She's attached already
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There's this ger who piqued my interest,the problem's she has bf already.HOW??? -
Unless she's a slut and wants to two time or you want to be labelled as a third party....FORGET her....Originally posted by Doenitz:There's this ger who piqued my interest,the problem's she has bf already.HOW???
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No,she's definitely not a slut.In fact,she's my type of ger.Forget her? easily said den done.The more I try,the worse it gets...N I k get to c her beri often coz we r in the same eca n in the same lecture group.
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U can:
Watch patiently and admire her from afar... hoping the day would come where she will leave her bf to be with you.
Hint to her, get close to her... but may risk her to keep her distance from you instead...
Or tell her and pursue her. Then u risk being the bad guy.
Love ain't easy.
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**I want u to be with me.....
be with me in the morning...be with me in the nite...with me when its dark out...with me when its light...
I want u to be with me...no matter what we do...just keep this reminder...of how much I love u...** -
Most people will try and forget, even if it gets hard. You can try, but if it doesn't work, tell yourself there will always be better girls than her. You can't expect her to ditch her bf and go to you right ?
Admire her from far might be the option (suggested above) for now, but you'll just marvel at her and wish and wish that she'll be yours.
Treat her as a good friend, and IF She breaks up with her boyfriend, you might be her next choice. That's a really serious IF though. So ... just carry on hoping =P
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The night is near and dawn is coming... I Lay awake on my bed thinking of you... I wonder ... when will we meet again ? When will we talk once more ? I Know my love to you is deep and true ... but i wonder how you feel for me ... -
Thanz 4 ur advice,ppl
U noe wat,I juz gave her a rose last nite.
No strings attached 4 this 1.Dat's wat I told her anyway...I guess we juz gonna b freds 4 the time being. -
Ermmm...She's the guai guai stable type of ger.So dat guy shld b a nice guy also.I guess I let Fate decide on this 1
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before u move in, maybe u must gauge whether she got a little likings for u or not...if yes, u may go in, cos fair competition what...if not, think u better give up, cos at least u can still be a friend of hers
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Yup, love ain't easy, how approriate this word is. Love is really full of tumbles and u really need a lot of courage and determination to keep a relationship going. It's oalso a tiring road. But if u fell for an attached girl, why not continue to b frds and who knows, she may fall for u in the end. Whatever the case, to love someone don't actually means to possess her, but to wish her happy, even when she's with someone else, agreed?Originally posted by Crysania:U can:
Watch patiently and admire her from afar... hoping the day would come where she will leave her bf to be with you.
Hint to her, get close to her... but may risk her to keep her distance from you instead...
Or tell her and pursue her. Then u risk being the bad guy.
Love ain't easy.
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Yup, love ain't easy, what an appropriate phase. It really takes a lot of courage and determination to keep a relationship going and it's really tiring too. Whatever the case, if u fell for an attached girl, just continue to b frds with her and who knows, she may b with u in the end. But to love a person doesn't mean possessing her but to wish her happy even if she's with someone else...Originally posted by Crysania:U can:
Watch patiently and admire her from afar... hoping the day would come where she will leave her bf to be with you.
Hint to her, get close to her... but may risk her to keep her distance from you instead...
Or tell her and pursue her. Then u risk being the bad guy.
Love ain't easy.
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Yah,we r platonic fredsn I'm not so stupid as to tell her my feelings as of yet.Some of my freds say I might have a slight advantage over her bf coz he's still in NS while I'm in uni alreadi.Watever...
The problem is I get kinda nervous when toking to her.This dun happen with other gers which I k relaz n tok cock at ease. -
I agree wif ya.. I can only say, even no matter how stable u think a relationship can be there is definitely ups and downs. The thing is not to take her away when she is down. Is to help when she needs help when ever she needs support. Even to the extent u r going to give her away to another guy... Then she will know that the true u is to make her happy. I'm sure if that's wat u think that means u really love this person. Becoz it's a feeling based on her happiness and not ur own.
Yup, love ain't easy, how approriate this word is. Love is really full of tumbles and u really need a lot of courage and determination to keep a relationship going. It's oalso a tiring road. But if u fell for an attached girl, why not continue to b frds and who knows, she may fall for u in the end. Whatever the case, to love someone don't actually means to possess her, but to wish her happy, even when she's with someone else, agreed?
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