SecMinHr,
I like your style with regards to the following. Lucky her

Call me weak if u wan, but if i really love her..and when she throw tantrums or be unreasonable in my opinion, i will still keep cool, endure..and try to abide to her wishes..this ONI applies to her though, if its any other person..i would juz ask him/her to step aside and get lost...perhaps ...one is more vulnerable when facing his loved ones ..coz u really treasure and hope her to be happy ..
As to your question, I don't consider that as a hypocrite actually. Girls like to be pampered (no doubts about it) and to have guys giving in to her (sometimes even if she knows she is wrong). But I don't think that you should let her have her way and submissively give in to her, without telling her how you feels.
She would appreciate more if you communicate your feelings and what you are upset about (eg. her behaviour,etc), in a nice way of coz (The tone is
very important and don't let her have the feeling that you are blaming her). I am sure she won't mind and both of you will understand each other more after that. You will also be experiencing less of her unreasonable acts and nonsense. ehhehe

Comments?
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[This message has been edited by YoShii (edited 29 April 2000).]