Would anyone here go......

• coverboy17

  25 Mar 03, 19:28

  Would anyone here go after a guy/girl u really like even if u noe tat he/she has a bf or gf already? Lets assume that their relationship is getting along very well and not of those wanna break-up stage.
  
  Any opinion guys?
  
  
• skeujin

  25 Mar 03, 19:29

  nvr break up a happy home. always belive in karma!
• Bianca

  25 Mar 03, 19:29

  Never!
  Never be the 3rd party...
  If you like her, let her go, if she returns, then it's meant to be...
  
  
• Flight Cadet Officer

  25 Mar 03, 19:31

  Originally posted by Bianca:

  Never!
  Never be the 3rd party...
  If you like her, let her go, if she returns, then it's meant to be...
  
  

  agree
• WinBoi84

  25 Mar 03, 19:31

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  Would anyone here go after a guy/girl u really like even if u noe tat he/she has a bf or gf already? Lets assume that their relationship is getting along very well and not of those wanna break-up stage.
  
  Any opinion guys?
  
  

  Well, never try before leh...
  But think in this sort of situation, I will lor...
• coverboy17

  25 Mar 03, 19:34

  wah.didnt noe e guys here all so nice....
  i'm not thinking of breaking up any couple.i'm just curious to find out how do u ppl think.
  
  But haven u heard b4 e saying."It's all fair in love and war"? and u got to fight for ur happiness? Let's say a friend u have been goin out wif quite frequently and recently she became attached.n u dunno her bf.would u still ask her out or like keep talking to her?
  Or would u reduce the no. of times u contact her? Would u like be more "Automatic"?
• Bianca

  25 Mar 03, 19:37

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  wah.didnt noe e guys here all so nice....
  i'm not thinking of breaking up any couple.i'm just curious to find out how do u ppl think.
  
  But haven u heard b4 e saying."It's all fair in love and war"? and u got to fight for ur happiness? Let's say a friend u have been goin out wif quite frequently and recently she became attached.n u dunno her bf.would u still ask her out or like keep talking to her?
  Or would u reduce the no. of times u contact her? Would u like be more "Automatic"?

  N have her BF come after you?
  N they would be having quarrels be'cuz of you?
  If I were you, I would tell her that I would wait for her, however, if things get better with her BF, then its ok, I would be happy for her, cuz if she is happy, I would be happy too. LOVE is SELFLESS!
  
  N I would only try to "woo" her after they have officially broke off!
  This is what I call "all's fair in love & war"
• skeujin

  25 Mar 03, 19:40

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  wah.didnt noe e guys here all so nice....
  i'm not thinking of breaking up any couple.i'm just curious to find out how do u ppl think.
  
  But haven u heard b4 e saying."It's all fair in love and war"? and u got to fight for ur happiness? Let's say a friend u have been goin out wif quite frequently and recently she became attached.n u dunno her bf.would u still ask her out or like keep talking to her?
  Or would u reduce the no. of times u contact her? Would u like be more "Automatic"?

  would u like some1 to hound yr gf?
• sgboy2004

  25 Mar 03, 19:46

  /mi take parang....
  
  whio...who is the one who do this...
  
  
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  Sumo sgboy2004
  
• mikechp

  25 Mar 03, 22:18

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  Would anyone here go after a guy/girl u really like even if u noe tat he/she has a bf or gf already? Lets assume that their relationship is getting along very well and not of those wanna break-up stage.
  
  Any opinion guys?
  
  

  Well, let's just say tat, being a 3rd party in a relationship won't get u far. Cos there's other influences other then the bf itself, even if their relationship is on the verge of breaking up. The girls family might think other else about u and will have a very bad impression of u and dislike u. I have been thru it b4 so trust me, 3rd party relationship seldom work out.
• mikechp

  25 Mar 03, 22:19

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  Would anyone here go after a guy/girl u really like even if u noe tat he/she has a bf or gf already? Lets assume that their relationship is getting along very well and not of those wanna break-up stage.
  
  Any opinion guys?
  
  

  Well, let's just say tat, being a 3rd party in a relationship won't get u far. Cos there's other influences other then the bf itself, even if their relationship is on the verge of breaking up. The girls family might think other else about u and will have a very bad impression of u and dislike u. I have been thru it b4 so trust me, 3rd party relationship seldom work out.
• cHeR|sH^LoVe

  25 Mar 03, 22:20

  i would never lor.. since they are already a couple n happily together.. i wan the one i like to live happily.. so i wun break them up .. but i will gif them my blessings.. n hope that the one i like is happy...
• Wind

  26 Mar 03, 02:59

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  But haven u heard b4 e saying."It's all fair in love and war"? and u got to fight for ur happiness? Let's say a friend u have been goin out wif quite frequently and recently she became attached.n u dunno her bf.would u still ask her out or like keep talking to her?
  Or would u reduce the no. of times u contact her? Would u like be more "Automatic"?

  Yes, definitely heard of it. But what I believe is, it is only fair before she has make her decision. 2 guys chasing after this girl, she gets to choose. One guy buys her a ring, the other folds her a gift, she gets to choose.
  
  And once her decision is made, the other guy has to give up. Everything after a fair fight.
• shandower

  26 Mar 03, 08:48

  Being a third party is simply lame.
• coverboy17

  26 Mar 03, 10:26

  wat i meant is not like 2 guys chasing a girl at the same time but a guy who goes after a girl even thou she's attached.
  
  ya..i agree.being 3rd party is totally lame.but sometimes things do happen rite? furthermore,if e guy doesnt noe his friend's bf well,then should be easier cos at least not much guilt rite?
  
  Hm...then can anyone share if u heard or come across personally or any friends who are 3rd parties or couples broken up by 3rd parties?
  
  
• BrenBren

  26 Mar 03, 10:37

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  Would anyone here go after a guy/girl u really like even if u noe tat he/she has a bf or gf already? Lets assume that their relationship is getting along very well and not of those wanna break-up stage.
  
  Any opinion guys?
  
  

  NO point be a 3rd party lah although it is alright to fight for your own happiness.
• loneryu00

  26 Mar 03, 12:49

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  wah.didnt noe e guys here all so nice....
  i'm not thinking of breaking up any couple.i'm just curious to find out how do u ppl think.
  
  But haven u heard b4 e saying."It's all fair in love and war"? and u got to fight for ur happiness? Let's say a friend u have been goin out wif quite frequently and recently she became attached.n u dunno her bf.would u still ask her out or like keep talking to her?
  Or would u reduce the no. of times u contact her? Would u like be more "Automatic"?

  If U woo an attached gal purely for da sake of like... like her, wanna be wif her & simple r/s stuffs, by all means go!
  BUT if U care for her & wan her to be happy? Better not...
• ace84

  27 Mar 03, 18:49

  er better dun try man...dun even think about it
  :
• sLaYeRgEr

  28 Mar 03, 21:26

  nah i wun.. i dun wan to break up other pple happiness... better keep it in ur heart...
• Mazohyst

  28 Mar 03, 22:05

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  Would anyone here go after a guy/girl u really like even if u noe tat he/she has a bf or gf already? Lets assume that their relationship is getting along very well and not of those wanna break-up stage.
  
  Any opinion guys?
  
  

  yeah... cuz i think her stead is a total bastard and treat her like crap. got chance can liaoz. but if im ok with her stead i dun think id do it...
• sgboy2004

  28 Mar 03, 22:06

  
  
  
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• [ X ] & [ L ]

  28 Mar 03, 23:09

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  Would anyone here go after a guy/girl u really like even if u noe tat he/she has a bf or gf already? Lets assume that their relationship is getting along very well and not of those wanna break-up stage.
  
  Any opinion guys?
  
  

  Hm.. if u like her why not.. but you wanna her be happy right.. So if she is happy with him. i guess let her be...
  
  But u can always show concern to her.. Let her know that no matter what u be there always for her...
  
  Until one day she realise that is someone who loves her so much and she is not treasuring it...
  
  lolcx...
• szehao

  29 Mar 03, 03:26

  difficult questions ...
  all depends on the situation
  
  yes and no
• PuRe-EviL

  29 Mar 03, 07:26

  Let things go naturally ... dun go and break them up intentionally ...
  Dun find fault with the guy just to prove that you are better ....
  You never know ... sometimes things just happen ...
• AzRaeL

  29 Mar 03, 09:22

  Originally posted by coverboy17:

  Would anyone here go after a guy/girl u really like even if u noe tat he/she has a bf or gf already? Lets assume that their relationship is getting along very well and not of those wanna break-up stage.
  
  Any opinion guys?
  
  

  only if the girl makes the first move on me