A sexless marriage
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Originally posted by TTFU:
You fail to realise that women actually have needs. But because men having a penis and having a different body structure, we crave for sex more. And yes blame us.
And as for your questions, its up to your beliefs and morals on how you treat sex seriously or casually . Each of those questions have may have different answers also. And as how i lead my life, who are you to question me ? Have i questioned yours ?
I didnt mix them up. Last post : You can lust on someone without being in love. You cannot be in love with a person if you do not lust on her/him
Ohh...I cannot discuss morals with people who have no morals.
And I cannot discuss righteousness with people whose righteousness are meant only to benefit themselves and bend to feed their own lust and i-cannot-lose ego.
Good luck with your lust, as there are many couples out there who aren't really compatible with one another based on their physical appearances.
I supposed if loving a person really requires lust to be one of the factor, then can I say there are people out there who likes to fuck ugly.
Please continue to spread your fuck ugly theory then.
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Originally posted by parn:
Ohh...I cannot discuss morals with people who have no morals.
And I cannot discuss righteousness with people whose righteousness are meant only to benefit themselves and bend to feed their own lust and i-cannot-lose ego.
Good luck with your lust, as there are many couples out there who aren't really compatible with one another based on their physical appearances.
I supposed if loving a person really requires lust to be one of the factor, then can I say there are people out there who likes to fuck ugly.
Please continue to spread your fuck ugly theory then.
Yes, how can i discuss with something that dont even know what are morals in the first place ?
Sorry, but i cannot see righteousness comming into the picture.
I dono what you meant by compatible with one another based on their physical appearances
Oh wow, did i see wrong ? you blame someone having no morals yet you classify people according to their physical appearance, So is ru hua preety or lin chi lin ?
Naa its not a theory, i have no problems of you trying to protect women with your flames, but i do mind when you try to classify all men with lust as immoral and ''dirty''
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parn<== You sound like someone who haven't been love and have sex for years? whats wrong why so negative?
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Yes, how can i discuss with something that dont even know what are morals in the first place ?
Sorry, but i cannot see righteousness comming into the picture.
I dono what you meant by compatible with one another based on their physical appearances
Oh wow, did i see wrong ? you blame someone having no morals yet you classify people according to their physical appearance, So is ru hua preety or lin chi lin ?
Naa its not a theory, i have no problems of you trying to protect women with your flames, but i do mind when you try to classify all men with lust as immoral and ''dirty''
It is clear for everyone to see that you are already unable to participate and argue rationally at my posts.Don't know who is the lustful animal who tried to mix lust with love into marriage to repackage lust into a morally acceptable traits, but I'm sure that immoral trash is just trying to save all men by confusing the readers into believing that lust isn't immoral and "dirty".
The true fact is, the more desperately that men tried to deny lust as an immoral attitude towards women, the more convincing it became a clear fact that men will become selfish in their immoral thoughts and become angry at women when the privileges of their cocks are being compromised.
No wonder true love or love ran away from them, because their true love or love begins from their lower part of the body.
Let's see how much lower these men are willing go.
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TTFU, It is sickening to know that TS's wife has to EXCHANGE sex for love.
FYI: There are many women with higher sex drive than their men. Unfortunately, you'll never know.. because they won't be telling YOU.
Here we have TS threatening his wife because he's not getting enough sex.
But do you see women threatening their partner when they don't get orgasm all the time ? No.
Trust me, there's PLENTY of men who are unable to satisfy their own partner. Men who couldn't hold out long enough.. men who cannot erect properly.. men who doesn't know how to move properly to give her orgasm. Men who do stupid things during intercourse that are anti climatic.. and MANY MORE !!
It's so obvious you are just trying desperately to justify the bad behaviors selfish men commits with "physical construct " wat a load of rubbish !!!
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
TTFU, It is sickening to know that TS's wife has to EXCHANGE sex for love.
FYI: There are many women with higher sex drive than their men. Unfortunately, you'll never know.. because they won't be telling YOU.
Here we have TS threatening his wife because he's not getting enough sex.
But do you see women threatening their partner when they don't get orgasm all the time ? No.
Trust me, there's PLENTY of men who are unable to satisfy their own partner. Men who couldn't hold out long enough.. men who cannot erect properly.. men who doesn't know how to move properly to give her orgasm. Men who do stupid things during intercourse that are anti climatic.. and MANY MORE !!
It's so obvious you are just trying desperately to justify the bad behaviors selfish men commits with "physical construct " wat a load of rubbish !!!
I'am not trying to justify TS. I dint say anything about TS anymore btw. What i was saying that its wrong to classify all men with lust as immoral and ''dirty'' . Women can have lust to men too, but is it considered immoral and dirty ?
But If you are talking about the TS, If that guy is a sex manic and overly demanding of his wife to satisfy him, his wrong to put the blame on his wife.
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Originally posted by parn:
It is clear for everyone to see that you are already unable to participate and argue rationally at my posts.Don't know who is the lustful animal who tried to mix lust with love into marriage to repackage lust into a morally acceptable traits, but I'm sure that immoral trash is just trying to save all men by confusing the readers into believing that lust isn't immoral and "dirty".
The true fact is, the more desperately that men tried to deny lust as an immoral attitude towards women, the more convincing it became a clear fact that men will become selfish in their immoral thoughts and become angry at women when the privileges of their cocks are being compromised.
No wonder true love or love ran away from them, because their true love or love begins from their lower part of the body.
Let's see how much lower these men are willing go.
I see, once again using this to gain an advantage. Seems like you see lust as a trait of a sex manic. But you fail to realise that all humans have lust in them, male or female. But how high level is this lust differentiate people.
Oh yeah, flame on.
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To Parn and JoJo, Please don't judge TS unless you know him personally. Also Parn, calling woman whom enjoy sex = sluts is so wrong. What's wrong with woman enjoying sex? In this time and age, people's mind is still so narrow mind. Is this the majority Singaporean speaking? If a HUSBAND wants to have sex with WIFE is immoral, I think you people should be sent to middle-east and start wearing veils and u really know what is being a WIFE about. Finally, I assume jojo and parn are girls whom seems like on their way to become man-hater.
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Originally posted by Darkseed73:
To Parn and JoJo,
Please don’t judge TS unless you know him personally.
Also Parn, calling woman whom enjoy sex = sluts is so wrong.
What’s wrong with woman enjoying sex?
In this time and age, people’s mind is still so narrow mind. Is this the majority Singaporean speaking? If a HUSBAND wants to have sex with WIFE is immoral, I think you people should be sent to middle-east and start wearing veils and u really know what is being a WIFE about.
Finally, I assume jojo and parn are girls whom seems like on their way to become man-hater.
We are not man haters. We just hate LAME men. Big difference dude.
FYI : Middles eastern men are a bunch of wimps. They would torture their women so that they feel like they are a man.
Without the full covers, their wifes are gonna run away.. Without the woman's clits cut off.. their wives are gonna have sex with other men. How pathetic are they ?
IMO, they are the worst of the insecure lots. Using religion to justify their atrocities towards their wife, dotters and siblings. With due respect, I don't believe Allah created women to be mistreated by men.
So, if our men has some back bones.. they'd stop comparing us to those abused women in middle east.
Are we suppose to be so GRATEFUL that our Asian men are not as LAME as those middle easterners ? Geesh... lame !
FYI, this is an annonymous forum. No one is required to post their personal details here..OK then.. why don't he post his face here.. and I shall not judge.. haha !
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Originally posted by TTFU:
I'am not trying to justify TS. I dint say anything about TS anymore btw. What i was saying that its wrong to classify all men with lust as immoral and ''dirty'' . Women can have lust to men too, but is it considered immoral and dirty ?
But If you are talking about the TS, If that guy is a sex manic and overly demanding of his wife to satisfy him, his wrong to put the blame on his wife.?
Ahem.. yes it's dirty.. and very immoral.
If you have a wife lusting after another man.. is that immoral ? yes?
If your wife thinks about having sex with another man when she is having sex with you.. is that dirty ? yes ?
Lust IS a dirty word. But.. lusting after a whore/prostitute.. now that's normal for a dirty man.
OK ? Good.
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To me, men actually dun need sex that much... WHAT WE NEED IS SOME GOD DAMMED SPACE PLS!!! S-P-A-C-E A-L-O-N-E !!!!
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TS,
Like yourself, I married in my late 20s, and now ard your age, sex is dwindling to a stage where the possibility of striking toto is higher than having sex.
I also do not understand why women can survive without sex, or any form of sexual phsyical contact. To be fair, they probably wouldn't know why we need it too. My wife also allows me to release my frustration by way of masturbating through porn and other material, but this kind of relationship is a little trying. How does one justify a relationship or marriage without sex?
Some of the women here(I do not want to name who) think we treat our wives like prostitue just because we want sex, but this isn't the case. We want it because we need it! I know far too many men who go for alternatives like Geylang to seek out their urges, but there are still some of us who love our wives enough with the discipline or morality not to step into this stage.
However, I do not agree that you should try to lower your libido by way of medication. We are who we are! 2 strangers who live together, should try to compensate and accept each other as they are, and not try to change their partner. All the views which we have given, are well...just views and suggestions. It is still up to you to make the decision.
Normally, if 2 person have some kind of problem, a 3rd party person like counsellor would be good to help, provided both agreed to go. It may not necessarily solve the problem, but it will let each other see a different perspective of the relationship.
So, good luck to your efforts to for a better sex life :)
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Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:
TS,
Like yourself, I married in my late 20s, and now ard your age, sex is dwindling to a stage where the possibility of striking toto is higher than having sex.
I also do not understand why women can survive without sex, or any form of sexual phsyical contact. To be fair, they probably wouldn't know why we need it too. My wife also allows me to release my frustration by way of masturbating through porn and other material, but this kind of relationship is a little trying. How does one justify a relationship or marriage without sex?
Some of the women here(I do not want to name who) think we treat our wives like prostitue just because we want sex, but this isn't the case. We want it because we need it! I know far too many men who go for alternatives like Geylang to seek out their urges, but there are still some of us who love our wives enough with the discipline or morality not to step into this stage.
However, I do not agree that you should try to lower your libido by way of medication. We are who we are! 2 strangers who live together, should try to compensate and accept each other as they are, and not try to change their partner. All the views which we have given, are well...just views and suggestions. It is still up to you to make the decision.
Normally, if 2 person have some kind of problem, a 3rd party person like counsellor would be good to help, provided both agreed to go. It may not necessarily solve the problem, but it will let each other see a different perspective of the relationship.
So, good luck to your efforts to for a better sex life :)
Frustrated guy,
Have you ever wondered why your wife don't really want to have sex with you anymore ?
Have you taken a look in the mirror recently ?
Why do guys stop being attractive to their women after they get married to a woman and have their kids ?
I've seen so many married men.. all they do is boast about how fit they WERE.. how attractive they USED to be.Yah.. well.. that was one out of many reasons why their gf married them back then.
I agree.. married men are what they are.. pot bellies.. stinking bodies and private.. manly bad habits.. farting pillows..... wow.. and their wives are suppose to be sooooo aroused...get real dude.
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LESBO ALERT!!!
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
We are not man haters. We just hate LAME men. Big difference dude.
FYI : Middles eastern men are a bunch of wimps. They would torture their women so that they feel like they are a man.
Without the full covers, their wifes are gonna run away.. Without the woman's clits cut off.. their wives are gonna have sex with other men. How pathetic are they ?
IMO, they are the worst of the insecure lots. Using religion to justify their atrocities towards their wife, dotters and siblings. With due respect, I don't believe Allah created women to be mistreated by men.
So, if our men has some back bones.. they'd stop comparing us to those abused women in middle east.
Are we suppose to be so GRATEFUL that our Asian men are not as LAME as those middle easterners ? Geesh... lame !
FYI, this is an annonymous forum. No one is required to post their personal details here..OK then.. why don't he post his face here.. and I shall not judge.. haha !
Good luck in finding a man then. I think u got better chances being a lesbian. They actually have a medicial term for it call "Lesbian bed death" because lesbians have less sex than any other type of couple, and they generally experience less sexual intimacy the longer the relationship lasts. If a woman does not want sex with men, I seriously would advice them to consider. So Jojo + parn seems like a great couple together, I think u 2 should hook up instead of hating "lame" man in the forum. -
Originally posted by Darkseed73:
Good luck in finding a man then. I think u got better chances being a lesbian. They actually have a medicial term for it call "Lesbian bed death" because lesbians have less sex than any other type of couple, and they generally experience less sexual intimacy the longer the relationship lasts. If a woman does not want sex with men, I seriously would advice them to consider. So Jojo + parn seems like a great couple together, I think u 2 should hook up instead of hating "lame" man in the forum.Here you are .. another bigot lame guy.. lemme guess.. you still havn't figured out why you arn't getting any lovin from the females eh?
Sure.. call any woman you can't win a lesbian.. Grow up dude.
FYI I could just be your mother checkin on you online.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Frustrated guy,
Have you ever wondered why your wife don't really want to have sex with you anymore ?
Have you taken a look in the mirror recently ?
Why do guys stop being attractive to their women after they get married to a woman and have their kids ?
I've seen so many married men.. all they do is boast about how fit they WERE.. how attractive they USED to be.Yah.. well.. that was one out of many reasons why their gf married them back then.
I agree.. married men are what they are.. pot bellies.. stinking bodies and private.. manly bad habits.. farting pillows..... wow.. and their wives are suppose to be sooooo aroused...get real dude.
I know for sure that you would flame me...as with other guys' views.
Yes, I have taken a look in the mirror lately, and no, I do not look all that bad.
Not all guys boast about how they were long long time ago. I assume you met the wrong ones. I can put in some effort to flame you back, but it is pretty pointless because your views are already fixed.
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Originally posted by small-man:
LESBO ALERT!!!
Dude.. if you would just spend less time name calling and more time understanding women and how they tick.. you can be a successful ladies man..
You'd be getting a whole lot more of a bam bam instead of just fretting about why the girls arn't giving you a second look.
OK ? Good.
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Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:
I know for sure that you would flame me...as with other guys' views.
Yes, I have taken a look in the mirror lately, and no, I do not look all that bad.
Not all guys boast about how they were long long time ago. I assume you met the wrong ones. I can put in some effort to flame you back, but it is pretty pointless because your views are already fixed.
I ain't flaming you dude.. hell no.. I'm just correcting you.
Do you believe.. that you CAN make that butt ugly wife of yours feel sexy about herself to wanna have some hot and steamy sex with you ?
If you DO.. call this number .. 1800-notarealnumber.com oor you can send me a PM.
Yee haa !!
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maybe she thinks your not hot enough
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
....................... and more time understanding women and how they tick.. you can be a successful ladies man..
which basically means engaging in many hours of intellectual conversation over topics that you have zero interest in just to get that half hour of action...."Beside every hawt ass woman u will die for is a very bored man..."
Believe me dudes, cut to the chase and just buy yer wife the Tods shoe, LV bag or watever crap they want. They get excited.... keep quiet for awhile.... be so grateful they do all the housework.... and give you sex.
Its expensive but worth it... otherwise you can go back to the hours of bitching about so and so's bum and work drama...
The above is a commercial from Genie MovieMagic. For luffs.
Kind Regards
Genie
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Originally posted by Genie99a:
which basically means engaging in many hours of intellectual conversation over topics that you have zero interest in just to get that half hour of action...."Beside every hawt ass woman u will die for is a very bored man..."
Believe me dudes, cut to the chase and just buy yer wife the Tods shoe, LV bag or watever crap they want. They get excited.... keep quiet for awhile.... be so grateful they do all the housework.... and give you sex.
Its expensive but worth it... otherwise you can go back to the hours of bitching about so and so's bum and work drama...
The above is a commercial from Genie MovieMagic. For luffs.
Kind Regards
Genie
Mr Genie in a bottle.. make my wish come true....
Buying branded bags and giving them the Jimmy Choos ain't gonna cut it dude...you're missing out the most important part while ye hurtin your wallet..wondering why ye not gettin much results from the wads of cash flying out the window ?
Ya'll forget to COMPLIMENT yor woman !! DUh ~
When the last time you compliment her ?
Do you know WHY she's dressing up ? Who is she to show her new bags to?
YOU ofcors ya numbskull !!
Even if she's walking around with a colorful grocery bag. she's gonna feel like a millionaire when the husband actually looks at her and tells her she looks real nice today.
Complimenting her is just to let her know she ain't INVISIBLE. A woman who feels like THE invisible woman is definitely not feeling sexy.
And the guys are supposed to be good liars ... make good use of this inborn TALENT dudes !!!
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Mr Genie in a bottle.. make my wish come true....
Buying branded bags and giving them the Jimmy Choos ain't gonna cut it dude...you're missing out the most important part while ye hurtin your wallet..wondering why ye not gettin much results from the wads of cash flying out the window ?
Ya'll forget to COMPLIMENT yor woman !! DUh ~
When the last time you compliment her ?
Do you know WHY she's dressing up ? Who is she to show her new bags to?
YOU ofcors ya numbskull !!
Even if she's walking around with a colorful grocery bag. she's gonna feel like a millionaire when the husband actually looks at her and tells her she looks real nice today.
Complimenting her is just to let her know she ain't INVISIBLE. A woman who feels like THE invisible woman is definitely not feeling sexy.
And the guys are supposed to be good liars ... make good use of this inborn TALENT dudes !!!
1. Do you know WHY she's dressing up ?
To look good in the public eye.
2. Who is she to show her new bags to?
Her friends and the public.
3. When the last time you compliment her ?
When she was nekkid and we were in happy time.
4. Even if she's walking around with a colorful grocery bag. she's gonna feel like a millionaire when the husband actually looks at her and tells her she looks real nice today.
My wife not dumb... no seriously lol.
Another production from Genie MovieWorks. Just fer luffs.
Kind Regards
Genie
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
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And the guys are supposed to be good liars ... make good use of this inborn TALENT dudes !!!
That's why she married me lol.Kind Regards
Genie