esp my mother, she like abit senile liao. every morning before she goes to work, she go open the front door of the house first, left it open, then go to kitchen make water to boil, then do what in the kitchen later. then sometimes she go back to her own room to take her own stuff, then come out, and then go out of the house and lock the door.
I was like wtf. why open the front door when you are not prepared to leave the house yet? if you need to do your stuff in the kitchen or inside your own room, why do you need to open the front door open leh? what if there are strangers who drop in the house uninvited? dunno what she is doing and thinking.
got a few times when I came home after her, the front door was not locked and I was like wtf? did she forgot to lock the door? haiz no eyes see. this is one of the example of her wierd ways.
Stop bitching about your parents and put yourself in their shoes, spending their lifes to rear up a ass who moans about them when they are old.
how u feel when u go to the toilet to pee or pass motion and realised there was urine that was not flushed?
how u feel when there was pieces of meat or vege lying around or a small pieces of vege was found sticking on the fridge.
Urine not flushed, or you mean urine on the toilet seat ? Just pressing the button, will that kill you ? Just pieces of vege and meat lying around ? Throw it away and it will be fine ?
Everybody will get old one day, and old pple tend to be forgetful.
You must forgive your parents and take care of them.
And not complaining here.
Eh.. Totti..Your old folks how old already? If those very old (like 60plus, 70plus) then you have to understand loh.. Old ppl tend to be forgetful and old habits die hard.. cannot help it one...
Originally posted by multipleviews:Eh.. Totti..Your old folks how old already? If those very old (like 60plus, 70plus) then you have to understand loh.. Old ppl tend to be forgetful and old habits die hard.. cannot help it one...
You are right.
Afterall, they are your (Totti) parents.
Why not happy?
One day, you will be old and your children will treat you the same as you treat your parents.
Originally posted by Franceso Totti:esp my mother, she like abit senile liao. every morning before she goes to work, she go open the front door of the house first, left it open, then go to kitchen make water to boil, then do what in the kitchen later. then sometimes she go back to her own room to take her own stuff, then come out, and then go out of the house and lock the door.
I was like wtf. why open the front door when you are not prepared to leave the house yet? if you need to do your stuff in the kitchen or inside your own room, why do you need to open the front door open leh? what if there are strangers who drop in the house uninvited? dunno what she is doing and thinking.
got a few times when I came home after her, the front door was not locked and I was like wtf? did she forgot to lock the door? haiz no eyes see. this is one of the example of her wierd ways.
I find his tale absolutely enthralling, how this guy bitches about his parents like a 12 year old, and whines when his parents never flush the toilet. Obviously you are the one who has the cleaniness habit or jie pi. Seriously moaning about never flush toielt ? wait till you see the whole floor full of urine.
Find something worthwhile to do for once lah for god sake. Stop nickpicking on them.
U shld show more concern for her instead of complaining...Why don't you bring her to a doctor for a mental assessment? At least if she really have dementia or something you'll be able to catch the problem fast and there will be less complications.
I mean I hardly think you'll be willing to care for her 24/7 if she really gets lao ren chi dai zhen....so might as well prevent it.
like it or not they are your parents..they raised u and bring you up to what u are today...now its ur turn to give it back...truth be told, its never easy...so instead, tell urself u will be like them one day and u will hope that ur children will understand and care for u instead of whining about it
Originally posted by Franceso Totti:how u feel when there was pieces of meat or vege lying around or a small pieces of vege was found sticking on the fridge.
dont be so ungrateful.
think of all the things your parents have done for you since the day you were born.
just cleaning your backside is enough.
if you keep thinking about your mom's shortcoming your opinion of her will only get worst.
Honour your parents. Learn to respect them.
Originally posted by Franceso Totti:esp my mother, she like abit senile liao. every morning before she goes to work, she go open the front door of the house first, left it open, then go to kitchen make water to boil, then do what in the kitchen later. then sometimes she go back to her own room to take her own stuff, then come out, and then go out of the house and lock the door.
I was like wtf. why open the front door when you are not prepared to leave the house yet? if you need to do your stuff in the kitchen or inside your own room, why do you need to open the front door open leh? what if there are strangers who drop in the house uninvited? dunno what she is doing and thinking.
got a few times when I came home after her, the front door was not locked and I was like wtf? did she forgot to lock the door? haiz no eyes see. this is one of the example of her wierd ways.
Old people go senile, you not happy har ?
Since she is senile liao.. don't tell me you expect her to behave like a 20 year old ?
I think the person that's going crazy is you.
something wrong with today education?
Our parents are getting old alrdy. Soon, we'll become old also. We need to show some care and concern for them.
er from the way you described her, I don't she is senile.
More like forgetful type. Maybe to stress? not enough sleep? overwork? old age?
She is still working at her age shows that she is a good mom who cares alot for her family.
Be easy on her!
It's not senile kid...it's a habit and old habits die hard..you could jolly well sit down and ask your parents about it...in life there are problems that outsiders should not intervene, family problem is one of them
I'm glad that my parents do not have kids like you... It's one thing to have disagreements within the family and quarrels... but to bitch about parents on the line is like the final straw lor... disgrace...
If its problems like urinating on the floor, or have trouble with their movements, i will sympathise with you. But its the lame reson of not flushing the toielt haha. I doubt not all people here flush their toielt. Including me =P
wat a dumb idiot.
pity ur parents.
Originally posted by Franceso Totti:esp my mother, she like abit senile liao. every morning before she goes to work, she go open the front door of the house first, left it open, then go to kitchen make water to boil, then do what in the kitchen later. then sometimes she go back to her own room to take her own stuff, then come out, and then go out of the house and lock the door.
I was like wtf. why open the front door when you are not prepared to leave the house yet? if you need to do your stuff in the kitchen or inside your own room, why do you need to open the front door open leh? what if there are strangers who drop in the house uninvited? dunno what she is doing and thinking.
got a few times when I came home after her, the front door was not locked and I was like wtf? did she forgot to lock the door? haiz no eyes see. this is one of the example of her wierd ways.
Don't forget you comes from your Mother, so you will be even better than her at being senile in your future.
Why do you think that strangers would like to drop by your place?
For all you know, these strangers might become suicidal and go kill themselves after visiting your place.
Originally posted by Franceso Totti:how u feel when there was pieces of meat or vege lying around or a small pieces of vege was found sticking on the fridge.
why are you born with 2 hands? just fucking pick it up and throw them away, will that kill you??
why dun you just buy a house and stay yourself? you're staying in their house, eating food cooked by them, drinking water boiled by them and maybe also getting pocket allowances from their hard earned money, and maybe just maybe, the very computer and internet connection that you happily insulting your parent might have been paid by them in the 1st place?? just hope you dun have do go thru the same thing when you're old and have your own children
i dont understand why are you complaining abt your mum.
if she has a peculiar behaviour, should you talk to her nicely in lieu of complaining behind her? if you find her suffering from senile dementia, as her child, shouldnt you encourage her to see doctor?
come on, she is your mum! you should not have blamed your parents that way.