Issit possible......
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............to stay happy alwayz?
i mean as in, dunno leh.....as in....eh......not ever being sad lo. and when u are ever sad, think happy thoughts to entertain urself and prevent urself from being sad. issit possible??
issit healthy to be always happy and NEVER sad or angry?? =( -
As usual the first to post... hee hee.. sorry.. promised to gif way to u, but this time it's u who started it, so mi turn to haf my say...
I dun think it is possible to be happy always. But we can try to make most of our lives a happy one. Face wif a problem?? not easy to be happy at first, but if u choose to be happy becoz u are going to take up a challenge, and learn things from it, u will be happy to tackle the problem too.
I dun think it's unhealthy to be happy all the time. But I think it's good to feel sad, angry and envious at times too. Becoz we are bestow wif these feelings when we are born. Having to experience these kind of feelings will make me feel that u r more human. If not, u will like rather like one of those poor spastic children. Unable to understand one's own feelings. Dunno wat is sad when ur gf/bf leaves u. Not to mention worse things that could happen, like deaths. Feeling angry, will bring out this fighting spirit in u, telling pple not to bully u.. it's good. Being jealous means u care for someone u love. For instance, if someone whom u love is being taken away from u, feeling a tinge of jealousy prove much much the person is in ur heart.
I would say that showing a bit of anger, depression and jealousy is a good sign, but most importantly when it comes to Happiness.. pls dun be too stingy, becoz only a smile from u can repay the smile given to u. If not that latter will haf a bad day, becoz he has failed to bring joy to u. SMILE PPLE!!!!
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
If you are not sad how will you know what is happy?
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Just another girl next door~ -
If you are not sad how will you know what is happy?
Agreed.. very true... Simple and sweet way of telling pple wat is happiness...
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
Juz be OPTIMISTIC...think of the best it can happen to u...........then u won't feel sad......
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No One Special:
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If you are not sad how will you know what is happy? "
hey, i like ur saying. =) hen you dao li...
to me, it's actually like a pail of water. easily explained in the sense of pouring water into it. u can't keep pouring water into the pail, coz it does not have an infinite volume to hold all the water, and therefore, it will overflow sometime. how does it link ah? eh....in a sense, u can't always be happy lo.....there will come this time when something will get u down. true, u can try to think more optimistically, and stuffs, but somehow, the sadness will still be there lo. agree? =) -
Cheemalogy... no wonder I don't study philosophy, but psychology...
Arh!!! But I haf another explanation using your pail of water theory... When you are young, is just like the pail is empty.. Water pouring represents the feelings received. When young, you happily contain all the feelings in you, not obhtering if they are happy or not. When the pail begins to over flow and could no more contain excessive water, you also start to throw out feelings which are disturbing to you... Some happy moments which was initially inside u also get flushed out becoz you begin to see a change in the person, who made u happy and now make you sad. How's that??
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
hmmz ... when you're happy always, you won't find the need to upgrade and improve yourself like when you're envious.
when you feel anger for a person, you'll try to outdo him in everything you do, unlike when you're happy with no feelings like the above attached.
SO be happy, but keep a little feelings of envy and anger in you ? lolz -
bear: hey kewl! u provided another pov to my illustration. =))) c how diff we look at things?
aaron84z: agreed.....anyway, dun u think that if we were to remain happy always, it'd sorta be rather monotonous in the sense that there's no change in the emotional level lo. okok, one can be mildly happy, or elated or esctatic, but still u need other feelings to be able to enhance the feeling of happiness rite? =) -
aaron84: same same thinking...
t|red: that's y we are all humans all unique to one another... Next time can apply it when necessary, when u console r frens... Actually me learning more of this kind of philosophy so that can give my frens more things to think about rather than their problem and also make them think sense...
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
understooded. =)