Should I even try?
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what if the TS approach her only to find out that she is married?
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No regrets at all !!!! so many if... better stay in police station (safest). -
TS should look at the bottomline: You are not friends with that lady now. If you get "'rejected", you still don't get to be friends with that lady. Things cannot get any worse.
There's nothing to lose but all to gain. In the real world, faint hearts never win fair ladies................. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Given that both of you are students, a simple "hi" will suffice to break the ice!
Good luck!
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Originally posted by dechang:
what if the TS approach her only to find out that she is married?
"Married" means cannot even be friends meh? Cheyyyyy!
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Study hard and pass your exam with flying colors
She will be more interested in your value than your nonsense
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nice chio bu? just pretend you need something and ask her lo. then find chance start conversation. ... u must ken the first conversation... then must follow-up.
Don't Be SHY.
and don't sneak on the lady.
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Xiao jie, i need take bus, i dropped my wallet somewhere in sch... srsly i fked up but i desperately need your help, n well, it seem to me that u're the most familiar face i've seen ard here... probably cus we took the same bus every wed ard this hour... *take coins* thanks. smile at her and walk to some where near the bus stop...
Coming wed, "hey xiao jie, thanks for the $$... bla bla bla" i think this might work.
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Originally posted by rDaOnM:
Hi ya all... In need of some advice, there is this good looking lady I will get my chance to see when I am waiting for my bus to get to my night class, to me she is beautiful and most probably older then me by a few years. I realise that I might be out of her league but I would like to just try making friends with her, she also studies at my institute but not in the same course and I will only get one chance on wednesday to see her at the bus stop, most of the time she has one or two friends with her. Should I even bother to try or just carry on standing at one corner to look?
Hahaha you bery cute TS.
Let me summarise your conflicting emotions ba.
Should you risk embaressing yourself in public which has a high chance of success or should you not do anything and regret the fact that deep inside there might be a small possibility that if you had tried a miracle could have happened.
Its similar to Toto and 4D. Hope drives people to amazing things. Its just that the probability is miniscule.
To Nike it or to be prudent and more realistic.... is your choice.
Kind Regards
Genie
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If one is loving, whether the other is married or unmarried no longer matters.
Beggarly love has nothing to offer lah, the other is a means to an end.
Beware the pitfalls of self-delusion and the misery is that everyone assumes that he/she has it when in fact it is needs/expectations masquerading as love.
Where love really IS, fears and reasons never exist. Where the latter exists love is a mutual benefit scheme - a transaction, a business.