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Actually i just broke up with my ex two weeks back.. Actually we still goin out happily and stuff but i did not speak out my truth feeling to patch back.. Now she is attached with another guy but i feel that she still have feeling for mi but partly is my fault that i neglected her quite a lot.. Anyone can tel mi will she still have feeling for mi? She did say she agree the guy but i think she did nt really love her.. Wat should i do.. We have being for the past 3 yrs and the guy is just only recently then noe.. In her facebk she put open r/s with him but not r/s.. I really miss her but dunno wat i should do.. Hope u guys can help
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well, firstly, yes its your fault for neglecting.
its definitely she has feelings for you.since she is attached to the other guy, i doubt you might have chances.try your luck, tell her things can work out again.
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Look, if you have found a replacement like she did, you would not be posting here.
Give her a chance to try out other r/s, and you go and try out other r/s too.
Every r/s means you are closer and closer to your ideal.
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Well, if you dun have the guts to tell her your feelings... no use posting online as none of us is her and do not know her feelings.... if you fear rejection. leave her alone on her new venture then.
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Originally posted by sentinus:
Actually i just broke up with my ex two weeks back.. Actually we still goin out happily and stuff but i did not speak out my truth feeling to patch back.. Now she is attached with another guy but i feel that she still have feeling for mi but partly is my fault that i neglected her quite a lot.. Anyone can tel mi will she still have feeling for mi? She did say she agree the guy but i think she did nt really love her.. Wat should i do.. We have being for the past 3 yrs and the guy is just only recently then noe.. In her facebk she put open r/s with him but not r/s.. I really miss her but dunno wat i should do.. Hope u guys can help
Masturbate and get over her.Don't waste your time over anyone who makes you feel that they still likes you but didn't make the choice to be together with you.
When we like a guy, we really like a guy enough to go through all odds to be together with him.
When we do something like this to you, it means we're showing kindness to you and don't want to hurt your feelings.
3 years together and yet you are unable to keep her by your side, that's really very useless of you ok?
Remember this statement above, cos that's me showing kindness to you ok?
You know I'm a kind and gentle girl who wouldn't do anything to hurt any guys.
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its never useless on male's part not being able to keep sg gal by your side - even though how much u tried or not tried.
put it this way, love is blind and she may found someone out of blindness and that her loss for not seeing clearly. kindness has never been in sluts dictionary - they are only concerned with their own security and advantage.
move on and get better out of your life - there is only one way to prove it - thats your career comes first. All mothers will tell you that and only that could your chances be maximized because and only because men's attractiveness index is in reality a measure of their career. sadly, nothing else. this is how govt condoned and spoiled sluts to perceive men in this way.
Leave the sluts continually blind...but you must be clear - remember only you could use and exploit sluts to your advantage. its a skill that you will up along the way.
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Originally posted by sentinus:
Actually i just broke up with my ex two weeks back.. Actually we still goin out happily and stuff but i did not speak out my truth feeling to patch back.. Now she is attached with another guy but i feel that she still have feeling for mi but partly is my fault that i neglected her quite a lot.. Anyone can tel mi will she still have feeling for mi? She did say she agree the guy but i think she did nt really love her.. Wat should i do.. We have being for the past 3 yrs and the guy is just only recently then noe.. In her facebk she put open r/s with him but not r/s.. I really miss her but dunno wat i should do.. Hope u guys can help
Since she has chose another guy, it is time for you to move on as well.
There is no point in lingering over the past - It is possible that she may return back to you in time to come, but you will never be able to know for sure. Thus, rather than wasting your own time waiting, try to get over her, and put your focus on other stuffs in your life.
As a side note, if she really feels that you are not spending enough time with her, she could have voice it out, but she didn't. That makes one wonder if this is really a valid reason, or rather, the true reason, for her to leave you.
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Originally posted by mancha:
Look, if you have found a replacement like she did, you would not be posting here.
Give her a chance to try out other r/s, and you go and try out other r/s too.
Every r/s means you are closer and closer to your ideal.
Not entirely true that every r/s means you are closer and closer.@TS: Well choose: move on or wait, right? If her new s/o does not go well. You have a rare second chance. But if she moves on, so should you. Just do wait for nothing. If she has feelings for you, she will tell you not to wait and will just be close friends.
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the New Man thrives on his own without the trappings of sluts approval or perception of their ideal man. That thinking is deeply erroneous and the greatest challenge of all is to break free from these sluts and be on your own Man - no matter what happens - whether she stay or she leaves.
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a guy pending for sluts approval of how he should behave or think to become a gentleman is nauseous.
there is no need for any prefix before the word man. whether u r good or bad, sluts will swoon like nonsense fleas...the moment u r trapped within their approval or perception, these sluts will lose your respect u as a man.
break free, bro! be a Man without sluts' approval. she can wait but not you, buddy.
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u have a magic mountain waiting for you to accomplish in life- dun ever waste your precious time with sluts, who may one day divorce u and take all your money and run with a richer man....
buddy, make your life's mountain a magic...be a man with or without them...
for sluts...only what Ris said is quite true of herself and others like her...knnbccb
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if old jackie chan with his large nose could trap so many pretty sluts with his "charisma", it only tell us the greatest truth about MAN.
make your life rich, your magic mountain will be so rich with many sluts willing to strip it all bare for you...
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
its never useless on male's part not being able to keep sg gal by your side - even though how much u tried or not tried.
put it this way, love is blind and she may found someone out of blindness and that her loss for not seeing clearly. kindness has never been in sluts dictionary - they are only concerned with their own security and advantage.
move on and get better out of your life - there is only one way to prove it - thats your career comes first. All mothers will tell you that and only that could your chances be maximized because and only because men's attractiveness index is in reality a measure of their career. sadly, nothing else. this is how govt condoned and spoiled sluts to perceive men in this way.
Leave the sluts continually blind...but you must be clear - remember only you could use and exploit sluts to your advantage. its a skill that you will up along the way.
Yes such guys are useless if not completely and totally useless if they need to defend so intensively about it.That means there is some truth to what I've said or that's actually just the only real but cruel truth which constantly threatens the manhood of all mankind.
And why would your mother lie to you when she married your father even before he had a successful career and not because he had a career.
Sluts are mythical creatures created by guys who couldn't get any girls or who aren't man enough to admit that they are just not good enough for the girls that they are after or interested in.
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
its never useless on male's part not being able to keep sg gal by your side - even though how much u tried or not tried.
put it this way, love is blind and she may found someone out of blindness and that her loss for not seeing clearly. kindness has never been in sluts dictionary - they are only concerned with their own security and advantage.
move on and get better out of your life - there is only one way to prove it - thats your career comes first. All mothers will tell you that and only that could your chances be maximized because and only because men's attractiveness index is in reality a measure of their career. sadly, nothing else. this is how govt condoned and spoiled sluts to perceive men in this way.
Leave the sluts continually blind...but you must be clear - remember only you could use and exploit sluts to your advantage. its a skill that you will up along the way.
*thumbup*
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suppose to be over .
maybe start a new life without her then
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Originally posted by sentinus:
Actually i just broke up with my ex two weeks back.. Actually we still goin out happily and stuff but i did not speak out my truth feeling to patch back.. Now she is attached with another guy but i feel that she still have feeling for mi but partly is my fault that i neglected her quite a lot.. Anyone can tel mi will she still have feeling for mi? She did say she agree the guy but i think she did nt really love her.. Wat should i do.. We have being for the past 3 yrs and the guy is just only recently then noe.. In her facebk she put open r/s with him but not r/s.. I really miss her but dunno wat i should do.. Hope u guys can help
For the past couple of years, you have had your chances. But you blew it.
Now you regret because you realised you are not the only dick around that can satisfy her.
Move on dude.
This is a difficult lesson to learn.
Many men who knows how to cherish their partners are those who had like you.. lost one before.
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
its never useless on male's part not being able to keep sg gal by your side - even though how much u tried or not tried.
put it this way, love is blind and she may found someone out of blindness and that her loss for not seeing clearly. kindness has never been in sluts dictionary - they are only concerned with their own security and advantage.
move on and get better out of your life - there is only one way to prove it - thats your career comes first. All mothers will tell you that and only that could your chances be maximized because and only because men's attractiveness index is in reality a measure of their career. sadly, nothing else. this is how govt condoned and spoiled sluts to perceive men in this way.
Leave the sluts continually blind...but you must be clear - remember only you could use and exploit sluts to your advantage. its a skill that you will up along the way.
Another mommy's boy..how pathetic.
Yah I know.. your mother is also a SLUT. The one person whom is suppose to teach you love and acceptance, has taught you hatred and infused infinite insecurity in her own son.
No wonder you like SLUTs so much.
Fortunately, only sluts like your mommy will be attracted to you.
Well.. good luck finding a mommy replacement to be intimate with dude. Yuck.
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Originally posted by sentinus:
Actually i just broke up with my ex two weeks back.. Actually we still goin out happily and stuff but i did not speak out my truth feeling to patch back.. Now she is attached with another guy but i feel that she still have feeling for mi but partly is my fault that i neglected her quite a lot.. Anyone can tel mi will she still have feeling for mi? She did say she agree the guy but i think she did nt really love her.. Wat should i do.. We have being for the past 3 yrs and the guy is just only recently then noe.. In her facebk she put open r/s with him but not r/s.. I really miss her but dunno wat i should do.. Hope u guys can help
my opinion will be to give your last shot, no harm. apologise wholehartedly to her that you have negleted her n u actually still luv her. she might be going out with another guy to spite u s u have not showered her enough attention.if she says that she has no longer any feelings for you, then u should juz forget about this relationship and move on with life.
p/s: sumtimes it juz takes for a breakup to realise how important the special one is to you and how you might have neglected her/him
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Another mommy's boy..how pathetic.
Yah I know.. your mother is also a SLUT. The one person whom is suppose to teach you love and acceptance, has taught you hatred and infused infinite insecurity in her own son.
No wonder you like SLUTs so much.
Fortunately, only sluts like your mommy will be attracted to you.
Well.. good luck finding a mommy replacement to be intimate with dude. Yuck.
I love your subtlety
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You can try getting back with her. But honestly, if you are the one who screwed up by neglecting her, I have a feeling you would have a tough time convincing her. Nevertheless, you can always try...
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She's not a fool.
You neglected her.
You think she would believe you changed
You can pamper her, for a short while, then you would go back to neglecting her.
The next three years won't be different from the previous three years.
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You dont miss her = what you miss is her appreciation and what she says about u. It that is what it is all about - then know this lah - it is not love and it was never love.
Beggarly love has nothing to offer excepting exploiting each other (trading is more apt) to no end till one or the other feels stifled and the one who knows may reconcile and communicate; the one that is ignorant to what is happening within oneself - would escape and find ways and means to escape the bondage of relationship!
Perhaps, what you may need to be is SELF-honest about what you are when you are not with her. What you are when u are not with or or doing ''stuff'' with her is the REAL you.