
If you are still going to see him day in and day out, it is unlikely that you will truly get over him any time soon.
Cheers.
Either you move on and forget about him.
Or
Call him and chat with him.
2 options for you.
No! don't get me wrong.
I said he was handsome because he was kept on being asked out by my friends.
& in poly he would be flirted around and he doesn't like to flirt.
& first love is something really serious, like its not just a fling.
& even if you are with someone else, and he comes back. It might confuse you cause.. he's your first love.
hayiah, u find someone new, u'll forget this fella liao lah.
Learn to give up thing that u are afraid to lose..
it is easy to say but hard to take action...
but you had to depend on your self as no one can really help u.. those comfort words only cure your heart temporaily.
I am a loser in relationship, ppl here might think u uself cant solved your own problem and dare to give advise to other ?
but is okie... maybeto me, helping other to release their pain was help me too..
just my view
Pardon me i am not trying to be curde that young women usually go for physical outlook to fall for a man.Mature lady go for a friendship before step into a relationship.Materialistic women go for any man who is rich inregardless of the man look or age (which i address them as Bitch).
My advise to you is that you are still young and get a guy who start off with you as friend before you even step into a relationship with him.I have seem and known many guys during my school days that guys just wanna have fun and laid with girls whom thrown themselves to him.Beside that,guys are not that serious around your age for relationship.Relationship need $$$ to maintanence.Go for a man who has already has already step into the sociality to work and much older than you so that he is finanically stable and plan better for your future if u decide to marry him in the later of the years with him.Don't waste your youth especially lady whom has time limited for marriage age over a man who is not ready and serious with you.Enjoy your life out there now and have fun with lot of your friends now.
haha focus on poly first. bt of coz have a lot of friend-friend relationships wif guys after a while u'll know who's the right one i guess?