Friends VS Lover!! Which is more important??
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I've always have this nagging thing at the back of my mind..
I must admit that I do click slightly better with guys than gals.. However I always seem to be 'leading' the guy on (according to my galfrens), which I am NOT!! aiyohhhhhh.. Then it always ends up in a talk abt how I'm just treating the guy as a fren..that I enjoy his company as a fren.. Might I mention that I do not do one-to-one.. kakakaka~!
(am i making sense? =P )
Anyway..do guys appreciate gals clearing the air? Or is there a particular manner? Hmmm =P
And..will the frenship ever be the same again? -
Moosey moosey!! Too many 'ONES' liaoz .. too much headache leh!! (refer to Men fm Pluto) *LOL* =P
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Yup,guys definitely appreciated guys clearing the air as it helps to prevents any ugly misunderstanding in the future,hehee
Fedora : Whats ones you talking about huh?I catch no ball leh,haahah
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Makan begins with a drool, grows with a chomp, ends with a burp.When you were born, you were hungry and everyone around you was full. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one full and everyone around you is hungry.
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Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz -
Of course it would be good to clear the air ... rather then the guy thinking that you like him and everything turning much uglier ... *shivers*
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moosey : nolah..u said that someone will come fill my broken n lost pieces rite?? so i said that have too many "ONE"s liaoz.. understand?? =P
But let's say that after the air is cleared up..and he chooses to avoid u.. wat to do then? (talking in general here) -
Fedora, if after you clear the air and the guy avoids you I think he is just too petty. Which rule states that a guy and girl cannot be mutual friends? I click with girls very well, much more so than with guys and I'm glad I have a number of girls who are purely great friends and stays that way. In any case, if you sense that there is any misunderstanding possibly arising, it is good to always clear up before it leads too far unless you have the intention of seeing how it goes.
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Hmmmm........just tok to them loh
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Cheehong !Originally posted by light:Fedora, if after you clear the air and the guy avoids you I think he is just too petty. Which rule states that a guy and girl cannot be mutual friends? I click with girls very well, much more so than with guys and I'm glad I have a number of girls who are purely great friends and stays that way. In any case, if you sense that there is any misunderstanding possibly arising, it is good to always clear up before it leads too far unless you have the intention of seeing how it goes.
just kidding
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Wahwah!! StingRay here ar??! *takes out the wok* kakakakaka!!! come here rayray~ =P~~~
light: Man I sure hopes it works..
Some guys (pardon me) are just sooooo *TOOT*!! They think that if a gal is closer to them then they must make her the GF! My skoolmate had this experience.. I had to sms that guy telling him to back off!! LoL
Personally I do make things clear but .. geeshhhh .. After that everything changes!!
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Aiyah,canot blame the guys fully lah,some guys actually think it's normal fren when actually it is the girl who is interested in the guy,heheheOriginally posted by fedora:Some guys (pardon me) are just sooooo *TOOT*!! They think that if a gal is closer to them then they must make her the GF! My skoolmate had this experience.. I had to sms that guy telling him to back off!! LoL
Personally I do make things clear but .. geeshhhh .. After that everything changes!!
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Makan begins with a drool, grows with a chomp, ends with a burp.When you were born, you were hungry and everyone around you was full. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one full and everyone around you is hungry.~~~
Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz -
This depends fully on the character of the guy oh, some guys who had few frds will feel very touched when a girl offer him some help and may even fall for her while others who r more sociable finds it very ordinary when a girl gets along very well with him, so which category u r in, Fedora and Moose?Originally posted by moose:Aiyah,canot blame the guys fully lah,some guys actually think it's normal fren when actually it is the girl who is interested in the guy,hehehe
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
I belong to those who when a girl is closer to me,i just regard her as a good fren,but that turned out to be a costly mistake for me,eheheh
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Makan begins with a drool, grows with a chomp, ends with a burp.When you were born, you were hungry and everyone around you was full. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one full and everyone around you is hungry.~~~
Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz -
Same same as moosey moosey =)
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want to be friend, stay
No, get lost
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So u normally treat a guy who gets along well with u as only a gd frd. In the first place, did u ask yourself why u click so well with guys and not with girls.Originally posted by fedora:Same same as moosey moosey =)
Girls normally had a grp of same sex that clig well so that they can go out shopping,doing girl's stufff and talking abt girl's problems and secrets that u won't tell a guy, agreed?
R u sure u can share personal secrets with a guy, unless he's ur bf? Actually I belong to the other category and r giving u advice from my point of view. If a girl gets along very well with me, I really can't help but fall in love with her as "ri jiu shen qing". If u r a chinese, u will understand this, it means that the longer u spend time with her, the more feelings will be developed for her loh.
But from your point of view, it's juz having a new friend. Thus, I trying not to misunderstand a girl's feeling when she gets too well with me. Tell all of u a secret, I oso one who gets along well with girls rather than guys, hehehe, but it's bcos I dun like outdoor sports and activities as most guys wold prefer to do when they go out...
Ok, from both points of views,hopeu can handle your problem well...
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Same?What you mean huh?Fedora?Originally posted by fedora:Same same as moosey moosey =)