and i am guilty of this. i have a crush on an attached girl for a longest time and i myself is also attached. we are attached for a long time many years but not to each other. but we are seeing each other too much because we go to the same class and i have a feeling she is feeling the same way towards me. how do i break it off?
brek it off with your currently gf or the crush girl?
my gf don't know about this and i don't wish for her to know so i want to settle it faster. but at the same time i don't want to be a big joke..how do i know my crush is really into me or just being nice?
???
how to break off something that dont exist in the first place??
maybe i used the wrong words. should i ask my crush about how she feels about me?
no don't ask. after you all graduate go youur separate ways. no problems anymore.
still got long way to go before grad..lol
1) Do you still love your gf?
2) Why do you think that your crush likes you? Any actions?
3) Just ask your crush if she is thinking of marrying her bf...
Originally posted by rouko:and i am guilty of this. i have a crush on an attached girl for a longest time and i myself is also attached. we are attached for a long time many years but not to each other. but we are seeing each other too much because we go to the same class and i have a feeling she is feeling the same way towards me. how do i break it off?
So you are staying in your current relationship because you have no other ship to jump on to ? Then you are simply pathetic.
That girl will look down on you when she realised what a big jerk you are, and will not want to be in your girlfriend's shoes in the future.
Your intention to cheat is a huge TURN OFF for any girl, and this will make you very UNATTRACTIVE... in fact, REPULSIVE.
She'd be better off with her current boyfriend anyway.
So I suggest you save your efforts until you have a clean break with your current girlfriend , and make yourself "100% available" instead of " Attached but available".
Originally posted by jojobeach:So you are staying in your current relationship because you have no other ship to jump on to ? Then you are simply pathetic.
That girl will look down on you when she realised what a big jerk you are, and will not want to be in your girlfriend's shoes in the future.
Your intention to cheat is a huge TURN OFF for any girl, and this will make you very UNATTRACTIVE... in fact, REPULSIVE.
She'd be better off with her current boyfriend anyway.
So I suggest you save your efforts until you have a clean break with your current girlfriend , and make yourself "100% available" instead of " Attached but available".
Best reply.
Originally posted by rouko:maybe i used the wrong words. should i ask my crush about how she feels about me?
Yes you should ask her how she feels about you if you are also sure of how she felt about you.
Sometimes it is necessary for us to encourage you to experience some things beyond our explainations.
It is something that you need to experience and learn it by yourself, I can only encourage you to learn from your current situation by encouraging you to go and ask your crush.
i dont think the feeling is mutual. your crush thoughts are crushing all rational thoughts from your brain. suggest you keep crush thoughts to yourself and dont make a fool of yourself.
i'm going to be blunt as hell here..
look at your title.. and what you are saying...
you are dead selfish in your views... you THINK you are in lust with this other girl.. and want to go with the other girl..
you THINK she's also in lust with you.. even when she's got someone beside her...
and because of all your thinking centred around yourself, the world suddenly became "an ugly world"?
the world doesn't revolve around you...
go sort out yourself first... do some soul searching.. maybe you'll become a better person for your current girlfriend...
how old are you fundamentally? how old is your brain fundmentally?
rouko, first ask yourself if you really love your current gf or not or if you still love her at all or not?
If you still love your current gf and treasure her, then forget about asking your classmate how she feels abt you. What diff is it going to make if you still love and treasure yr current gf? Why make matters worse? So what if you find out that yr classmate likes you? Leave yr gf or 2-time? Morally right or not? I am sure you can answer that yourself.
What you should do is snap yourself out of the situation by treasuring what you have. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. Or risk losing everything you have.