The only mental hurdle and barrier is not what people sees in you - its what you interpret from them. If you fail the overcome it - its like people unable to accept a older woman, younger guy relation, taller woman, shorter man relations, etc etc.Originally posted by heartbreaken:Hi all. Does it matter if a couple both of different race go out together?
i have been getting STARES from countless ah pehs and ah sohs and ah longs and ah bengs whenever i am out with my gf. its so irritating. Despite the multi racial slogan of singapore, it seems that the citizens do not seem to understand the meaning of it or are they very old fashioned?
i have seen countless mixed race couples on the streets as well. Whenever i walk past coffeeshops etc, i see those bloody uncles looking at my gf i feel like punching them. my gf has told me to ignore them say that they are lik ethat one but sometimes i cant stand it. Once yesterday one trishaw man even had the cheek to say that my gf chose me is it because my dck is very big. hear this make me so bloody angry when my gf told me about it. but too late cause the trishaw old man had already rode off. wherever we go, we seem to be the center of attraction. btw she is chinese and i am malay but look like indian.
very pissed initially but now i am less pissed but still pissed..haha... if u know what i mean...
Originally posted by Yunhaier:The only mental hurdle and barrier is not what people sees in you - its what you interpret from them. If you fail the overcome it - its like people unable to accept a older woman, younger guy relation, taller woman, shorter man relations, etc etc.
The uncomfortability comes within you - because people's glance only swept across, probably look for more than a moment - but they don't really bother in reality - Its only looking afterall.
Are you able to overcome this self mental cage you are implementing to yourself?
hmm..ya i see your point. I do try to ignore most of what is happening. Sometimes i do ask my gal why she is so pretty that everyone tends to always look at her. Then i realise that why am i so stupid to ask my gf to dress up uglily etc when most ppl hope to haf a pretty gf?
maybe if my gf was ugly but of a diff race, ppl wont tend to give her the look. anyway have gotten accustomed to the stares until yesterday the bloody trishaw man said some remarks that i got to know. infortunately he left the scene
Cheers
yeah malay... indian muslim ....Originally posted by Master -_-:ur a malay? i am also part malay![]()