What should i do ? I'm 15 but my gf is 17 so is there a way to keep it without me going in boys home? i want to keep the baby
Any solutions ?
go tell both your parents they are going to become ah gong ah mah ... but they'll be paying for the pampers and milk powder ....
what else can you do ?
I mean, you're only 15 for fark's sake ....
Y u will go boy town? Tell ur parents and ur gf's parents. Tell them u want keep the baby.
er yea my parents is ok but my gf side have a prob with it for sure. they will call the cops ?
but is there any prob with 17 being pregnant ?
just TELL her parents.
TELL them she is pregnant.
GO to her house and tell them
BE BRAVE. u r going to be a papa in less then 10 months time.
ABORTION is not an option.
Originally posted by Fire Cracker:just TELL her parents.
TELL them she is pregnant.
GO to her house and tell them
BE BRAVE. u r going to be a papa in less then 10 months time.
ABORTION is not an option.
She is above 16. there is no way u r going to boyhome
Get married lor.
abuthen?
Look on the bright side, below article has nothing whatsoever to do with you:
This newspaper story refers once again to "marriage rates dipping over the last decade" and "singles will be urged once again not to leave it to fate to find that special partner". Really I find these efforts hard to believe. Do they really think that anyone, including the super obedient compliant Singaporeans, would marry simply because the government wants them to!
And then there is even more astonishing stuff. It says "a new campaign will encourage people to be proactive about expanding their social circle- it's OK to do it though an agency- as well as moderate their expectations of Mr. or Miss Right". Believe it or not, the Singapore government is asking people to get married regardless of whether you fancy the woman or man! What will they say next, go marry a one-eyed woman because Lee Kuan Yew wants you to do it!
There is even more rubbish in it. There is even going to be a televised dating program. I don't know what surprises they have in mind this time; perhaps you chose a woman on the screen, and meet her the next day at MacRitchie Park.
I remember last time, they had another similarly idiotic matrimonial exercise. This was about a year ago, when men and women were lined up at Singapore subway rail station platforms who would spend a few minutes with the opposite sex inside the arriving trains with the Minister Iswaran standing on the platform to persuade them to propose and fall in love instantly. What was more shocking was that each man or woman was given only about 5 minutes to decide on his life partner! You could call it "Love at first sight on Singapore Rail", with the minster officiating as some sort of an instant matchmaker!
Obviously, it simply didn't work and like every other of these dictatorships harebrained ideas, was never heard of again.
And now this new nonsense.
The Singapore government has to understand, which I don't think they will, is this. Unless you permit citizen participation and dissenting voices in the island, Singaporeans are simply going to withdraw into their cocoons, where thy now are. They are not going to listen to you, not cooperate with you, not have babies, not marry and they will leave your island, and ultimately you will simply fail.
As long as you think you can talk down to your people and order them to do this and that and bully them into submission, you simply cannot earn their respect. And not earning their respect, you will have a disengaged population. And a disengaged population means that none of your policies would ever be successful. It is as simple as that.
And each time you write this nonsense in the Singapore press, Gopalan Nair and numerous other like minded Gopalan Nairs will criticize you, and Singaporeans will read it, and even more Singaporeans would decouple and completely refuse to have anything to do with you or your policies.
In the end, you will be left talking to yourself. And no one will hear.
http://singaporedissident.blogspot.com/2010/08/singapore-desperate-measures.html
but what if a girl wants to keep a baby not the boy?
hi hi since people already ask about this so i might as well barge in haha
pple nowadays .. nv think... scare cop then why still do it.
haiz.. dont even have financial stablitiy want to have kids... god sake.
make everyone life so diffcult.. come on~ oh yea no matter what both side have to know..
Originally posted by mei_ting <sweet icecream>:but what if a girl wants to keep a baby not the boy?
hi hi since people already ask about this so i might as well barge in haha
Then breakup lor IF persuading the boy fails. This boy is too unresponsible le.
Originally posted by Guywithprob:er yea my parents is ok but my gf side have a prob with it for sure. they will call the cops ?
but is there any prob with 17 being pregnant ?
the first thing you two should do, is to apologise to your respective parents .....
it's easy to become a father, but not easy to BE one ...
I don't think you have really cottoned onto the long term consequences and responsibilities of what you two have done ....
Lol.if you're being reported to the police, then no help.you two can't married unless you're 18 too.
Why never think twice before doing?tsktsk.
If a girl is 17, No. But yes if it is U-16.
But seriously, you have the financial capability to do so or not? or rather give the child up for adpotion?
adoption is a good choice.
your gf should be worried. . .
she'll be charged for having sex with a minor. . .
Originally posted by brainerror:adoption is a good choice.
totally agreed... given that 2 of you are still financially dependent.
aniwae, obvious troll is obvious
Originally posted by maskedangel:your gf should be worried. . .
she'll be charged for having sex with a minor. . .
ya...but damn unfair leh...girl get pregnant gotta go thru hell as tho that is not enuff..kena charged summore
but, what to do.a child has a life.so if you can't support yourself, you can never support your own kid in time to come.don't abort dude, seriously adoptation.
wadever u do, whose ever decision to tell u to abort, dont abort...its a life deserved to
be brought out to this world and this life certainly dont warrant a death sentence for the
mistake u and ur gf commited...
TS,
ur fate rests with the authorities plus ur intention as stated
Fate as in whether they will send u to boys home or keep you out to make money for baby
GuywithProb,
Most, or rather, no one here can give u any optimal solution...
ur fate rests with the authorities plus ur intention as stated
Fate as in whether they will send u to boys home or keep you out to make money for baby
Best possible outcome depends on the discussion with the parents of both families. As Mr-Milo had mentioned, what forumers' feedback is just a guideline to your thread topic. Probably none of us have gone thru this stage in our life.
Hence, speaking to somebody (probably a counsellor) could lay out the pros and cons of being young parents.
Wishing you all the best.