Rumours

• leilan84

  12 Apr 10, 18:58

  Hi guys,

  would like to check with you all, lets say there is rumours spreading about you how do you go about handling it or any suggestion to kill it?

   

• kenn3th

  12 Apr 10, 19:04

  ignore the rumors.

• angel7030

  12 Apr 10, 19:12

  depend, if the rumour  said that I am very pretty...i may let it go.

• leilan84

  12 Apr 10, 19:35

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  depend, if the rumour  said that I am very pretty...i may let it go.

  ya... keep dreaming... you're old liao... so don't think too much

• littlemissbonkers

  12 Apr 10, 20:03

  depends on the rumor...y dun you give us an example...

• RoyFang

  12 Apr 10, 21:33

  Originally posted by kenn3th:

  ignore the rumors.

  Sometime rumors are hard to ignore.

• TTFU

  12 Apr 10, 21:35

  Deny it flatly with facts. Heck care it is also another option. Or best just troll around....

• FireIce

  12 Apr 10, 22:01

  no need admit no need deny
  let it die

  对得起自己就好

• annoy-you-must

  12 Apr 10, 23:00

  Giving a rumor more attention will only cause others to give it more...well, attention. just ignore it and let it die down over time. in any case, you deny or what, ppl also wun believe one. the more kan cheong you are the more ppl think it's true, in fact.

• gunner77

  13 Apr 10, 14:17

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  no need admit no need deny
  let it die

  对得起自己就好

   

  说的好!!!!!!!!!!!!!
• Holymoly69

  13 Apr 10, 19:24

  See if u can find any reason to defend yourself.If you cant juz act as if u don mind or like if they say you're perverted or something juz play along with them and say something like ya la ya la.After a few days they will get sick of teasing because u ''dont'' mind them.

   

• one36

  14 Apr 10, 06:43

  depends on the severity of the rumour and how it affects you.  if it is malicious and hurts your prospects (e.g. career, relationship), then it will be good to clarify with the other party (e.g. boss, b/gf) if it has clearly affected them.

• Forbiddensinner

  14 Apr 10, 10:15

  Originally posted by leilan84:

  Hi guys,

  would like to check with you all, lets say there is rumours spreading about you how do you go about handling it or any suggestion to kill it?

   

  1) Deal with the root of the rumours, a.k.a. the rumour-monger

  2) Ignore the rumours

  3) Spread counter rumours

  4) Step out and clarify with everyone whom the rumour has spreaded too.

   

• Rock^Star

  14 Apr 10, 10:37

  rumours die by itself. That's the best way.

• russiabear

  15 Apr 10, 10:30

  best way for rumor to die. make it real.

• dangerboi

  15 Apr 10, 15:57

  just resume your daily activities... apparently, some person has offended the other in some way or the other so as to face such a consequence

   

  when i mean offended in some way or the other, it can be directly or indirectly...some people are just petty...blames it down to the ill luck of that poor person 

   

  if you're really born in 1984...you're still young...don't do anything that will jeopardize your career or your studies just by confronting the person who started the rumours...

• Saltiga

  15 Apr 10, 18:33

  Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:

  1) Deal with the root of the rumours, a.k.a. the rumour-monger

  2) Ignore the rumours

  3) Spread counter rumours

  4) Step out and clarify with everyone whom the rumour has spreaded too.

   

  too much free time

• -StarDust-

  16 Apr 10, 09:52

  Ignore the rumours! When there's people, there's bound to be rumours especially in office.

• Forbiddensinner

  16 Apr 10, 11:50

  Originally posted by Saltiga:

  too much free time

  ?