I thought of giving my liking of boys another chance but its all crap to me now. I've been hanging out with my friends, and she brings along her friends. And that guy who is my friends friend keeps on flirting with me and my friends. Kinda disgusting but i know he's fooling around but i caught him looking or should i said "scanning" at me often, im not bragging btw. Its putting me in an awkward position. Come on, i only wear long jeans dont tell me that type of COVERING clothes also turn u on?! I have to wear an eskimo suit if i have to but luckily thanks to singapore hot weather.
Ok that aside, I went out with one of my friends who is a boy. He go these two free tickets so he asked me out. So i just did since we're just friends. But he's cool and started to like him. We went in the movies and sat closely. But as the movies goes on, he was tracing his hand all around my upper arm and before it reaches my armpit, i jerked away. His fingers was so cold so i jumped when he reaches my underarm. But what the hell was that all about? im not even his gf and he did that?
I give him the stare after the movie, and he shrug and gave me the 'huh?' look. I quickly went home and i dont give a damn people watching us that day. I dont even dare to hold any guys hands nowadays.
I wonder my hatred of guys really put me in a lesbian spot but i dont bother that much. At least they're much gentle than some despo loser boys. Please tell me girls, do u have this kind of experience?
I bet you just met those wrong guys and learned to go outting in group rather than solo a guy.Go to those places which is brightly lited up than a movie so it can help to avoid ununecessary discomfort of you.Beside that,learn smart and stop thinking that lesbian is the way.Do you know those lesbian or gay need a doctor?Boy like to prey on stupid girl whereas smart & handsome guy like a brilliant girl who like girl how to dress,behave & most importantly stop acting silly.Just another piece of advise of mine.Choose it or not is within your choice.
Originally posted by Wacky Sung:I bet you just met those wrong guys and learned to go outting in group rather than solo a guy.Go to those places which is brightly lited up than a movie so it can help to avoid ununecessary discomfort of you.Beside that,learn smart and stop thinking that lesbian is the way.Do you know those lesbian or gay need a doctor?Boy like to prey on stupid girl whereas smart & handsome guy like a brilliant girl who like girl how to dress,behave & most importantly stop acting silly.Just another piece of advise of mine.Choose it or not is within your choice.
Yup...Wacky is right
simply because this world is full of jerks.
but sometime if the guy too shy, you girl also don't like that. hmm...don't what ppl wants
not all guys are like that guy TS said...
I dun do that to my gf when we are watching movies. I believe this kind of act should be done at home and if the other party is also willing.
although i'm a guy, i think some guys are jerks. but i can assure you that there are still good guys out there. don't give up on them.
u kidding me? no such thing as "good" guys. Every guy has these eager stuff going on in them. No matter how kind or gentle they are, they will have this fantasy build up in them. Its all in a book.
Slowly makes me think "he's the one" then he thinks that im all his. Pls la i experience lots of this shit before. No use persuading me. All i want is to know that can lesbians make a life? IM NOT SAYING I AM A LES. just want to know
Originally posted by Pebbly:u kidding me? no such thing as "good" guys. Every guy has these eager stuff going on in them. No matter how kind or gentle they are, they will have this fantasy build up in them. Its all in a book.
Slowly makes me think "he's the one" then he thinks that im all his. Pls la i experience lots of this shit before. No use persuading me. All i want is to know that can lesbians make a life? IM NOT SAYING I AM A LES. just want to know
actually i kinda agree with u. that's human nature and we just can't help it. sad but true.
make a life as in?
Originally posted by Pebbly:u kidding me? no such thing as "good" guys. Every guy has these eager stuff going on in them. No matter how kind or gentle they are, they will have this fantasy build up in them. Its all in a book.
Slowly makes me think "he's the one" then he thinks that im all his. Pls la i experience lots of this shit before. No use persuading me. All i want is to know that can lesbians make a life? IM NOT SAYING I AM A LES. just want to know
Les or not is own choice. Whichever make u happy ..
Originally posted by Pebbly:u kidding me? no such thing as "good" guys. Every guy has these eager stuff going on in them. No matter how kind or gentle they are, they will have this fantasy build up in them. Its all in a book.
Slowly makes me think "he's the one" then he thinks that im all his. Pls la i experience lots of this shit before. No use persuading me. All i want is to know that can lesbians make a life? IM NOT SAYING I AM A LES. just want to know
there are such things as "good" guys but it is either taken or married....fantasy build in them is nature..fantasy do build up on girls too when they see a hunk..even in les or gays..
its just that how u see things..like what lonestar states, do not give up on them...u will marry a guy sooner or later unless u choose not to. but, if it makes u happy by choosing to be les, by all means...life is all about choices..
I can assure you that there are nice guys around.
For the first guy, 'scanning at you' is pretty ok I guess if its not done too often and in a respectful manner. Perhaps he finds you attractive etc. Girls also do give second glances to handsome guys too yeah?
The second guy is def. not appropriate.
Open yrself up in meeting more ppl. Don't because of 1-2 bad incidents, you block out all guys.
Thats what I hope to do as well, knowing more ppl.
btw pebbly, i have send you a pm.
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