i lost contact with my V-day date after 1st date. WHY??!!??
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OK, i am an introverted n shy person. hardly have any friends. always a loner, stay at home.
never really been on a real date before. so i go dating website look for date. but of all the girls i chat or message, never reply one. why so like that one? i think because that stupid website got too many guys liao...too many competition n spoil my market. worst is those handsome n rich n sweet-talking guys...i lose out to them.
then chatted with one girl on the website chat, who agreed to go out with me.
so i borrow my mama's car, because must impress girl with car right?
she dont want to give me her number or email msn, so on that day 10 feb she msg me by internet sms to meet her at her block downstair.
so i drive my mama's car (hehe feel so happy), to meet her, a beautiful girl, n i suggest go to chinatown to see the CNY festive bazaar, but she dun want, coz she say she hate the place becoz very squeezy n hot.
so after pick her up i suggest go bibocity, n she say why not drive inside sentosa? so go there, eat at a cafe called Taste of Singapore (some high priced local hawker food with beautiful presentation in restaurant setting, obviously catered to tourists).
Then drive around sentosa, walk around n enjoy the night life n look at the RWS entrance.
then go siloso beach n watch a laser projection show, then walk walk along beach, sit down talk talk, then drive around town n go to a quiet cafe to eat n chat till midnight.
then i told her i m leaving for holiday to japan during CNY. when i came back on the 18th, i log into website, never seen her online.
until today leh, i always otaku at home, hoping to see her online on the website chat box, so i can chat with her. but never see her on the website leh. n i she never give me her number or email or facebook, so theres no way i can contact her.
so now i feel sad, why for 4 days no contact me? i bought some gifts for her from japan...want to give her one.... i hope she make a contact with me...at least an internet sms (pray she never lost my no.), or i hope she log into the dating website so i can chat with her (pray she did not forget her log in ID or password to the site)
so today i feel emo n sad leh. i think i like that girl. i hope there will be a 2nd date for us.
sob sob sob
SO HOW???!?!??!!!!?? -
Originally posted by shark_boy:
OK, i am an introverted n shy person. hardly have any friends. always a loner, stay at home.
never really been on a real date before. so i go dating website look for date. but of all the girls i chat or message, never reply one. why so like that one? i think because that stupid website got too many guys liao...too many competition n spoil my market. worst is those handsome n rich n sweet-talking guys...i lose out to them.
then chatted with one girl on the website chat, who agreed to go out with me.
so i borrow my mama's car, because must impress girl with car right?
she dont want to give me her number or email msn, so on that day 10 feb she msg me by internet sms to meet her at her block downstair.
so i drive my mama's car (hehe feel so happy), to meet her, a beautiful girl, n i suggest go to chinatown to see the CNY festive bazaar, but she dun want, coz she say she hate the place becoz very squeezy n hot.
so after pick her up i suggest go bibocity, n she say why not drive inside sentosa? so go there, eat at a cafe called Taste of Singapore (some high priced local hawker food with beautiful presentation in restaurant setting, obviously catered to tourists).
Then drive around sentosa, walk around n enjoy the night life n look at the RWS entrance.
then go siloso beach n watch a laser projection show, then walk walk along beach, sit down talk talk, then drive around town n go to a quiet cafe to eat n chat till midnight.
then i told her i m leaving for holiday to japan during CNY. when i came back on the 18th, i log into website, never seen her online.
until today leh, i always otaku at home, hoping to see her online on the website chat box, so i can chat with her. but never see her on the website leh. n i she never give me her number or email or facebook, so theres no way i can contact her.
so now i feel sad, why for 4 days no contact me? i bought some gifts for her from japan...want to give her one.... i hope she make a contact with me...at least an internet sms (pray she never lost my no.), or i hope she log into the dating website so i can chat with her (pray she did not forget her log in ID or password to the site)
so today i feel emo n sad leh. i think i like that girl. i hope there will be a 2nd date for us.
sob sob sob
why you neber ask her real contact when you are in Sentosa ?
Why so you go tell her you go Japan for CNY ?
CNY is a beri sensitive time period for a couple ok ? You choose to vanish/disappear during this timing.. her alarm bell start ringing.
Good luck next time.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
why you neber ask her real contact when you are in Sentosa ?
Why so you go tell her you go Japan for CNY ?
CNY is a beri sensitive time period for a couple ok ? You choose to vanish/disappear during this timing.. her alarm bell start ringing.
Good luck next time.
hmmm... well at least TS didn't do any hanky panky stuff with her b4 disappearing though...Anyway I'm kinda stunned that TS isn't able to get hold of her number and yet still able to meet her... Maybe the ger just wanted a free ride and date
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
why you neber ask her real contact when you are in Sentosa ?
Why so you go tell her you go Japan for CNY ?
CNY is a beri sensitive time period for a couple ok ? You choose to vanish/disappear during this timing.. her alarm bell start ringing.
Good luck next time.
i asked her before she dont want to give me leh. she told me her phone line got cut off.
maybe she don't feel comfortable giving her hp no. to a stranger.
i have to go for holiday because my parents n extended family like to travel during the CNY period in order to take a break from their hectic lifestyles
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maybe the girl is not
a human after all../
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Originally posted by shark_boy:
i asked her before she dont want to give me leh. she told me her phone line got cut off.
maybe she don't feel comfortable giving her hp no. to a stranger.
i have to go for holiday because my parents n extended family like to travel during the CNY period in order to take a break from their hectic lifestyles
dun feel comfortable to give hp num to a stranger... but okay to go out with him???
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Originally posted by shark_boy:
i asked her before she dont want to give me leh. she told me her phone line got cut off.
maybe she don't feel comfortable giving her hp no. to a stranger.
i have to go for holiday because my parents n extended family like to travel during the CNY period in order to take a break from their hectic lifestyles
You really believe her when she tell you her phone line got cut off meh ? Wah lau.. you ish sibeh gullible guy.
Not even a email ? Donch tell me her internet also got cut off.
I think she must be so financially screwed.. now she looking for a meal ticket.
Donch worry.. when she gets hungry again.. she will call you.
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Cause she found out you pluck your eyebrows and shave your legs?
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Originally posted by βÎτά:
Cause she found out you pluck your eyebrows and shave your legs?
i dont see anything wrong with doing that. its personal grooming -
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maybe she doesnt like you.
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Originally posted by shark_boy:
i dont see anything wrong with doing that. its personal groomingI didn't say there was anything wrong with plucking your eyebrows or shaving your legs. Serious.
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TS, she never tell you where she live, whatso ever?
maybe she just want someone to accompany her, that's all
if you really...really.....really...really like her so much, dun post here....
Post on Suntec BillBoard....
I am serious, really
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Drink Milo.
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Just wondering, how old are you???
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Originally posted by Mr Milo:
TS, she never tell you where she live, whatso ever?
maybe she just want someone to accompany her, that's all
if you really...really.....really...really like her so much, dun post here....
Post on Suntec BillBoard....
I am serious, really
ya i know the block she live in, becoz she told me her block number, n so i drove there n waited for her at the lobby porch, on our first date -
maybe she doesn't like you at all.
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Originally posted by -Wanderer-:
Just wondering, how old are you???
i m twenty four years old. -
If she is meant to be yours, she will try to make herself available to you one way or another. If she wants to go all out to avoid you in every way possible, there is nothing much you can do about it. But if you want to be optimistic, maybe she has been busy of late? Either case, take this as a lesson learnt. If being yourself doesn't leave a long & lasting impression on her, maybe she doesn't see you as her type and in turn, may not be your type too. And one more thing, have more confidence in yourself.
Cheers! =D
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why did u goto japan on chinese new year ???u might as well goto germany or norway in that case.maybe she chose some older guy over u as valentine........if u bring her here n there ina car n end up eating hawker food.....she might as well go out with some taxi driver who dines also at some hawker food court............u should have just invited her to japanese food at some posh jap restaurant instead of braggin to her that u got important business at Nagoya with some Shogun.at least treat her to some fancy sea urchin meal!
just thinkin of a food court already make me feel sian.......all tasteless....kfc could be better!
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Originally posted by shark_boy:
ya i know the block she live in, becoz she told me her block number, n so i drove there n waited for her at the lobby porch, on our first date
hmmm...only thing i can say is move on ba...dun think too much of itlook for other girls ba
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Originally posted by Hitman~:
why did u goto japan on chinese new year ???u might as well goto germany or norway in that case.maybe she chose some older guy over u as valentine........if u bring her here n there ina car n end up eating hawker food.....she might as well go out with some taxi driver who dines also at some hawker food court.
just thinkin of a food court already make me feel sian.......all tasteless....kfc could be better!
my family want to go japan to see the snow. n so i follow them lor.the place i ate at was like a cafe restaurant. i had a $11 chicken rice there, one of their so called signature dish
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hmmmm......well....ya could have invited her home.....buy $50 worth of alaskan crab claws from NTUC finest and tell her how much the she means to u.........or u could goto some steamboat buffet and eat non-stop till the 2 of u explode.
signature chicken rice dish????its another con-job by some restaurant.............gals are impressed by buffet with plenty food.....it tells alot bout the guy they dine wiv.
dun need to be expensive......ya just need to see cheapest and delicous food in spore.
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no lah...take her to some classy resturant with nice ambience
then give her some nice, expensive gift
next, send her home, make sure u send until to her room......
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is a selfish person.....makes use of a gal to goto buffet cuz got no khaki to go out wiv
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