will you stay or leave ?

• ayeyo

  10 Apr 10, 18:44

  if one day your wife or husband suffers brain damage due to an accident such that he/she behaves erratically, throws temper, feels insecure and seeks your love and attention like a child, will you stay by her/him or leave ? 

  (this is a hypothetical question)

• Hello Kitty

  10 Apr 10, 18:49

  yesh.

  me hd eber tot abt it as well.

   

• TTFU

  10 Apr 10, 18:49

  No ? Is it phsycial damage ? How serious is the brain damage ?

• gLc

  10 Apr 10, 18:50

  of course stay by her.

• gr33ndoll

  10 Apr 10, 20:11

  i wont leave him

• ayeyo

  10 Apr 10, 20:16

  Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

  yesh.

  me hd eber tot abt it as well.

   

  
  by "yesh", do you mean you will stay or leave ?

  TTFU - the brain damage is as i described in the original post. 

  before the accident, s/he is a loving, reasonable and fully functional person.  after the accident, he suffers from the after-effects.  there is no physical damage, just brain damage and psychological impact affecting his thought pattern, behaviour and emotions such that you cannot have a "normal" relationship with him/her and communication is very difficult.

• Hello Kitty

  10 Apr 10, 20:42

  yesh.

  stay.

   

• maskedangel

  10 Apr 10, 20:43

  I'll cry clueless.
• ないわらい

  10 Apr 10, 22:10

  Very hard to say. A lot of things can happen along the way, and even if I have a heart now, I might lose the heart in the future. The reverse can also be true.

  But right now to be honest, I really have no idea. I don't even know if I can find it in me to love, let alone love anyone deep enough to go through such suffering together.

• gikiwiki

  16 Apr 10, 16:02

  i would, that's why i never give up on the crazy woman even if she is cuckoo

• Kawac151

  16 Apr 10, 16:21

  Take care him/her lah. then what, let them become siao za bo ar?

• TTFU

  17 Apr 10, 16:39

  Try to cure her/him.

• caleb_chiang

  17 Apr 10, 17:11

  Well, there is no ifs...

  Anyway, it would depends on the state of mentality and depth of love I had for the person. So, it could means that I would stay or leave if the situation comes to me.

• DailyFreeGames.com

  17 Apr 10, 17:38

  i will stay. i love challenges.
• TTFU

  17 Apr 10, 17:40

  I will bash my head and behave in a way more erratically than my other half

• ChoCoChips

  17 Apr 10, 18:13

  stay la.

  the marriage vows u made is not for fk one ok

• Kawac151

  17 Apr 10, 20:22

  I will stay. Take care of her until she gets better.

• parn

  18 Apr 10, 10:27

  Originally posted by ayeyo:

  if one day your wife or husband suffers brain damage due to an accident such that he/she behaves erratically, throws temper, feels insecure and seeks your love and attention like a child, will you stay by her/him or leave ? 

  (this is a hypothetical question)

  That would depends on what he would do for me.

  I'm nobody's servant/maid, but I would do what I can to serve my loved ones.

• kengkia

  18 Apr 10, 13:54

  Originally posted by parn:

  That would depends on what he would do for me.

  I'm nobody's servant/maid, but I would do what I can to serve my loved ones.