Jealousy.
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I've fallen for a new girl. We actually hit off quite well. But i don't know why i always get jealous when i see the other guy is with her. Yeah that guy likes her too, and they have been classmates for 2 years. Everyday i'll get emo because i see him with her. And that guy's super sticky, and likes to put cold blanket on me like :' Wow it's so sad that two of you are not as close as two of us. ' What a bastard. She always say i'm a fun and funny person, and misses talking to me, but how true is that? I don't know. When i ask her, she always says that it's true, but somehow i think she's lying... And when he is with her, i won't go up and talk to her, i don't know why. I'll jsut feel very upset. I need some advices..
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u my fren, really needs a tiger...
u just need more confidence and courage...
btw, does she know ur feelings for her?
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Yeah she knows about it..
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since she knows your feelings about her and also then she did not avoid you after that means that she is not rejecting you. Secondly, she also said that she misses talking to you may just means that she really misses you sometimes. I think you stand quite a good chance here my friend...
She has already given you the chance, what you need to do now is to go and give yourself a chance. Try asking her out with you one on one. Forget about the other guy. That guy is just jealous of you that is why he is making stupid comments to make you think tat he and the girl are really close, which in actual fact is because he is being sticky.
So buck up your courage and then go for her.
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I think she's still deciding who to choose from.
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That guy posted too much mushy rubbish on his blog. I asked her if she was touched by those mushy stuffs. She said : NO! -_- I'm touched by you instead . Hmm.
Then that guy said to me that she said those to me because she dont wanna hurt me.
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Seem like that guy trying to flame you.
And you already ask the girl (about the blog).
It is you turn to ask the girl whether she dont want to hurt you by saying no. And see what is her reaction.
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why u so bothered abt that guy?
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Because that guy is very sticky, he always sticks arounds her. -_-
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Yeah, why bother about that guy?
You are scare to loose the girl. That guy seem to know it.
You must be courageous and be firm.
Dont be a weakling. Go for it if you are sincerely true to her.
I am sure she will one day, love you.
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I didn't believed at first so i said LIAR. Then after that she went like no seriously i'm not lying, so i believed her,
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Since you believe her, move on. Date her out and know her more.
Are u in JC/Poly/U/Sec?
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Sec 3.
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You are a pussy.
The other guy will get her if cannot fight for your girl. Stick around so? You can do it too./
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be confident. muster up courage and go for it. try and u will know.
jealousy is normal. but dont be possessive.
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Okay, thanks for your advices. But don't call me a pussy please. Isn't nice ):
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If u love her - u wont feel jealous. It is something else - lust, need, expectation, fear of loss ... the other guy is an excuse - what u are in has surfaced. Till that aspect of u is unreconciled, it is only a matter of another situation and jealousy will surface. It is not necessary that it happens in a gf/by friendship/'relationship. Jealousy is insecurity and comparison!!!
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u got $$$ 1st anot.
me lealli no undrstd insecure poor ppl ok.
dat day, me oly passed a casual remark abt my dad.
& dis toopid tiongbu, whom no one likes, said "ä½ çœ‹ï¼Œå�ˆåœ¨ç‚«è€€äº†ã€‚".
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What do you do when you face of competition, Huh
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if nt gd enuff, den back off.
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jealousy is insecurity.. hm.. interesting..
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let me know that sticky guy. i homo hoim for you