Some facts are hard to accept... but this is reality.
I am Singapore chinese male born in 1983 and I do not experience the hazards encountered by my female counterparts.
Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):u really shouldn't post this kind of thread... pls spare some thought for our 36yrs old cup A lao auntie here .....
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Originally posted by ☃®:i dont have a problem with them earning 5-8k. I only have a problem with them placing high standards on man when in Singapore, its clearly evident that men are at a disadvantage in career progression due to NS and reservist duties thereafter and lagging behind women by at least 2-3 years.
I have a problem with them apathetic to everything regarding their lives and that of men
I have a problem with princesses who think they are living in American Disneyland where everything seems so magical.
I have a problem when Women cry gender equality, women's charter when the circumstances are not in favor to them and when equality was already granted to them ages ago in education, career, health and life choices.
And lastly i have a problem when women say they are independent but yet expect men to support them
You can jolly well go wear a bra.
Originally posted by ztreyier:The root cause of all these seems to me to be PAP policies.
High pace, stress, mentality of women changing, low birth rate, HDB high cost, all these it seems to me, the source of all the problems - is PAP.
Because before PAP, Singapore's birth rate is high, but after PAP, the rate is low.
The ultimate source of all the problems facing Singapore today and Singaporeans in general lies with the People's Action Party.
The source of all misery in Singapore is PAP.
The root isn't just the PAP smear gang, part of the cause includes dissidents like CSJ, ztreiyer, Atobe, AndrewPKYap who can only complain but not come up with useful solutions.
next 10 year hope is girl treat boy . then no need scared no wife liao .
lower expectations can liao... eye keep looking at impossible suiters sure end up alone one lah.
i feel that it is all up to fate lar. i mean, who can really control who you are going to meet anyway? If you are a male earning lower than your partner, than compensate that in ways money can't. afterall, money isn't everything. there ARE definitely certain happiness that cannot be bought. the chemistry between you, the bond between you... if these are strong enough, external factors (eg. looks/money) shouldn't shake your relationship very much. Singapore girls only look like they ask for much, actually deep down, if they can find someone whom they feel good with, i bet it will be better than dating some rich dude with whom she has no feelings for.