I'm annoyed at my relative namely my second aunt.
Recently my grandma fell down and injured herself (she is living with my second uncle's family). Only my fourth aunt and her daughter came down to the house and together we brought our grandma to the hospital to treat her injuries and she was hospitalized for a few days.
Funny thing is out of the five sons that she has, only my family and my fourth aunt's family took turns to look after her because my grandma is scared to be alone in the hospital...to cut long story short, now she accuse me and my sister of not caring for my grandma thus she fell...w...t...f?! She fell in their house and blame us for it? I only knew this from my other relatives...so annoyed...
Originally posted by RoyFang:I'm annoyed at my relative namely my second aunt.
Recently my grandma fell down and injured herself (she is living with my second uncle's family). Only my fourth aunt and her daughter came down to the house and together we brought our grandma to the hospital to treat her injuries and she was hospitalized for a few days.
Funny thing is out of the five sons that she has, only my family and my fourth aunt's family took turns to look after her because my grandma is scared to be alone in the hospital...to cut long story short, now she accuse me and my sister of not caring for my grandma thus she fell...w...t...f?! She fell in their house and blame us for it? I only knew this from my other relatives...so annoyed...
Rumours and hearsay can be very hurtful and mostly UNTRUE.
The best thing for you to do is to clarify this with your second aunt FACE TO FACE.
Your other relatives may be trying to cause a rift within the family.
Your aunt did her duty taking care of your grandma. You should be asking yourself WHY your grandma is not staying at YOUR house instead ?
It is easier to hate, more harder to love.
Originally posted by RoyFang:I'm annoyed at my relative namely my second aunt.
Recently my grandma fell down and injured herself (she is living with my second uncle's family). Only my fourth aunt and her daughter came down to the house and together we brought our grandma to the hospital to treat her injuries and she was hospitalized for a few days.
Funny thing is out of the five sons that she has, only my family and my fourth aunt's family took turns to look after her because my grandma is scared to be alone in the hospital...to cut long story short, now she accuse me and my sister of not caring for my grandma thus she fell...w...t...f?! She fell in their house and blame us for it? I only knew this from my other relatives...so annoyed...
Hi RoyFang,
As jojobeach has kindly mentioned, this could possibly be a rumour started by some of your relatives who are trying to sow discord within the extended family.
If you really want to clarify things with her, go ahead and do so, though things may turn ugly because of this. Otherwise, the best thing for you to do is to just leave things be and ignore what your relatives are saying.
Cheers.