Hi guys,
would like to check with you all, lets say there is rumours spreading about you how do you go about handling it or any suggestion to kill it?
ignore the rumors.
depend, if the rumour said that I am very pretty...i may let it go.
Originally posted by angel7030:depend, if the rumour said that I am very pretty...i may let it go.
ya... keep dreaming... you're old liao... so don't think too much
depends on the rumor...y dun you give us an example...
Originally posted by kenn3th:ignore the rumors.
Sometime rumors are hard to ignore.
Deny it flatly with facts. Heck care it is also another option. Or best just troll around....
no need admit no need deny
let it die
对得起自己就好
Giving a rumor more attention will only cause others to give it more...well, attention. just ignore it and let it die down over time. in any case, you deny or what, ppl also wun believe one. the more kan cheong you are the more ppl think it's true, in fact.
Originally posted by FireIce:no need admit no need deny
let it die对得起自己就好
See if u can find any reason to defend yourself.If you cant juz act as if u don mind or like if they say you're perverted or something juz play along with them and say something like ya la ya la.After a few days they will get sick of teasing because u ''dont'' mind them.
depends on the severity of the rumour and how it affects you. if it is malicious and hurts your prospects (e.g. career, relationship), then it will be good to clarify with the other party (e.g. boss, b/gf) if it has clearly affected them.
Originally posted by leilan84:Hi guys,
would like to check with you all, lets say there is rumours spreading about you how do you go about handling it or any suggestion to kill it?
1) Deal with the root of the rumours, a.k.a. the rumour-monger
2) Ignore the rumours
3) Spread counter rumours
4) Step out and clarify with everyone whom the rumour has spreaded too.
rumours die by itself. That's the best way.
best way for rumor to die. make it real.
just resume your daily activities... apparently, some person has offended the other in some way or the other so as to face such a consequence ![]()
when i mean offended in some way or the other, it can be directly or indirectly...some people are just petty...blames it down to the ill luck of that poor person ![]()
if you're really born in 1984...you're still young...don't do anything that will jeopardize your career or your studies just by confronting the person who started the rumours...
Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:1) Deal with the root of the rumours, a.k.a. the rumour-monger
2) Ignore the rumours
3) Spread counter rumours
4) Step out and clarify with everyone whom the rumour has spreaded too.
too much free time
Ignore the rumours! When there's people, there's bound to be rumours especially in office.
Originally posted by Saltiga:too much free time
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