does he really love mi?

yuppiez

21 Sep 00, 18:49

i have a bf...and we dun really have the 'kind' of love which normally most couple will have...when we meet he will juz be horny and so on... sometimes i dunno whether i should carry on this relationship or not...please can any one gimme any advice!!!!!!

Crysania

21 Sep 00, 19:41

Unless you wanna carry on like this forever... its best to stop this relationship now...
Dun be blinded... he is obviously trying to make use of you.

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**I want u to be with me.....
be with me in the morning...be with me in the nite...with me when its dark out...with me when its light...
I want u to be with me...no matter what we do...just keep this reminder...of how much I love u...**

Bear

21 Sep 00, 21:07

If u really love him.. it's good to continue, but to really love him that means u r wif him not becoz u dun haf company. that is u really like him... Even if u do, I dun think it's a good idea that u allow him to do anything, coz someday things may juz get out of hand. FOr instance, he may juz want to haf sex, and has been pursuading u from time to time, but u on ur part as his gf, gives in to him. and that's it.... Though u can say that u can easily deny it, but when actual situation comes, it's a different thing...

But if u r juz staying becoz u got no company, pls let go, though it gonna hurt. and u maybe even more lonely... But it's for the better.. GO out wif ur frens.. or do sth that will him off the mind.. soon u will forget him...

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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear

mikegk_76

22 Sep 00, 21:41

Originally posted by Crysania:
Unless you wanna carry on like this forever... its best to stop this relationship now...
Dun be blinded... he is obviously trying to make use of you.

Totally agree with u. And I don't think u should blief a guy so easily. If u really think u should leave him, do so. If u really wanna b in a relationship. u must b commited and both parties should try to understand each other more b4 anything else, ok, *WINK*

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

aaron84z

25 Sep 00, 23:44

Originally posted by Ruth|E:
HMmz... Hes treating you like a sex slave...

Ask yrself, are you happy when you are wif him? Do you enjoy being wif him? Do you feel being love by him?

If you are able to answer all the qns, Im sure you know what to do next already!

Good Luck!

yea ... like what she says, do you have the feeling for him ? Or do you want to just be used as a sex slave ? If you feel like you're being used, no sense of security being with him, no sense of love, and he just feels horny everytime you two meet, i think it's time you serious thought it out, and maybe have a discussion with him soon enough.

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The night is near and dawn is coming... I Lay awake on my bed thinking of you... I wonder ... when will we meet again ? When will we talk once more ? I Know my love to you is deep and true ... but i wonder how you feel for me ...

yuppiez

29 Sep 00, 17:56

THANK YOU FOR EVERYONE WHOM MSG IN MY COLUNM...I THANK ALL OF U FOR GIVING MI ADVICE!!! KEEP THIS WEBSITE GOING!!!!:}

mikegk_76

29 Sep 00, 18:49

Originally posted by Ruth|E:
In fact, I guess my ex treated me lidat as well... I really hated him a lot... But from these... I learnt to grow as well... Not to be naive... Learn from past experience... I hoped you are feeling much better... If U need anyone to talk to, you can always email me. Regards,

True, to learn from past experience is the best way to learn and grow up. Must "dai yan shi ren"/ bring eyes know people(translation). Some guys really gd at bringing a mask out, dun believe in everything a guy says, unless u knew him for a long time and know him inside out, ok, *wink*

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

ZincBear

1 Oct 00, 12:00

well, maybe u 2 should tok about such an issue properly...
If say, when u go out, u oni hanky-panky and do nothin else....its time to do somethin about it... but if he still stands by u when u r down... still listens to u... still studies with u etcetc....probably he isnt that bad afterall....
if SEX is all that he is thinkin about, and because he doesn have wat he wants and wans to break off with u ... then ... off he goes!!!

darrendon

4 Oct 00, 17:23

Hi Yuppie,
I am really sorry to hear that..
But frankly speaking, the person who loves you truely is the person who will appear and offer his help to you whenever you have any problems..even to the extend that he is also having a lot of problem himself but he will still cast aside his own problems and help you first..A lot of the girls don't understand that since they always remember only the happy time they spent with the guys but not those time where the guys help them out of their problems...Normally after the guys help them,the girls will usually say thanks and then forget all about it..
So, Yuppie if you really want to find out whether he loves you truely, see his reaction and action when you have any problems and you will eventually know...