Wat is ur view for this.
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If u going after a girl for certain time...and then u ask her to be ur gf..she reply No for many occasion. And then becos there is another girl that like to talk and look for u everytime ...she (the girl that u after )then give u the answer yes ,she want to be ur gf..but after she gave the answer ..she don't to have a chat with u or go out with u. She give all sort of reason which u think she is avoiding u...
So wat do ppl think? -
I think that this girl is spoilt as she is adopting a "if i can't have it,no one else can" attitude which clearly shows her sense of selfishness
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Question 1: Why she say yes?
Question 2: Why you persist when she keep rejecting?
Question 3: Why her?
Question 4: Why not be freer without her?
Sure got someone better for you to love and to hold. Have heart and body too,... (u know the Chinese way of saying it lah).
In the future, you'll look back and ask yourself:
Question 5: Why on earth did I think of dating her?
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Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret. -- A. Bierce -
anywhere thks for the advise...it quite miserable when she treat me that way after giving the answer yes...b4 the answer she also act as she is interested in u. that why i persist. Only when my friend told me that she just lead u on and play on ur feeling...Originally posted by Ixion:Question 1: Why she say yes?
She said it time loh....which I believed that not the answer
Question 2: Why you persist when she keep rejecting?
Actually after several no...i aslo sian liao...start looking for a better one
Question 3: Why her?
Well....love at first sight
Question 4: Why not be freer without her?
yap...i'm free now free from her and all the trouble
Sure got someone better for you to love and to hold. Have heart and body too,... (u know the Chinese way of saying it lah).
In the future, you'll look back and ask yourself:
Question 5: Why on earth did I think of dating her?
yap...why i dat her...? -
You should give the other girl a chance and make her really jealous. I don't think she loves you at all. Just trying to play u out. It depends on what type of person you are. Some ppl will play her out back.
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Like what ppl say...gal when accept to be your gf doesnt mean she likes you.
She may say 'YES' but then she doesnt even show any commitment in the relationship.
In your case, it sound to me she regret after saying yes that why she avoid you.
Solution 1: Drag her out and bash her to mash.
Solution 2: Call her and tell her what is going wrong.Be prepare for a disappointment.
Solution 3: Ask your most Yandao friend to seduce her and break her heart and get the satisfaction....>=P (It Works!)
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first of all, i feel that the girl u are interested in is jus toying with yr feelings. i dun think she is serious when she agreed to be yr gf. most relationships start on a high note. no newly attached will not want to talk/ go out with her loved one.Originally posted by failure:If u going after a girl for certain time...and then u ask her to be ur gf..she reply No for many occasion. And then becos there is another girl that like to talk and look for u everytime ...she (the girl that u after )then give u the answer yes ,she want to be ur gf..but after she gave the answer ..she don't to have a chat with u or go out with u. She give all sort of reason which u think she is avoiding u...
So wat do ppl think?
i think u should tell her what u r feeling, and if she still persists, u should give her up, to avoid hurting yrself more.
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probably she feel threatened by the gal at the first place, then rush to say YES for fear of losing something, but then she thought over it that she doesn't love u but can't bear to tell u for fear that u think she's cheating on u, so she choose to avoid u...
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i tink she jus dun want to lose e attention tat u haf been giving her when u were chasing her...u noe...those everyday calls...n ur concern fer her!!~u noe..gers like attention mahz!!!!=Pp...personally,i tink shes taking u fer granted loh...=)
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why there such thing happen to mi. when i give my full attention on her and yet she did this to me. it really hurt mi a lots ....
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It does not happens to you only.
As long as you are like the rest of us...average looking and your pocket doesnt stuff wif rolls of $. I guess you are in our club. One piece of advice: know the gal well before plunging in. Understand her past relationship and find out what type of bfs she had.(I dont mean those 1 week type) That is most probably the type of guys she likes.From there you can guage your chance.
P.S dont fake out the type of guy she likes!
[This message has been edited by weez (edited 06 June 2000).]