dosent pay to be Mr.Nice Guy
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i have a friend, ORD 3-4 mths ago, we always hang out as a group, i just know him on normal terms, not bery close, not bery distant, we meet around 2-3 times wk, whether nua coffeeshop or jus go out..
My gf is in a company where the directors are partners, my gf's boss own the admin side while his partner own the technical side, recently they fell out and the partner left with his tech dept as all employment of the tech staff was under him, my gf boss then wanted to setup his own tech dept to continue, thus having lotsa vacancies
my this friend has some technical knowledge in installations such as wiring,drilling and such, since he been jobless for few months n he seem like the steady type i decide to intro him there,
hes a seconday 3 drop out, expected salary he put 1.3k, accepted and boss mention if performance is good, can expect pay raise, 1st day of work he did really well, his supervisor is very happy wif him. this was the first day of work
2nd day of work at, morning 11am, my gf was summon into boss office together with the supervisor, my gf was qustioned coz my friend did not turn up for work, then when asked for feedback, his supervisor say he has shown gd performance and quite a gd knowledge in technical skills, the boss is a nice mild tempered person, he mention since hes capable of the job we will give him pay raise and we will groom him to be a foreman in charge of workers, not many jobs gives u promotion on the 2nd day but this is an exception as previously there were 3-4 foreman under the other partner, but now they have left n theres onli one foreman left, his promotion is immenient..
i call up my friend but no ans, i call up another friend who was wif him last nite this fella scolded me, he say y i cheat this guy by introducing him to work
i was blur when he used the word "cheated"
he say my friend complained that the job is tough and 1.2k is like not worth the money, i told him if he feels money not enuff, no harm speakin to the boss ,its not an easy job to work outdoors under the sun, the boss did tell him his pay is not finalise yet but his 1.3k expected pay is accepatable, which means there room for a raise also ,sommore now they r going to promote him anyway
he say my friend felt cheated coz not onli he gotta do installation, he gotta do painting and welding as well, which makes it 3 jobs, so he must get x3 pay, minimum also must get 2k plus
this sounded absurd to me, sec 2 drop out asking for 2 k plus salary ? no offence to pple here but i personally feel its already gd enuff for a diploma holder to get 1.6k as a starting pay, now highest qualification is onli PSLE n hes asking 2k odd?
does tat mean i do admin , sweep the floor and sometime run some errand for the company, does tat mean i get admin, cleaner and despatch pay?
some things are all part of a days work
i strongly emphasize to this 3rd party guy that the pay is definetly neg n he should on his own go ask for it, even if he dun ask for it, an promotion and raise is on its way also..
my gf called me n ask me how, i said perhaps he just overslept , help him say abit of gd things, the boss is bery understanding n said its ok coz its his first day yesterday and perhaps hes not used to the working style, let him rest today but make sure 2molo he turn up, the boss also replied hes bery happy wif my friend work performance, with this i was happy coz everything gonna be ok, later this friend call up n say he dun feel like working anymore as the job is too tough n put down the fone
in this kind of econmic scene, must one really be so choosy? jobless for 2-3 mths n still taking things for granted..
got my gf into trouble n i got into trouble wif my gf
i help someone get a job and i been called a cheat
kindness begets kindness? think again -
to be fair, would like to hear tt guy's side of the story b4 i comment............
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his side of the story from wad i heard from my friendOriginally posted by FireIce:to be fair, would like to hear tt guy's side of the story b4 i comment............
whos the 3rd party i mentioned
siong job, little pay, hot sun, too much work to do
for watever his reasons is, i dun really care, he dun like the job, he should have resigned in a proper way, tell the sup or boss at the end of the day he dun think the job is suitable, i dun mind, at least my gf dun get into trouble, but hes just disappears on the 2nd day
n spread things behind you.. -
ur frend is fcking fckdup.. economy so bad psle graduated still 1 pay so high.. tis type of job sure hard 1 mar.. if he 1 to lead a good life den go course den get cert n work in office lar.. money so easy earn den wtf student study for.. btw jus a student here
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i have 1 friend abit like your that friend..
f**king hell, work..msut complain complain...say, shiong lah, pay lousy lah, wat lah!..then disappear for 2-3 days..KNN!
i know how your g/f feel...cos i know what its like in her shoes...recommend somebody to the job..and that f**ker tua you...very hard to face the supervisor or boss... -
ya lo, tats y when she got unhappy wif me tat day i also lan lanOriginally posted by Prodigy:i have 1 friend abit like your that friend..
f**king hell, work..msut complain complain...say, shiong lah, pay lousy lah, wat lah!..then disappear for 2-3 days..KNN!
i know how your g/f feel...cos i know what its like in her shoes...recommend somebody to the job..and that f**ker tua you...very hard to face the supervisor or boss... -
then hows your that 'friend' ?
got try to call and talk some sense into him? i know its hard...but its worth a try..since the boss has taken a liking to him! -
my company pay operators just $800 to $900 per month only.
but every month also give aditional allowance such as transport and food.
think your friend asking too much lah.
too solve the problem, tell your gf th truth.
then both you and your gf go to see her boss and apologise.
as for your freind, take him there too. let him see how much trouble he's causing to you and your gf. -
some ppl, ye give them an inch..they ask for a freaking metre
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Firstly I would like to hightlight on this:Originally posted by ah_tee:i have a friend, ORD 3-4 mths ago, we always hang out as a group, i just know him on normal terms, not bery close, not bery distant, we meet around 2-3 times wk, whether nua coffeeshop or jus go out..
My gf is in a company where the directors are partners, my gf's boss own the admin side while his partner own the technical side, recently they fell out and the partner left with his tech dept as all employment of the tech staff was under him, my gf boss then wanted to setup his own tech dept to continue, thus having lotsa vacancies
my this friend has some technical knowledge in installations such as wiring,drilling and such, since he been jobless for few months n he seem like the steady type i decide to intro him there,
hes a seconday 3 drop out, expected salary he put 1.3k, accepted and boss mention if performance is good, can expect pay raise, 1st day of work he did really well, his supervisor is very happy wif him. this was the first day of work
2nd day of work at, morning 11am, my gf was summon into boss office together with the supervisor, my gf was qustioned coz my friend did not turn up for work, then when asked for feedback, his supervisor say he has shown gd performance and quite a gd knowledge in technical skills, the boss is a nice mild tempered person, he mention since hes capable of the job we will give him pay raise and we will groom him to be a foreman in charge of workers, not many jobs gives u promotion on the 2nd day but this is an exception as previously there were 3-4 foreman under the other partner, but now they have left n theres onli one foreman left, his promotion is immenient..
i call up my friend but no ans, i call up another friend who was wif him last nite this fella scolded me, he say y i cheat this guy by introducing him to work
i was blur when he used the word "cheated"
he say my friend complained that the job is tough and 1.2k is like not worth the money, i told him if he feels money not enuff, no harm speakin to the boss ,its not an easy job to work outdoors under the sun, the boss did tell him his pay is not finalise yet but his 1.3k expected pay is accepatable, which means there room for a raise also ,sommore now they r going to promote him anyway
he say my friend felt cheated coz not onli he gotta do installation, he gotta do painting and welding as well, which makes it 3 jobs, so he must get x3 pay, minimum also must get 2k plus
this sounded absurd to me, sec 2 drop out asking for 2 k plus salary ? no offence to pple here but i personally feel its already gd enuff for a diploma holder to get 1.6k as a starting pay, now highest qualification is onli PSLE n hes asking 2k odd?
does tat mean i do admin , sweep the floor and sometime run some errand for the company, does tat mean i get admin, cleaner and despatch pay?
some things are all part of a days work
i strongly emphasize to this 3rd party guy that the pay is definetly neg n he should on his own go ask for it, even if he dun ask for it, an promotion and raise is on its way also..
my gf called me n ask me how, i said perhaps he just overslept , help him say abit of gd things, the boss is bery understanding n said its ok coz its his first day yesterday and perhaps hes not used to the working style, let him rest today but make sure 2molo he turn up, the boss also replied hes bery happy wif my friend work performance, with this i was happy coz everything gonna be ok, later this friend call up n say he dun feel like working anymore as the job is too tough n put down the fone
in this kind of econmic scene, must one really be so choosy? jobless for 2-3 mths n still taking things for granted..
got my gf into trouble n i got into trouble wif my gf
i help someone get a job and i been called a cheat
kindness begets kindness? think again
With a secondary 3 drop out, not even an O' level cert: 1.3 K is far too much!
now diploma holders can even have a pay as low as 1200. so! what the hell is he complaining about... not realistic at all I would say... if I was to be ur friend's friend and he should be grateful that you can get him this 'high pay' job..
well I wouldn't know very clearly who's right and wrong but I trust something is that when jobs are concerned, sometimes things just go way out of what you expect, till down the road...
In between friends, often many 'gd people are taken for granted by their friends but it's up to you whether to be taken for granted. your situation: you choose to be a gd man but was being stabbed at the back and got urself as a 'cheater'.
well for this: I have to say
Learn this as a lesson... well in life definitely you meet all kinds of people and that's when you learn when you met them!
Cheers
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no need to talk la, wads there to talk, ord personnel liao still like that, how much of my words will he listenOriginally posted by Prodigy:then hows your that 'friend' ?
got try to call and talk some sense into him? i know its hard...but its worth a try..since the boss has taken a liking to him!
even if i pull him back, i may run the risk of him runnin away again, i cant possibly be his baby sitter and call him everyday asking him got go work or not -
my gf know the truth already, she already have a bad impression of my friends liao, now its getting worseOriginally posted by foga:my company pay operators just $800 to $900 per month only.
but every month also give aditional allowance such as transport and food.
think your friend asking too much lah.
too solve the problem, tell your gf th truth.
then both you and your gf go to see her boss and apologise.
as for your freind, take him there too. let him see how much trouble he's causing to you and your gf. -
ya la, i canot force him to like a job he dosent like,wad i expect is that he just settle everything wif the boss, not jus disappear leaving all the shit to meOriginally posted by IamAngeline:Firstly I would like to hightlight on this:
With a secondary 3 drop out, not even an O' level cert: 1.3 K is far too much!
now diploma holders can even have a pay as low as 1200. so! what the hell is he complaining about... not realistic at all I would say... if I was to be ur friend's friend and he should be grateful that you can get him this 'high pay' job..
well I wouldn't know very clearly who's right and wrong but I trust something is that when jobs are concerned, sometimes things just go way out of what you expect, till down the road...
In between friends, often many 'gd people are taken for granted by their friends but it's up to you whether to be taken for granted. your situation: you choose to be a gd man but was being stabbed at the back and got urself as a 'cheater'.
well for this: I have to say
Learn this as a lesson... well in life definitely you meet all kinds of people and that's when you learn when you met them!
Cheers -
take care brudder...
sometimes these sort of people jus pop up in our lives and makes us suffer. -
Some people are like that, irresponsible, have to take it,Originally posted by ah_tee:ya la, i canot force him to like a job he dosent like,wad i expect is that he just settle everything wif the boss, not jus disappear leaving all the shit to me
gosh~ man, just have to take it lah
dun get too bothered by it alright?
Cheers -
tell him go b a gigolo can earn alot
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dun think he would do it...Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:tell him go b a gigolo can earn alot
too much hard work
have to use his As* his mouth and where ever
the customer wants....
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WAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:tell him go b a gigolo can earn alot
lol 1st saw tis laugh lyk fck.. LOL
not all gigolo earn a lot.. i earn very little.. unless u b my regular customer -
actually i was wondering at this point of time,
how many guys would actually sacrifice their pride for money -
sec 3 qualification wanna earn $3.9k ?
better ask him to wake up ...... your kind enough to fight for a position for him and yet he shows you this kind of attitude.
Should let him rot and beg for food and let him know whats hardship before negotiating about the pay.
even dip. holders are drawing a mere 1.3k + and later increament based on performance.