How to tackle a gal whom I have not contacted for a long lon
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Really need help from U ppl man!!!!!
Really a tough nut to crack !!!
Try to contact her directly on phone but scared(definitely) tongue tied!!!
Then no way to ask her out man!!!!!
So how?????AGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! -
Does she have a email add???Originally posted by muneric:Really need help from U ppl man!!!!!
Really a tough nut to crack !!!
Try to contact her directly on phone but scared(definitely) tongue tied!!!
Then no way to ask her out man!!!!!
So how?????AGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!
Contact her thru email........it's much better than 2 tok 2 her on the phone..... -
pick up the courage and call her. if you dun, she'll nver noe. do it now, better than regret it in the future. rem, you are still young now, many things are still within your control...
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Well... you still have: -
1) Mirc
2) ICQ
3) E-mail
4) Get a friend to ask for you
other than the phone.
Good Luck! Go get her!
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When the visions around you, Bring tears to your eyes and all that surrounds you,
Are secrets and lies I'll be your strength,
I'll give you hope, Keeping your faith when it's gone The one you should call,
Is standing here all alone...
Essence of Innocence, Dragonlance -
Wah dragonlance you sound very aggressive
Anyway.....Muneric i advise you to go after her now and better be fast! Or you will regret for the rest of your life hehehehe
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ChIcKeN FeEt Soup
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If u find that emailing her is far too slow to get her attention.. jus call her up... Juz treat her as a normal casual fren. If u r going to think that u want to 'chase' her I think u r going to put extra stress on urself. anyway I think if u r treating her as a casual fren in the beginning, she will not reject u that easily.
Furthermore, pple change and it's good that if u go and find out if she is still the 'pure good good' ger for u...
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
Be Aggressive *hahaa* and i agree, the faster the better or else you might regret it for the rest of your life.
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Forbidden Love - ¤ß¨Æ
The stretch of my memory is rolling as a snowball accumulating regret. My imagination of warmth is elusive. Walking towards a desert with no colour, I'm wishing as I'm looking into an ocean of still tears. Tinted and cracked plaster is what's left in me.
I hear suffocated memories and looking at forgotten voices. My hopes all lowly lit,closing in,the edge of Darkness?
The answer falling; the muscles strained,the eyes died; the wounds wide.
Essence Of Innocence, Dragonlance -
i have the same problem with you. so i guess the best way is to call her even though you have nothing to say. It is more sincere as wat i think.
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Forgiven is a true way to long lasting love. -
Dunno why hor.....Guys' attitude to relationship nowadays is "chase fast fast else she'll be gone".
What happened to the good old romance of going slowly after a girl you desire? -
Think my idea is a different kind. Mi is to slowly boil slowly boil, to get all the essence of love to it's peak.. hee hee.. She may get attached in the midst of ur courtship, but if u r persistance enuff and continue ur to pursue ur dreams of making her ur wife, I think it's worth it.Originally posted by Ferret:Dunno why hor.....Guys' attitude to relationship nowadays is "chase fast fast else she'll be gone".
What happened to the good old romance of going slowly after a girl you desire?
To understand her. To find out urself if she is really the one for u. U want to make the girl ur wife rite? So u really haf to think abt it really carefully in every aspect if she is suitable for u. If u dun want to make her ur wife, then forget it manz!!! If u for play play for fun.... U r not even fit to haf a relationship at all..
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
nono... Ferrey. What i said was for muneric to get in touch with her as soon as possible not for him to go and chase her to be his girlfriend. *sorrY* if i caused misunderstandings....
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From the Heart~*
I will protect and respect you and all you need, and when you reach for love you only need to reach for me. These arms will never let you down, they are staying around. I want the you through every storm, I'll keep you safe and warm. I have no doubt, that you are the one i am living for. From the heart, I am giving you everything, and from the heart, I'll be there to love you. From the soul, I am showing you all that I am feeling.
Essence Of Innocence, Dragonlance -
I agree what u say.. abt the boiling theory.. Mine was slightly overboiled... too rushed to confess everything to each other. After this lesson I told myself to take time to know each other and try not to rush things coz the sweetness may get vapoured quickly..Originally posted by Bear:Think my idea is a different kind. Mi is to slowly boil slowly boil, to get all the essence of love to it's peak.. hee hee.. She may get attached in the midst of ur courtship, but if u r persistance enuff and continue ur to pursue ur dreams of making her ur wife, I think it's worth it.
To understand her. To find out urself if she is really the one for u. U want to make the girl ur wife rite? So u really haf to think abt it really carefully in every aspect if she is suitable for u. If u dun want to make her ur wife, then forget it manz!!! If u for play play for fun.... U r not even fit to haf a relationship at all..
I thought of rekindling love but felt that it was impossible coz I was too scared. -
yea we should just take everything slow and easy ? Why rush everything ... sometimes it does you nothing but harm...
As an Alternative, you should just call her as she don't know you likes her. My position is much worse as the girl i'm supposed to call ... she knows. That's why i still haven't called yet ... *aw* -
butterflyer,
I dun think it will be over-boiled. There's definitely some places which both of u haben touched before. Even in ur daily life, there are things that u wun want to tell her... Even of u have confessed everything,u shld look at the honesty between the 2 of u.. It shows a strong foundation. Not many couples are able to tell each other every thing. And being honest to each other, u pple will have a better trust for each other, which is good becoz trust plays a very huge part in a relationship. Seldom pple achieve this far. even for married couples. There are couples who dun share their probs wif each other. This is real bad, becoz as a married couple, u r suppose to share, u aren't married becoz u want to gif up ur bachelor or spinster degree rite??
Get him/her back.. becoz both of u made it this far. Dun expect it to haf surprises like it was at the beginning. Both of u haf been together for so long to know each other. Long term relationships are not that easy to maintain, but they are worthwhile.. Just think back all the way u came and things haf change. Think u will be recalling all the funny incidents, and memories.. 8-)
aaron,
urs is even eaiser.. if she likes u and will be waiting for u to call her. It only takes courage to dial that 7 numbers. esp the last one. Anyway like I say, slowly boil, even when she knows about u, just chat over the fone like frens. to get to know her better... no harm done...
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Treat her like a soccer ball to tackle... be persistent!!
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PLS LOOK AT THE DATE BEFORE U START POSTING...
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hahah, gd shot there, its abt 2 yrs ago.., wonder wat they had becum, lolxOriginally posted by WinBoi84:PLS LOOK AT THE DATE BEFORE U START POSTING...
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just call.. say hi ..... how are u ... been a long time i haven't contact u ... just call up to see u are fine.......
then start to talk about your old friends that both of u know... trying to see if she still got contact them ( excuses to extend the talking ) then say maybe hint 'when u are free like to meet up '..
then meet up lor.. if she s your old friend she will meet u up lah ... -
[color=red]Tongue-tied? Use SMS lor....fast and easy way to get your message across clear and loud....