GIrl, Boy and National Service
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Hmm...
Want to ask you girls....
Are you all willing to be with ur bfs who are in NS ?
Even though they got leser time to be with you.....
Will u girls try to be more patient with them through this period?
If you girls choose to leave them when they are in NS...wat are the reasons? -
i got intercepted during my stay-in-weekends-burn NSF by my closest pal. i remember how that used to hurt like CRAZY. now u aware, dun let ur commitment slip up. she can oways justify her leaving u by being psychoed 'if u can't measure up to small trial of love like NSF, how she trust u when u got work commitment. dat time u fight 4 ur rice bowl liao. even more jialad dan wat NSF'. u not around wen she needs u and some hero shows up and make u look bad? u are defenceless against dat. dey want to behind u say wat oso can. in retrospect, she wasnt as faithful as i would have liked anyway. eheh...
*pot calling the kettle black* . -
well i dunno but i sure as hell hope my gf would stick with me considering i'm going to become a regular.....
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hiyoh...
my dear girl... NSF no joke lor... very 1) physically tiring... which may lead to 2)emotional fatigue... which over time results in 3)strained relationship...
cut your boy some slack can? anyway... while he's in army and you're out there wif all 'em hot blooded males... who's blaming you for keeping an eye out for unexplored love options? it is afterall your right to love... and yours to renounce especially when you don't already absolutely adore your bf...
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Every time a guy go for NS... he can say BYE BYE to his girl friend alreayd.... its like that.
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hmm..sianz hoh..me going ns soon oso...Originally posted by chaar123:Every time a guy go for NS... he can say BYE BYE to his girl friend alreayd.... its like that.
Givache 
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good luck...Originally posted by Givache:hmm..sianz hoh..me going ns soon oso... Givache -
i have a 2 ex bf who is serving NS when i steda wif them..... they end up broking off wif mi coz they sae tat i am suffering....
i think they juz tok cock..... -
If she wanna leave - it doesn't need NS to leave you - except that it is an excellent opportunity to.Originally posted by TuTu_Car:Hmm...
Want to ask you girls....
Are you all willing to be with ur bfs who are in NS ?
Even though they got leser time to be with you.....
Will u girls try to be more patient with them through this period?
If you girls choose to leave them when they are in NS...wat are the reasons?
However, if she is bend on making use of this opportunity, in the first place, if you knew it beforehand - do you still think you want her?
Some guys would use NS to escape their own relationship too - book out without the girl knowing, club then ONS, etc. Its like a vicious circle - people making use of external evironment to their own advantage.
So much politics? Well, then don't get into relation lar... and the question is can control meh?
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i waited for my ex bf thru his ns but to think that after his ns, he dump me... so jialat right..cos he went to study in SIM and got to know new gals... he even got the gals and tyr to push the blame on me saying i suspected him... shit him lah...after the break up, i still didnt know its his fault till his best frens told me n i realise i fall into his trick... then things turn bad. i kal his gdf and told her the real situation and both me and the gal had a plan. i kal the guy out and also the gal but the gal will turn up lata.....
when my ex saw me, he kept quiet and we tok kok....then his gf came. you shld c his face, damn shock to know that i kal his gf....then i slap him twice infront at somerset starbucks... till his glasses drop.. then in the end his gf broke off with him. i oso break off and guess wat... he go and find the gal b4 me which is his poly ex gf and now they r 2gether , the gal thinks that she wins me but too bad,she duno wats the real situation nd she is in blind with that bastard..by the way, my exbf broke off with her bcos she had an affair while with him.hahaha....welll, jus all the best to the bastard and bitch couples....
my ex id in SIM, Pool club...;..... and student union,,, hear that he is going to be the president of SIM pool club.. you shld no who is he......that fat ah beng bastard........
hate him man... -
I will wait for him till he finishes his NS.. even though we have lesser time together.. but when we can have the time ourselves.. we will treasure more than those who see each other everyday..Originally posted by TuTu_Car:Hmm...
Want to ask you girls....
Are you all willing to be with ur bfs who are in NS ?
Even though they got leser time to be with you.....
Will u girls try to be more patient with them through this period?
If you girls choose to leave them when they are in NS...wat are the reasons?
I'm don't mind waiting... Being together doesn't mean must meet up everyday.. Learn to appreciate for what you have... Be patient.. COs is not his fault that you can only see him once a week or sometimes you don't get to see him.. Might be he wanna go out with friends and enjoy.. -
i like ur nick....hi, im Mer|InOriginally posted by sorcerer:hiyoh...
my dear girl... NSF no joke lor... very 1) physically tiring... which may lead to 2)emotional fatigue... which over time results in 3)strained relationship...
cut your boy some slack can? anyway... while he's in army and you're out there wif all 'em hot blooded males... who's blaming you for keeping an eye out for unexplored love options? it is afterall your right to love... and yours to renounce especially when you don't already absolutely adore your bf... -
think it in another way round...NS is 2.5yrs not whole life!!, apart from regular..hence, u sure have a chance to ORD..if ur gf run lion u..when u come out, have more time, u also can get gf who run lion their NS bf mah...
btw, not all like tat lar..my collegue, her hubby n her together even b4 NS days...so dun be too despair lar.. -
i have seen many successful relationships tat last thru ns
i think it reallie gives us guys a chance to see how much we meant to our gal
and it gives our gal a chance to see how much we mean to them
if it is meant to be, then even a 10 year ns will not affect
nothing is forever, love included
enjoy it while it lasts
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my suitation was sumthing like you.... i didnt get to slap the guy but actuali make him like a fool at orrchard...... sumtimes sum guys are reali bastard and asshole.... my ex dun even have the ball.... dare tok big when jio him 1 to 1 he escaped....Originally posted by sherlynn:i waited for my ex bf thru his ns but to think that after his ns, he dump me... so jialat right..cos he went to study in SIM and got to know new gals... he even got the gals and tyr to push the blame on me saying i suspected him... shit him lah...after the break up, i still didnt know its his fault till his best frens told me n i realise i fall into his trick... then things turn bad. i kal his gdf and told her the real situation and both me and the gal had a plan. i kal the guy out and also the gal but the gal will turn up lata.....
when my ex saw me, he kept quiet and we tok kok....then his gf came. you shld c his face, damn shock to know that i kal his gf....then i slap him twice infront at somerset starbucks... till his glasses drop.. then in the end his gf broke off with him. i oso break off and guess wat... he go and find the gal b4 me which is his poly ex gf and now they r 2gether , the gal thinks that she wins me but too bad,she duno wats the real situation nd she is in blind with that bastard..by the way, my exbf broke off with her bcos she had an affair while with him.hahaha....welll, jus all the best to the bastard and bitch couples....
my ex id in SIM, Pool club...;..... and student union,,, hear that he is going to be the president of SIM pool club.. you shld no who is he......that fat ah beng bastard........
hate him man... -
Fierce..u jio the guy one to one then he run??Originally posted by Arai^ger:my suitation was sumthing like you.... i didnt get to slap the guy but actuali make him like a fool at orrchard...... sumtimes sum guys are reali bastard and asshole.... my ex dun even have the ball.... dare tok big when jio him 1 to 1 he escaped....
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well
if you have poor taste
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sorrie sorrie -
Wah Arai^ger super fierce. You armed with Arai helmet is it? He see u got helmet of course he run lar....
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i waited 4 my bf thru his ns time...we only mit each other on sat after he had dinner wif his parents,then we will watch a movie then go hm liao...which is abt 4-5 hrs every sat..then never mit on sun as he wana stay at hm n rest then go back at nite....we dun even mit during his nights offs....imagine mi waiting 4 him then miting so less,but i dun mind lor...but then we tok on the fone everyday lor...n now we mit up very often liao....
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Originally posted by curad:i waited 4 my bf thru his ns time...we only mit each other on sat after he had dinner wif his parents,then we will watch a movie then go hm liao...which is abt 4-5 hrs every sat..then never mit on sun as he wana stay at hm n rest then go back at nite....we dun even mit during his nights offs....imagine mi waiting 4 him then miting so less,but i dun mind lor...but then we tok on the fone everyday lor...n now we mit up very often liao....
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yOriginally posted by Devil1976: 