is consider a bitch?

• *[aMorE]*

  28 Mar 03, 21:51

  i need some advice here. am i consider a b***h just because i am like keep having feelings for guys? i talked to some guys and they are very nice to me, and i think that gradually i began to like them.i am not sure of the feelings also.but whenever they sms me.i would feel happy and i would like them to keep sms-ing me. this is happening to me only recently and i hate it 'coz i feel very bi**hy. is this consider bi**hy?? and why do i have such feeling?
• Wind

  28 Mar 03, 21:55

  Nope, that doesn't make you a biarch. Unless you did something that you shouldn't do. I guess you just love the attention you are having now. It is quite... normal actually.
• sgboy2004

  28 Mar 03, 21:56

  
  
  
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• whiteillum

  28 Mar 03, 21:58

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• ^mm^

  28 Mar 03, 22:19

  hmmm...
  
  
• archie84

  29 Mar 03, 00:15

  i think its normal that we fall in love to easy . and that does not consider you as a bitch . so dont worry . i myself do keep falling in love but none sucess . haha take it easy just part and pacel of growing up . so just smile and in no time you will get over it .
• szehao

  29 Mar 03, 03:24

  hmmm ....
  
  i tink it happens when u become very desparate to find your other half ...
  (like me lidat) ... cauz it happen to me b4 ...
  
  so i guess juz take it ez
• PuRe-EviL

  29 Mar 03, 07:23

  Originally posted by Wind:

  Nope, that doesn't make you a biarch. Unless you did something that you shouldn't do. I guess you just love the attention you are having now. It is quite... normal actually.

  Agreed ... but important that you dun go round playing with them or take them for granted ... i.e. lead a lot of guys on and play around with them. This way normally will have them labelling you as a bi***.
• loneryu00

  29 Mar 03, 10:24

  Originally posted by *[aMorE]*:

  i need some advice here. am i consider a b***h just because i am like keep having feelings for guys? i talked to some guys and they are very nice to me, and i think that gradually i began to like them.i am not sure of the feelings also.but whenever they sms me.i would feel happy and i would like them to keep sms-ing me. this is happening to me only recently and i hate it 'coz i feel very bi**hy. is this consider bi**hy?? and why do i have such feeling?

  Or U never dated b4? anywae it normal lah... b***hy r those who tink they got bod & bwains, tink they better than other gals, can bo hue guys who not up to standard, & many more...
  
  If U have more than 2 of wat I mentioned, U can be considered 1... by mee!!! I dun like b***hes anywae...
  
  
  *1 more abt b***hes... b***hes dun sae they r b***hes...*
• Nitric

  29 Mar 03, 13:14

  Never considered urself as a b***h...if u never invovled in a third party situation
  well, u are juz basking in the attention that u been seeking.....
• |nsane™

  29 Mar 03, 13:27

  its alright to have such crushes for the opposite sex
• bismarck

  29 Mar 03, 13:35

  Originally posted by *[aMorE]*:

  i need some advice here. am i consider a b***h just because i am like keep having feelings for guys? i talked to some guys and they are very nice to me, and i think that gradually i began to like them.i am not sure of the feelings also.but whenever they sms me.i would feel happy and i would like them to keep sms-ing me. this is happening to me only recently and i hate it 'coz i feel very bi**hy. is this consider bi**hy?? and why do i have such feeling?

  maybe you would find this offensive or something, anyway my interpretation is that u looking for abit of attention or u are abit bored and the sms the guys sent to you just nice gives u the attention u are needing or gives u something to do and it relieves this boredom for a short while. i am not trying to imply u are attention-seeking, just that there are times where u wanna be noticed by ppl ard u. so when u feel happy and want them to keep sms-ing u, it's normal or shld i say that's where yr mind sort of accepts the attention.
• kohanson

  29 Mar 03, 14:20

  I guess it's ok for you to have feelings for many guys. As long as you don't go too far, it's ok..
• Yunhaier

  29 Mar 03, 15:33

  Originally posted by *[aMorE]*:

  i need some advice here. am i consider a b***h just because i am like keep having feelings for guys? i talked to some guys and they are very nice to me, and i think that gradually i began to like them.i am not sure of the feelings also.but whenever they sms me.i would feel happy and i would like them to keep sms-ing me. this is happening to me only recently and i hate it 'coz i feel very bi**hy. is this consider bi**hy?? and why do i have such feeling?

  B|tch? I thought the more precise word is flirt? To like almost every guy that seemingly treats you good simply means that you DO not UNDERSTAND and know what you want in a guy.
  
  Everyone has to start from somewhere - however hope you will learn the trade faster and come to better conclusion on the kind of guy you will seek, rather than to test experience yourself because you could and may regret before you can turn back.
  
  P.S: Your feelings and emotional status ain't a very good foundation to start any relationship yet. I suggest you give yourself a period of break and rest first.
  
  Cheers
• *[aMorE]*

  31 Mar 03, 15:13

  thanx for all your advise to me.i am actually giving myself a break now lke wat Yunhaier said i should do.actually i luv it this way too.haha.yepx. yepx.after all this that u all had said..i guess i am kinda attention seeking.yepx.anyway .thanx everyone. another thing i find it odd is..can guys try to like someone? i find it impossible lohx.yepx.thanx everyone 1 =))
• loneryu00

  31 Mar 03, 15:33

  Originally posted by *[aMorE]*:

  thanx for all your advise to me.i am actually giving myself a break now lke wat Yunhaier said i should do.actually i luv it this way too.haha.yepx. yepx.after all this that u all had said..i guess i am kinda attention seeking.yepx.anyway .thanx everyone. another thing i find it odd is..can guys try to like someone? i find it impossible lohx.yepx.thanx everyone 1 =))

  Not imposssible, but VERY hard...
• loneryu00

  31 Mar 03, 15:33

  Originally posted by *[aMorE]*:

  thanx for all your advise to me.i am actually giving myself a break now lke wat Yunhaier said i should do.actually i luv it this way too.haha.yepx. yepx.after all this that u all had said..i guess i am kinda attention seeking.yepx.anyway .thanx everyone. another thing i find it odd is..can guys try to like someone? i find it impossible lohx.yepx.thanx everyone 1 =))

  Sorry double post...
• Yunhaier

  1 Apr 03, 02:51

  Originally posted by *[aMorE]*:

  thanx for all your advise to me.i am actually giving myself a break now lke wat Yunhaier said i should do.actually i luv it this way too.haha.yepx. yepx.after all this that u all had said..i guess i am kinda attention seeking.yepx.anyway .thanx everyone. another thing i find it odd is..can guys try to like someone? i find it impossible lohx.yepx.thanx everyone 1 =))

  Anyone can TRY liking someone (inclusive of girls) - however its an attempt, not something that is so naturally like falling in love.
  
  Guys have this problem of differentiating lust from love. That makes it even more complicating. It difficult to know whether a guy truly loves a woman deep from his heart and not mirage from the mind or imagary between the legs. Btw, lust is inclusive of... in desperation to find gf/wife.
  
  Cheers
• loneryu00

  1 Apr 03, 08:10

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Anyone can TRY liking someone (inclusive of girls) - however its an attempt, not something that is so naturally like falling in love.
  
  Guys have this problem of differentiating lust from love. That makes it even more complicating. It difficult to know whether a guy truly loves a woman deep from his heart and not mirage from the mind or imagary between the legs. Btw, lust is inclusive of... in desperation to find gf/wife.
  
  Cheers

  Yar... I have dat prob... now trying to find a cure or smth... tink I can get it b4 da "SARS" antidote is discovered? dunno...
• BENJAMIN8

  1 Apr 03, 11:04

  bitch..... to me you are a BITCH when you have sex anyhow with crushes, not one but a few....
  
  if its just chatting with a few guys, sms this and that, go out to play ... hey... that is attidute towards friend.... not some kind of bitch thing....
  
  don't worry my girl.... don't think too much....
• *[aMorE]*

  1 Apr 03, 16:22

  haha..ok.ic.thanx for answering my doubt.eh..loneryu00..u can do it ! jia you ! =). and thanx BENJAMIN8 .i will try not to worry so much.=)
  
  
• loneryu00

  1 Apr 03, 16:32

  Originally posted by *[aMorE]*:
  haha..ok.ic.thanx for answering my doubt.eh..[b]loneryu00..u can do it ! jia you ! =). and thanx BENJAMIN8 .i will try not to worry so much.=)
  
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  Tink I did it... I now view ppl, m/f/o as "dead"... wah... zombie nation... Hope U noe wat to do after so many replies hor?
• *[aMorE]*

  2 Apr 03, 18:02

  haha..yeah..i guess i noe..yepx.=) thanx a tons.=)
• loneryu00

  3 Apr 03, 07:48

  Originally posted by *[aMorE]*:

  haha..yeah..i guess i noe..yepx.=) thanx a tons.=)

  yar... da words U received dropped on U like tons of masses eh?
  
  cheers!
• kohanson

  3 Apr 03, 07:52

  That's great.. have a break..