Seeing a girl home after a 1 on 1 date.......
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Would u guys do it even if u treat the girl as a platonic friend?
Would u girls accept the guy seeing u home if u will only treat the guy as a platonic friend?
How abt if u as a guy/girl is interested in the other party? Would the an answers be the same? -
I think it is okay, just seeing her home only right? There's nothing wrong with that.
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hai ...simple ..
if she is a just a friend ...
i will look at my watch before making the decision...
Late send her home loh ...
not late tell her go home herself loh...
if she is the girl i am interested...
i will send her home no matter what time
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MAYBE...Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:Would u guys do it even if u treat the girl as a platonic friend?
Would u girls accept the guy seeing u home if u will only treat the guy as a platonic friend?
How abt if u as a guy/girl is interested in the other party? Would the an answers be the same? -
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yes.Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:Would u guys do it even if u treat the girl as a platonic friend?
I think...yes.
How abt if u as a guy/girl is interested in the other party? Would the an answers be the same?
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huh?
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Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:
Would u guys do it even if u treat the girl as a platonic friend?
According to guys: they'd ONLY do it if they r interested in the gal but there r also guys who find that it's perfectly NORMAL to send the gal home on a date-an act of gallantry/being gentleman
Would u girls accept the guy seeing u home if u will only treat the guy as a platonic friend? For me, it depends on how much I know the guy, feel comfortable with the guy or am I bored tt time? but there r gals who dun mind guys seeing them home although they have no feelings for the guys & others who r particular abt who see them home coz they will only allow if they happen to have an interest for the guy.
How abt if u as a guy/girl is interested in the other party? Would the an answers be the same? Repeated qn 
R u worrying too much? R u over-reacting? R u too sensitive?
U r making too many generalisation which in many cases, do not apply & only backfires. Try to analyze your own gal instead of finding out fr all gals. Pls be aware that everyone is different, their answers do NOT represent your gal.
Know what, the most impt thing is how you FEEL & what u DO. Be responsible for your actions coz you can only explain for yours. Instead of playing guessing game here, juz ask the gal directly if you've qns(tactfully). -
it's a duty to me, i'll do it no matter like or dun likeOriginally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:Would u guys do it even if u treat the girl as a platonic friend?
Would u girls accept the guy seeing u home if u will only treat the guy as a platonic friend?
How abt if u as a guy/girl is interested in the other party? Would the an answers be the same? -
for all of the above... i like to go home myself and maybe when reach give him a sms/ call.Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:Would u guys do it even if u treat the girl as a platonic friend?
Would u girls accept the guy seeing u home if u will only treat the guy as a platonic friend?
How abt if u as a guy/girl is interested in the other party? Would the an answers be the same?
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even if its just a fren i will
if too late la
if not conveient send in cab back lor
dangerous for ger mah, no 1 will rape guys 1 mah -
if its just a friend.. n its late.. its wad a guy should do.. c the ger home.. isn't it..
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i agreeOriginally posted by cHeR|sH^LoVe:if its just a friend.. n its late.. its wad a guy should do.. c the ger home.. isn't it..
being hu hua shi zhe is not an easy task
skali encounter bagahlah then kenna rap* how
muz escort -
but then.. some girls juz dun like pple to escort them home lor.. as for me.. i dun like also..Originally posted by ahzhao:i agree
being hu hua shi zhe is not an easy task
skali encounter bagahlah then kenna rap* how
muz escort -
ya i understandOriginally posted by cHeR|sH^LoVe:but then.. some girls juz dun like pple to escort them home lor.. as for me.. i dun like also..
cos gers like to cheng qiang
as the saying goes once bitten shy twice
cos u haben kenna bitten yet so u dun noe -
most of my friends who are gals are rather conservative. they should not be out so late. and even if so, the last person they are out with should not be 1 guy who is not her BGR boyfriend ( very misleading). when out late in a big group, try to have at least 2 guys escorting 1 gal home with at least 1 of the guys being 1 whom she trusts ALOT A LOT. if no car, the mode of transport should be cab with her paying part of the fare. the high midnight charges might also let her know that this should not form a habit. Cheers.Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:Would u guys do it even if u treat the girl as a platonic friend?
Would u girls accept the guy seeing u home if u will only treat the guy as a platonic friend?
How abt if u as a guy/girl is interested in the other party? Would the an answers be the same?
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yea, i would send them home if its late. unless they feel bad to bother me. some girls like that
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It's gentlemanly for a male to send a female home after a one-on-one date. And it's only right to do so because the male has the responsibility to ensure that the female reaches home safely.... I guess.
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I think it is just been gentleman to send a gal home after a date..no matter you wan to be just friend with her or even more...But if she insist that she wan to go home on her own..you also dun force her lahOriginally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:Would u guys do it even if u treat the girl as a platonic friend?
Would u girls accept the guy seeing u home if u will only treat the guy as a platonic friend?
How abt if u as a guy/girl is interested in the other party? Would the an answers be the same? -
I will usually send a ger home after a 1 on 1 date. This is just basic courtesy I think. Somemore if too late, it will be nice to accompany bad. Cos u never know lor, sg might not be as safe as we imagine when one luck is really down.
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yap, i usually send my galfren hm cos i drive mah..so cant ask her take public transport right??...
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i think the guy should send the girl home after a 1 on 1 date whether it is purely a platonic friend relationship or he is really interested in the girl. it is very gentleman of him to see that the girl reaches home safely after their date. i see that there is nothing wrong at all. as to whether the love would blossom or not, its all up to your destiny.Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:Would u guys do it even if u treat the girl as a platonic friend?
Would u girls accept the guy seeing u home if u will only treat the guy as a platonic friend?
How abt if u as a guy/girl is interested in the other party? Would the an answers be the same? -
Wa liew how come no gals send guyZ home one? you tell mi which guy dun wan good bye kiss? uh...there we go...see all hands up...
Hiyoh isn't it just gentlemanly to send the girl home? simple social etiquette also dunno...haiz go and over think beyond the scope of action for wat? why? having new options to explore in your love life wif your "platonic" friends izit? Careful it doesn't become "plutonic" now...
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U want say so lar...dun try and second-guess other guys' good intention...Originally posted by sorcerer:you tell mi which guy dun wan good bye kiss? uh...there we go...see all hands up...
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ya.. it is a guy responsible to send a ger home at night. I always do tat loh to most of my female friends. Singapore though low crime rate, but doesn't mean NO crime. Have to make sure tat she reach home safely mah.
If on the way, then accompany her to take the bus or taxi loh. BUT when reach home, she must SMS loh. Just to cfm she safe n sound. My female friends also ask mi to SMS them too.