Confuse feelings
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My 1st post, pls support!
My name is Edson, a few months ago I met a girl name Eve, I know I have feelings for her, but I know she dun like me, She and I belongs to 2 diff worlds, but why do I still like her? Well it canÂ’t be explain right? I never told her my feelings afraid that she might avoid me and end up in the end I canÂ’t even get to see her!
I know I canÂ’t be with her but I know as long as sheÂ’s happy, IÂ’m happy!
At the other hand, this girl name Helen, sheÂ’s was my Ex,
We break up a few years back, she was a nice girl and we had wonderful time together in the past! Thru her language I know she still have feelings for me. I also miss those wonderful times she given to me!
I know feelings canÂ’t be share, but Â…Â…Â….. IÂ’m really lost,
Does anyone ever have any similar Experience like this?
Should I start afresh with Helen and keep Eve in my heart till a day I forget about her? Or
Forget about Helen and continue to keep the feelings for Eve?
IÂ’ll be grad if someone here can help!
Thks.. -
Remain frens wif both Helen & Eve...Originally posted by Uin: My 1st post, pls support!
My name is Edson, a few months ago I met a girl name Eve, I know I have feelings for her, but I know she dun like me, She and I belongs to 2 diff worlds, but why do I still like her? Well it canÂ’t be explain right? I never told her my feelings afraid that she might avoid me and end up in the end I canÂ’t even get to see her!
I know I canÂ’t be with her but I know as long as sheÂ’s happy, IÂ’m happy!
At the other hand, this girl name Helen, sheÂ’s was my Ex,
We break up a few years back, she was a nice girl and we had wonderful time together in the past! Thru her language I know she still have feelings for me. I also miss those wonderful times she given to me!
I know feelings canÂ’t be share, but Â…Â…Â….. IÂ’m really lost,
Does anyone ever have any similar Experience like this?
Should I start afresh with Helen and keep Eve in my heart till a day I forget about her? Or
Forget about Helen and continue to keep the feelings for Eve?
IÂ’ll be grad if someone here can help!
Thks..
Ask yrself who U prefer? Who U happier wif? Being wif Eve or Helen is more feasible as in which is more possible...? Feelings r always there, dats kept in our memories...
But U really have to ask yrself who or WAT U really wan? -
Dear Uin,Originally posted by Uin: My 1st post, pls support!
My name is Edson, a few months ago I met a girl name Eve, I know I have feelings for her, but I know she dun like me, She and I belongs to 2 diff worlds, but why do I still like her? Well it canÂ’t be explain right? I never told her my feelings afraid that she might avoid me and end up in the end I canÂ’t even get to see her!
I know I canÂ’t be with her but I know as long as sheÂ’s happy, IÂ’m happy!
At the other hand, this girl name Helen, sheÂ’s was my Ex,
We break up a few years back, she was a nice girl and we had wonderful time together in the past! Thru her language I know she still have feelings for me. I also miss those wonderful times she given to me!
I know feelings canÂ’t be share, but Â…Â…Â….. IÂ’m really lost,
Does anyone ever have any similar Experience like this?
Should I start afresh with Helen and keep Eve in my heart till a day I forget about her? Or
Forget about Helen and continue to keep the feelings for Eve?
IÂ’ll be grad if someone here can help!
Thks..
A sentence to describe your predicament now?
You are trying to move forward, yet you are afraid what's in front ot you, though you pray for strength to persist and walk on and not wishing to return back to the old plains.
The reason why you are encountering such a dilemma is because you NEVER completely settle and conclude your old love - Helen - and a new potential came in. This lingering feeling and emotion wrapped your heart partially and regardless of whoever is to come, you will always have this soft spot for your ex. Look - it has already been years and yet you are still feeding on past memories.
Why did you both break in the first place since you did loved her so much? I am sure she didn't did things that foul the relationship badly like two-timing, etc - thats why you still held her deep within your heart, however think! - It has been years since the both of you went on separate ways - what makes you think she is the same Helen last time? Time change people change money talk... her feelings for you might not be = to yours to hers.
Advice?
I feel that people should all move forward instead of walking to and fro - you don't advance in this way. In the first place, if both really treasure the relation - breaking wouldn't have occur. The fact that it did is because conflicts that deemed and 'seemed' unsolvable and breaking off seemed to be the only option left. (For some rare case, maybe its better, but its only that 8%).
Eve and you belongs to two different world? That is a tricky part because people tend to stick with one another with similiar characteristic, etc. Unless God gave you a chance to speak with her, etc and she find you interesting and *WANTS* to know you better - you stand a better chance. If not - it would be rather difficult.
Phrase of the day: You never try, you never know - the only regrets in life is the things you never attempt to try.
Cheers -
What u have told me really make some sense,
But if i tell Eve how i feel, I'm afraid that we cant even be friends,
I treasure her alot! ... well at least for now i still can get to see her,chat with her, sms each other, but if she knows, all this will be gone. by then wat should i do?
she got quite a lot of admires hiaz... i'll really dun know wat i should do ....
Advice?
I feel that people should all move forward instead of walking to and fro - you don't advance in this way. In the first place, if both really treasure the relation - breaking wouldn't have occur. The fact that it did is because conflicts that deemed and 'seemed' unsolvable and breaking off seemed to be the only option left. (For some rare case, maybe its better, but its only that 8%).
Eve and you belongs to two different world? That is a tricky part because people tend to stick with one another with similiar characteristic, etc. Unless God gave you a chance to speak with her, etc and she find you interesting and *WANTS* to know you better - you stand a better chance. If not - it would be rather difficult.
Phrase of the day: You never try, you never know - the only regrets in life is the things you never attempt to try.
Cheers [/b][/quote] -
Originally posted by Uin:What u have told me really make some sense,
But if i tell Eve how i feel, I'm afraid that we cant even be friends,
I treasure her alot! ... well at least for now i still can get to see her,chat with her, sms each other, but if she knows, all this will be gone. by then wat should i do?
she got quite a lot of admires hiaz... i'll really dun know wat i should do ....
Cheers Don't have to tell her about your liking for no reasons right? Try to woo first. Get close, etc - without spilling the beans, yet. Until when the time is right - you could post it here again and we shall see what can be done by then.
Cheers -
[/b][/quote]Originally posted by Uin:What u have told me really make some sense,
But if i tell Eve how i feel, I'm afraid that we cant even be friends,
I treasure her alot! ... well at least for now i still can get to see her,chat with her, sms each other, but if she knows, all this will be gone. by then wat should i do?
she got quite a lot of admires hiaz... i'll really dun know wat i should do ....
Hm... Well go slow with e both of them for a while.. C how things develop along e way.. but u must 1st know what ur heart is with. Nv nv rush love otherwise both will get hurt badly...
And pls dun go woo EVE and got rejeceted den go 4 helen..
Dun make her a spare tyre..
If u let her go lert her go completely...
All e best Cheers...