now or 2.5 years later?
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there is this girl (the girl who i've mentioned in my previous thread) who told me she don't intend to get into any r/s during her uni life, we shared the same thinking. btw, she told me way before i hint her i like her. if she told me that after i hint her then i'll agree that that was just her excuse to tell me she's not interested in me. but that's not the case. i've tried to hint her quite a couple of times that i like her but she doesn't seemed to take it seriously. anyway, she's evergreen.
looks like i'm only going to take action after we graduate, which is 2.5 years from now. however, some of my friends said this is a foolish decision cus most probably she'll be attached by then since she's kinda cute and guys like cute girls. there are ought to be some guys who will try to woo her and eventually she might succumb to one of them during these few years in uni.
my friends are telling me to do it now or i might never have the chance to do it again.
once again, i'm troubled..
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it's now or never
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Originally posted by Poignant:
it's now or never
true love is worth waiting for.
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
true love is worth waiting for.
true love doesnt wait for you, fight for that chance to wait.
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The sad truth is: That's just her excuse to tell you that she's not interested in you.
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evergeen as in??
virgin?
wat weird terms ppl use these days sia.............
(is me outdated?)
well, if tts wat she thinks and have put it straight to u, then u shd try respect her decision
if one day she went to be with someone else, it most prob means she give u this as excuse and just too bad for u -
Originally posted by freakass:
The sad truth is: That's just her excuse to tell you that she's not interested in you.
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People after spore university end up jobless or GET A pay worse than an australian supermarket counter girl or as bad as a guy werkin ina 7-11 in the usa!!!do u know that or not???
i suggest u go find a good job,make plenty money,own a fleet of transport aircrafts and have a few boxes of 2 carat diamonds for your galfriend.
do u think she will go for a person without much money or education?
BE PRACTICAL !
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I ONCE SAW THIS MOVIE..THEY HAD THESE 2 SOUTH AMERICAN GUYS BOTH WITH NO EDUCATION AND NO JOBS.SO ALL THEY DID WAS GO AS A GANG AS FRIENDS AND FIGHT FROM TIME TO TIME.THEY DID FERTILITY DANCE AND STOLE MONEY INSTEAD OF WERKING FOR IT!
IN THE END,GALS LEFT THEM AND THEY WENT NO WHERE IN LIFE!IS THIS WHAT U WANT?
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Talk to her, ask her can wait for you when you serve your ns.
If can, then let time prove everything.
If she go with other guys, then you may forget about her and move on.
Spore has many pretty ladies around. You will find your true love.
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Originally posted by freakass:
The sad truth is: That's just her excuse to tell you that she's not interested in you.
she told me way before i hint her i like her. if she told me that after i hint her then i'll agree that that was just her excuse to tell me she's not interested in me. but that's not the case.
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Originally posted by FireIce:
evergeen as in??
virgin?
wat weird terms ppl use these days sia.............
(is me outdated?)
well, if tts wat she thinks and have put it straight to u, then u shd try respect her decision
if one day she went to be with someone else, it most prob means she give u this as excuse and just too bad for uevergreen is someone who has never been in any r/s before, not virgin.
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
she told me way before i hint her i like her. if she told me that after i hint her then i'll agree that that was just her excuse to tell me she's not interested in me. but that's not the case.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
Talk to her, ask her can wait for you when you serve your ns.
If can, then let time prove everything.
If she go with other guys, then you may forget about her and move on.
Spore has many pretty ladies around. You will find your true love.
sorry, i'm not serving the nation. i'm in yr 2 and she's yr 1.
actually i've asked her before that do i stand a chance after we graduated which is 2.5 years from now. but she didn't take it seriously.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
So what are you going to do now?i can either..
a) take action now before it's too late. currently she's single but who knows the next moment she might turn attached. however, i'm kinda confident that she'll remain single during her uni life.
or
b) wait until we both graduate, 2.5 years from now which will be 2012.
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
evergreen is someone who has never been in any r/s before, not virgin.
oh....
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Originally posted by FireIce:
oh....
they can be mutually exclusive.well they can be mutually inclusive too.
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Absenting reasons and fears love abides - otherwise it is fruitless journey!
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Originally posted by Fugazzi:
Absenting reasons and fears love abides - otherwise it is fruitless journey!
sounds deep. pls elaborate. thks.
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Well, when one loves someone or (does something) or purports to love and once the reasons for loving - eg, nice face, feeling secure, feeling 'good' or sex or ... are fulfilled or changes take place (which is in the nature of living) love would evaporate when the reasons for .... are no longer there or it is fulfilled. How to sustain when once is dealing iwth a human being who is subject to the vagaries of moods.emotions,situations ? Unless one is dealing with some 'thing' already dead. Can be used and put aside and be used again. Human being?
However, if love was an end unto itself or the 'other' was loved or is being loved for no reasons -but one is simply sharing one's state of being. Being what? Being love, Being kind, Being ..... State of being emanates from within (intuitive heart) and state of mind is having conceptualized models and projecting it onto another or others. The latter state is divisive and excludes others when love is concerned. State of being is inclusive.
As for fears - by that i imply the loss of the other's fulfilling one or the anxiety of 'being unfufilled in the future. Love that is feaful is not love, but needs/expectations/insecurities masqureading as love.
Most probably, one loves or assumes that one is loving but the need for reciprocation is a must. Also, the likelihood of jumping into a relationship is hastened cos of insecurity. One enslaves another and in turn is enslaved. Love that was initially freeing is suffocating and stultifying. Hence the misery and pain of love.
Lest one forgets - love melts the ego. Ego n love can never co-exist. One has to go.
As to which stays is telling of the quality of the .....
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
evergreen is someone who has never been in any r/s before, not virgin.
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Originally posted by Nivek!:
that means she's a virgin , no ? unless she sleeps around with random guys ?well bump
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I was in the exact same situation as you are, perhaps even slightly worse. Though there are many advices saying true 'love' is worth waiting for, my advice is, if she is not keen, dont wait. Unless she gave a very direct positive answer that she needs time, and hope you wait for her, then do so. If not, dont waste your time.
I waited for this girl for 2 years, and just 1 day she comes and tell me she has already someone in mind. Once you hear that, i will guarantee that your heart will sink like there is no bottom. Its a gamble, and a really risky one. There is no 'confirm-chop' that after so long, her heart is still with you, even more so when its not be stable yet.
And its not up to you to 'do it or not'. The holding hand is still hers. 2.5 years is neither long or short. Unless you are so into her that you can never forget about her, i would say just move on. Uni is the time to study too, dont get so troubled over such stuff.
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Originally posted by freakass:
The sad truth is: That's just her excuse to tell you that she's not interested in you.
You can read mind of girls well.
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
there is this girl (the girl who i've mentioned in my previous thread) who told me she don't intend to get into any r/s during her uni life, we shared the same thinking. btw, she told me way before i hint her i like her. if she told me that after i hint her then i'll agree that that was just her excuse to tell me she's not interested in me. but that's not the case. i've tried to hint her quite a couple of times that i like her but she doesn't seemed to take it seriously. anyway, she's evergreen.
looks like i'm only going to take action after we graduate, which is 2.5 years from now. however, some of my friends said this is a foolish decision cus most probably she'll be attached by then since she's kinda cute and guys like cute girls. there are ought to be some guys who will try to woo her and eventually she might succumb to one of them during these few years in uni.
my friends are telling me to do it now or i might never have the chance to do it again.
once again, i'm troubled..
Be bold and ask her out.
It will be better to be rejected than to regret for the rest of your life for not asking her.
Don't regret like I did.