Are men from Mars or from Pluto?

• fedora

  3 Jun 00, 15:45

  This is a stupid question.
  
  Do men cry? When and why do they cry?
  Why do they break up with someone even though they say they still care abt her, and caring abt her has become part of their life?
• jliu

  4 Jun 00, 14:49

  Men cry because they cant scream.
  They cry when they are sad.
  ***
  Hey! Let's meet at this place, this point in time
  You look great, in your clothing, hair and all.
  I can't wait to tell you what happened to me the other day,
  the things we can discuss, anything under the sun.
  
  Let's eat at this place, oh, pick your choice
  how do you want your dinner? Oily or salty?
  Don't be distracted by the people, noise, colours and TV
  Enjoy your meal, fill your stomach to the full
  
  Let's go window shopping, with glee and joy
  I tell you which is the best in price,
  Value for money
  Let our eyes feast on the merchandise
  
  Let's go to the arcade, we can go in for a ride
  I teach you how to play my favourite games
  Oh sit back and watch me, how I beat the previous score
  You'll be amused by my dexterity.
  
  If you're not very tired, we can watch a movie
  I'd already booked two tickets, for you and me
  We can share a snack, munching in the dark,
  You can laugh at this scene, while I sit back and ween
  
  Show's over, you say it's time to go home
  I thought we could have a chat in the cafeteria
  You gave me a time and place for the next time we meet
  I send you home, waving a goodbye..finally.
  ***
• UgLy BuT AdOrabLe

  4 Jun 00, 15:25

  Dear Fedora,
  Sometimes, when Love is gone, means love is gone...but feelings are something u can never wipe off, it'll always be deep down in ur heart
• fedora

  4 Jun 00, 22:53

  But doesnt breaking up mean a total cut of feelings an emotions?
• challenge

  4 Jun 00, 23:32

  Originally posted by fedora:

  This is a stupid question.
  
  Do men cry? When and why do they cry?
  Why do they break up with someone even though they say they still care abt her, and caring abt her has become part of their life?

  Men are still human!
  Loving someone doesn't mean owning that person!!!
  When it is time to let go it is time~
  That is life!
  
• challenge

  4 Jun 00, 23:35

  Originally posted by fedora:

  This is a stupid question.
  
  Do men cry? When and why do they cry?
  Why do they break up with someone even though they say they still care abt her, and caring abt her has become part of their life?

  Men are still human!
  Loving someone doesn't mean owning that person!!!
  When it is time to let go it is time~
  That is life!
  
• CyberNut

  5 Jun 00, 18:33

  Originally posted by fedora:

  But doesnt breaking up mean a total cut of feelings an emotions?

  In a serious breaking up often isn't a total break from feelings and emotions, although they were meant to be. Instead, they are usually happen because 2 individual feel that they can no longer carry on, bound to each other by faith. But feelings lives on, sometimes hidden in a corner of your heart, but nevertheless, very much alive.
  
  
• SNAFU

  5 Jun 00, 19:47

  Men Sux ...BIG TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  And they do CRY ...like a BABY tooo ... even in IRC.
  
  They r worst then WOMAN!!!!!!!!
• fedora

  5 Jun 00, 21:31

  In all the 2 years we're together, I've never felt that I 'own' him. Love is just not 'owning'. I gave (past tense*sad*)him space to grow and encouraged him to pursue the things that he likes. I always believe that in a relationship, each must compliment each other, they should help each other to grow and bloom.
  
  Now, he has chose to leave me. Hard as it is, I can only accept that. All that I know I can do is to hope that fate will bring us together again.
  
  It is his reasons that I find it very difficult to accept...he said that he wants to be alone. Be alone from what? Me?
  
  In all the 2 years that we've been together, we've never had a major quarrel. Our relationship was (arghs, past tense) based on trust and understanding each other. If either one of us wanted a certain thing to be done a certain way, we'll comprimise.
  
  Now, I simply don't know anymore. I still love him. I asked him if he loved me. He didn't say no, he didn't say yes. He said he doesn't know.
  
  He's flying off for some training next month for 3 months. He maybe flying off for 2 years for training as well. I've told him that I will wait for him and I know that I can. But, I just don't know why he's brushing me off...
  
  So sad.