This I totally agree with Crysania, dun rush into getting a gf while serving NS, u will b very disappointed. Trust me, I'd already served NS, u will neglect her unconciously, mayb what u should do now is juz to keep in contact with her, mayb after your BMT, see whether your vovation in army is the "zo bo" vocatn, then u consider this problem and try to hint to her more directly. it's better this way, from my pt. of view.Originally posted by Crysania:Going NS time not good time to find a gf lah... When you in NS no time to keep her company. Wait till after some time your work more stable then find loh
There r still lotsa things 2 tok abt... Juz remain cool n be nature... beautiful words will flow from u... RELAX is the key word here.Originally posted by ray701:Thanz all for your help.
I've forget to mention something:I'am going to NS in December so there is at least 3-4 months from now to take action.But dunno wat are my chances?
And this coming Sat, there supposed to be a graduation ceremony for us and that i will get the chance to meet up with her.However wat i is troubled is how should i keep up the conversation with her the moment i meet her( wat to talk on) ,cos we seem to talk everything thru email alreadi and that i get tougue tied with the gal i like.