what should i do to keep a friend who is very important but yet that person says she is not going to forgive because she insists i threaten her where it was just a conversation?i feel malign but i dunno how to tell her that i did NOT threaten her at all..but she dun believe..so what should i do so she can forgive me?please..no silly ans..cause it's very important for me to clear things up..or should i just let thing be at it is..and move on..
why is that guy friend important to you?
friends come and go.....today's friend can be an enemy and vice versa. Nothing is constant, for it is the only form of change.
and tension is inevitable among best friends, try to reflect on your own behaviour and if you are really wrong, say sorry, That defuses a lot of the tension. Of course, if you really cannot give in, then move on. Simple.
Clear things up with him/her again if you do not want to let go of this friendship. Otherwise give it some time for things to dillute
more details pls.....
wat convo? wat threaten?
She says she was threatened by you. She insist you threatened her. So be it. Although you are puzzled by it.
Most likely you did not meant it, or even aware of it. But she perceived as such. As far as she is concerned, you did threatened her. OK, so apologize to her, tell you did not meant it. Keep it simple, do not try to elaborate, like I elaborate here. Just say sorry, you didn't realize you threatened her. Full stop.
The next move is hers, for her to accept your apology and forgive you. If she don't, then dump her. She is not friendship material.
Don't let her blackmail you too. You just need to say sorry. Don't let her extract a compensation from you. If she does, dump her too. She is not worth your friendship.
But if she accepts your apology, freely without condition, you may give her a gift.
Originally posted by themoment86:what should i do to keep a friend who is very important but yet that person says she is not going to forgive because she insists i threaten her where it was just a conversation?i feel malign but i dunno how to tell her that i did NOT threaten her at all..but she dun believe..so what should i do so she can forgive me?please..no silly ans..cause it's very important for me to clear things up..or should i just let thing be at it is..and move on..
It will be better if you tell us the full story.
You could have said something incredibly nasty without realising it yourself - or you are too use to saying such things that you did not realise that they are threats to a certain extent.
Get someone you are close to and whom she is close to as well, to find out what exactly you said back then.