Hi ,i am a first time writer to this page ,so i juz wanna ask,and hopefully get some advice.....u see i've been attracted to this girl,"D" for the last 3 years of my life and have not given up hope on us being an item or shall i say a couple......well we write to each other regularly viaa email..and well i feel comfy with the situation at the moment.....but i want this thing to up a level. I have met her b4 and also work along side with her,i dont know why i kept in touch with her so long.....could it be a sense that tell me that she is the one,or could it be because i really have feeling for her and she is the one for me......please help me and advice me on this point...........I think of her everyday and not look at other girls cause i know she is the one for me.....so pls help...thank u.....
Pooch
Love I guess. Lust as in infatuation slowly fades away after some time.
peiyi
Originally posted by Pooch:
Love I guess. Lust as in infatuation slowly fades away after some time.
Sorry.. but I think that lust can last for a few years too. Dunoe lor. Hard to tell.
------------------ I'll be your friend for a lifetime. Against the wind and the rain of every season. Won't walk away from the hard times. I will be your friend!
moose
I would think that lust fades faster than love as lust is only a sexual feeling while love is a feeling of the heart,heheeh
------------------ It's take a second to look at my makan,a minute to finish my burger and a lifetime to enjoy all the food i want ~~~ Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz
nOrmalbOi
or maybe you love to lust????? or lust to love?????
probably love lar har?!?
stringray
Think shld be love
Heeheehee :p :p :p
------------------ * JuSt AnoTher StiNgrAy iN thE sEa *
frost
did u have any other desired on her b4 u think of being together wif her as steady?
if the desired get in the 1st place i guess is lust lor but if is the other way i believe is love lo
stringray
Who care.... As long as u truly love her
Heeheehee :p :p :p
------------------ * JuSt AnoTher StiNgrAy iN thE sEa *
fedora
LoveOrLust: It's love my friend. 3 years and still attracted? Meet only via email regularly? Whoa..she must be a special lady. =) If u're ever together, always tresure ur lady. Never get into a relationship JUST so that u can be in one..
moose
Ya, i've never heard of lust lasting that long,only love,heheehehe.So now it's up to you to tell this girl about your feelings for her and wish you the best,hehehe
------------------ It's take a second to look at my makan,a minute to finish my burger and a lifetime to enjoy all the food i want ~~~ Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz
mikegk_76
It's definitely love, ask your heart and ask her most importantly, wish you success.
------------------ Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off
aaron84z
Your situation is rather like mine actually .... but nvm, have you let her known that you like her yet ? It's better if you do... because it's been 3 long years right ? Tell her your feelings, and hope that she feels the same. Good Luck to you ! =)