Can't get along with family
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I can't get along with my mother and sister, just can't. my mom and sister really same pattern one, so disorganised and messy, really, while I am organised and like cleanliness.
My mother always want to know what I am doing and thinking.when I was young, she likes to control me, which I refused to let her control me. I do not know why is she such a control freak. maybe she over-concerned me, which I feel I needed a space.
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yr mum and mine same pattern de.
learn to switch off, stay away fm home/them, or move out (if you are financially independent)
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Family is overated. Who needs it
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Hmmmm at a time like this...
I wonder if italy gonna win world cup since Totti is currently unstable...
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well, one possible thing is to communicate. not those one word thing but do it properly. tell them what you want, and let them talk too. the key is to let it out, but importantly, u must learn to listen also. at least state your ground like a mature individual.
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moms are like tt
one day when u become mom u will know
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You must be the bad sheep in the household.
Mothers don't try to control goody sons.
Your mother is just trying to REIN you in.
Try behaving like a normal boy.. she will leave you alone.
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Originally posted by Franceso Totti:
I can't get along with my mother and sister, just can't. my mom and sister really same pattern one, so disorganised and messy, really, while I am organised and like cleanliness.
My mother always want to know what I am doing and thinking.when I was young, she likes to control me, which I refused to let her control me. I do not know why is she such a control freak. maybe she over-concerned me, which I feel I needed a space.
Cleanliness-wise, I will say it will be difficult to make your mother change. Since she is a disorganised and messy person, you will just have to be her good son and clean up her mess.
Most mothers will try to "control" their children, though there are those who go really overboard doing so. Just tell your mother to give you your own space. If she doesn't buldge, then as luvcfood suggested, you can move out if you can find somewhere else to stay.
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Originally posted by luvcfood:
yr mum and mine same pattern de.
learn to switch off, stay away fm home/them, or move out (if you are financially independent)
is that how you and your mom get along now? so I suppose you have moved out of the house already?
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
Hmmmm at a time like this...
I wonder if italy gonna win world cup since Totti is currently unstable...
I am stable, so is england going to win world cup liao?
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Be patient.
Everyday plan to get your own place.
Visualise owning your own home.
Then subconsciously you will work towards it.
And then wahla!, you will have a place of your own.
Meanwhile bear with it.
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move out
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can i fuck ur mother n sister,TS?
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Originally posted by Franceso Totti:
I can't get along with my mother and sister, just can't. my mom and sister really same pattern one, so disorganised and messy, really, while I am organised and like cleanliness.
My mother always want to know what I am doing and thinking.when I was young, she likes to control me, which I refused to let her control me. I do not know why is she such a control freak. maybe she over-concerned me, which I feel I needed a space.
ha, my mommy is like your mommy too.
but think about it, after all she is the one who gave birth to you.think of your mommy's love.shes just concern about you luh.
ignore your sister.probably she too young to understand you. -
Too much differences i guess, Lifestyle difference etc etc. Moving out might be a good option. But dont forget, she is still your mother, and your sister is still family. Blood is still thicker than water. Go back for dinners and etc, family is still the best after all.
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Originally posted by brainerror:
ha, my mommy is like your mommy too.
but think about it, after all she is the one who gave birth to you.think of your mommy's love.shes just concern about you luh.
ignore your sister.probably she too young to understand you.so how you deal with your mom one?
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then you can get along with ur father or not?
cant get along also must get along. y? because they are your family. you need to talk with them about what you feel to communicate better
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Originally posted by nature-ones:
then you can get along with ur father or not?
cant get along also must get along. y? because they are your family. you need to talk with them about what you feel to communicate better
so you live happily ever after with your family, must be right
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Move out when you can. If you still cannot, LLST. No choice. Go army also must LLST. Take this opportunity as your pre-army training, haha!