i lazy to know or choose not to know or i really don't know.
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i have been thinking this year round after my ord. why i'm so burl, slow, not smart then others.i was a retail assis and a few days ago a so call western customer say something to me. she's say '' what are you working here for ? and don't know anything'' . it is because she is asking about the size that is already the smallest of all outlet. so she ask again what ever place got sell the size etc. but some of the customers asking for direction from me but i really don't know. just because of this not to know anything, and it reflect back alot and alot of my past time. i once still remember while on my ns service. my intruster say to me that ''is not you don't wan to know, is you lazy to know '' while on lecturing time.i can say that i'm a sensitive person but how to be smart to know everything? how to stop being lazy to know everything? i'm worry about my future ahead is rotting just because not to know everything and sure always be the loser. how to be smart in everything or to know everthing? is already no point to look down on myself because already look down on myself even i was born. but now how to change myself? you see i already so stupid and cockster. i'm really tired being like this...really tired.
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U need some serious motivation.
And the best one I can think of is: Go and fall in love with a demanding gal
lol
She'll definitely push you to your limits!
=X
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
U need some serious motivation.
And the best one I can think of is: Go and fall in love with a demanding gal
lol
She'll definitely push you to your limits!
=X
is it like u
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
is it like u
Not like me, me will just ask them to go jump down from eiffel tower, coz me ish asexual
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If you feel that you are being looked down upon then you should join a group of friend. once you fold your arms with them until the arms bent then whatever crap youdo also no body will say you lame. your 'friends' will always be there to say you cool. say take photos for example. do it with a group opf friends so that you can get an ego boot whenever you take bad photos because there aill always be peopl who say you good. in forums make friends so taht when you shown a bad phoo your nick friends will also say its good.
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Quit the job and go back to study. :)
Gain more knowledge
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Find your own interest, and thats when motivation naturally comes
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there is no way anyone can know everything. find the area which interests you the most and be an expert in it.
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I will say that you are not dumb, in fact to be frank I personally think you are pretty smart considering you know that you need help and you are seeking for help now, that is an excellent start!
Now, do you have a degree or a diploma? If you don't I strongly suggest you to take up studying as in Singapore, a degree is extremely important otherwise you will have a tough time here and your whole future, you will be stuck as just an assistant.
Lastly, believe in yourself! If you keep believing that you are dumb there is no way you are going to be smart. Look at the problem to you have and work on it, who knows one day went you have worked hard that you had became the Chairman of Apple Inc. who knows?
Never under-estimate yourself, lastly do not believe in luck, there is no luck, if you can do something and you think it is by luck or chances you are wrong, you have the capability to do it. Remember:
Find your skill
Prefect your skill
Capitalize on your skill.
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i got a girlfriend already. i got a friend girlfriend is demanding de. demanding girls is very jialat...very very jialat...is worst then your mum. i think those guy who can go into realationship with demanding girl are a very patient guy. very very patient.
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yup..my girlfriend ask me to go study too but the problem is i don't know what to study yet. she ask me to go and study ITE first and then after 1year still can change the course. And i also think about studying at private school but i need alot of money and i also afraid that i study till half way then i give it up so the money will be throw into drain.
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yup..my girlfriend ask me to go study too but the problem is i don't know what to study yet. she ask me to go and study ITE first and then after 1year still can change the course. And i also think about studying at private school but i need alot of money and i also afraid that i study till half way then i give it up so the money will be throw into drain.
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Originally posted by Doom995:
A) i got a girlfriend already. i got a friend girlfriend is demanding de. demanding girls is very jialat...very very jialat...is worst then your mum. B)i think those guy who can go into realationship with demanding girl are a very patient guy. very very patient.
A) Rofl..... you never heard before meh...."I will do anything for love" by some smart guy. Just so happen some girls take it very literally.Incidentally if a guy were to give the same treatment to a girl.... he is labelled a MCP :) ........vote for equal rights.......................right?
B) Or very very dumb rofl.
Kind Regards
Genie
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Originally posted by Doom995:
yup..my girlfriend ask me to go study too but the problem is i don't know what to study yet. she ask me to go and study ITE first and then after 1year still can change the course. And i also think about studying at private school but i need alot of money and i also afraid that i study till half way then i give it up so the money will be throw into drain.
If you finish army and already 20+... then maybe studies is not the best course to undertake. Its costly and if you already have the thought that you might give up halfway...don't.Singapore education in my biased perspective... try your best to stay mainstream... once you fall out of it (i.e. O's - A's/Poly - Degree) then your only other realistic choice is to study overseas which costs abit. If you have already fallen out of it then try industries that value experience over education.
I reccomend... sign on army/navy/police, civil service, or study nursing (highly reccomend) or some technical skill that is not too lowly paid in Singapore.
Kind Regards
Genie