Identity crisis......
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Hi there ,
I'm very stress and down because of comments people give me about my size.I'm a 1.84cm tall guy and very big built,people classify my built as a mesomorph.
Usually when people give me such comments like
eg."wah so big ah,how to squeeze in the taxi with us?"
or "Wah so big ah,you eat what grow up?"
or "Wah you so big size,eh i tell you who so lucky become your girlfriend very chia lat"
I would just smile and joke about it,but inside i feel very hurt and stuff.It is like my male ego have been severely damaged.
Hope you guys or gals who have the same problem could share your experiences and ways to cope with my similar problem
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ChIcKeN FeEt Soup
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Just take it as a compliment cos there're not many asian guys out there who have the height and build like you.
Nonetheless, comments are just comments and they may not hold much truth behind it.
Take them with a pinch of salt. -
My friend. You are only 184cm... and still not as tall as me. I am 195cm++ and also a Singaporean. How? Most things in life are predestined. I guess all we can do is accept it...
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My friend. You are only 184cm... and still not as tall as me. I am 195cm++ and also a Singaporean. How? Most things in life are predestined. I guess all we can do is accept it...
---------------------------------------------Forbidden Love - ¤ß¨Æ
The stretch of my memory is rolling as a snowball accumulating regret. My imagination of warmth is elusive. Walking towards a desert with no colour, I'm wishing as I'm looking into an ocean of still tears. Tinted and cracked plaster is what's left in me.
I hear suffocated memories and looking at forgotten voices. My hopes all lowly lit,closing in,the edge of Darkness?
The answer falling; the muscles strained,the eyes died; the wounds wide. -
Hey look here. It's only ur size that is making u feel bad abt urself... Everyone has his/her bad points. urs is just physical, that's y pple start to tok abt it. U have ur own strengths. U can be good in some ways which others can't. u haf to be standing up on these strenghts, and no one can shake u. Take for instance, u may not be able to run well, but at anytime u maybe a able to throw a shotput better than any of the runners. No one is perfect. Even if u say there are pple who are all-rounders, but they still have flaws somewhere. dun feel too bad about it.
Even when u say u r big in size?? not a prob man. Coz u can train up to be a young young man. To be a hunk. Not many pple can go that. Just look at all those pple who are slammer in size or those who are thin, it will be harder for them to train up then u. Some of my friends who are also larger in size, but went to the army and came out all become hunks... IT's the determination if u want to keep urself muscular. it's bvery much easier for u to do. But u must not look down on urself, becoz u are better than in someways then any other pple...
KEEP IT UP!!!
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