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this guy is probably messier than my room.
i think he just wants you to give up on him..
sucks to like someone when the person just treat u as a fren. sucks for the person too cus the person feel awkward i think. try to not like him so much lol.
Originally posted by farnee:I am puzzle by his reaction..
Last night he brought me to a pub in town, in the pub an waitress there told me
"he" isn't his usual self, he is very quiet usually he would be sms ing away while his friends are having fun. The girls were telling me that he isn't that caring usually in pub with them. humh... (Coz before i went down i told him to order dinner for me)But one of the girls i could sense she like him.
She just hook him up and kiss him on lip and cheeks.
He has tried to do min. reject by moving away nearer to wall, but wasn't successful.He look at me when the girl do that, but didn't stop her advance further.
Further down into the night the girl came again, and plant another kiss on his cheek. This round he accepted the kiss readily while looking into my face. I just smile and ask him why you look at me, i am not the one kissing you :)
3rd attempt this round the girl kiss his lip and playfully plant the gather kiss to my cheeck. Coz i shifted my face not kissing her lip.I am not sure of my feeling whether i am jealous or what.. on the spot i don't feel abit of jealous... its just a kinda feeling i am abit disappointed on the instant. (While writing this i am feeling upset now) :((
He told me last night he isn't this characters (we were discussing strategy to tackle some problem in business), and he switch topic suddenly he is a very sentimental man and devoted but his ex gf betrayal change him totally and when he were to be in relationship he will go into it deeply. (I am not sure if this meant any weightage for our relation now ?)And in sms this morning, he explained that its he doesn't dare to push away coz he felt its rude. rubbish.. haiz.. he also mentioned in one of our chatting sms in jokingly tone " lucky i am not his gf if not he might not get a chance to go club anymore" sigh.. Coz he club rather frequently, i am not those who are against clubbing as i do club too but not as often as him.
Over the last occasion, he mention to me he like to be with me but not the gf type relation (He jokingly told me "he isn't suitable to me".
He also mention in chat that to get together and be together is two different things. Suckz.. its hurts..
Often in chatting time, he does at times poke joke on me "he isn't suitable for me" ..
but on the other hands he is playing this.. At times i imagine he like me but he would be there at different timing bursting my dream bubbles telling me in joking term " he isn't suitable for me". I want to give up but the advance he present me make me wonder in circle. There are time my sense telling me his is trying to hide his feeling. how do i know and what can i do ? or am i still dreaming ? sigh..
Is there anyone that can help me to view this.. i am lost... and badly need help.
TS, I think he likes you but he's waiting and still thinking about going further. Try not like him as more than a friend, he's not worth it since he's still thinking whether you are worth the effort or not.
Originally posted by farnee:I am puzzle by his reaction..
Last night he brought me to a pub in town, in the pub an waitress there told me
"he" isn't his usual self, he is very quiet usually he would be sms ing away while his friends are having fun. The girls were telling me that he isn't that caring usually in pub with them. humh... (Coz before i went down i told him to order dinner for me)But one of the girls i could sense she like him.
She just hook him up and kiss him on lip and cheeks.
He has tried to do min. reject by moving away nearer to wall, but wasn't successful.He look at me when the girl do that, but didn't stop her advance further.
Further down into the night the girl came again, and plant another kiss on his cheek. This round he accepted the kiss readily while looking into my face. I just smile and ask him why you look at me, i am not the one kissing you :)
3rd attempt this round the girl kiss his lip and playfully plant the gather kiss to my cheeck. Coz i shifted my face not kissing her lip.I am not sure of my feeling whether i am jealous or what.. on the spot i don't feel abit of jealous... its just a kinda feeling i am abit disappointed on the instant. (While writing this i am feeling upset now) :((
He told me last night he isn't this characters (we were discussing strategy to tackle some problem in business), and he switch topic suddenly he is a very sentimental man and devoted but his ex gf betrayal change him totally and when he were to be in relationship he will go into it deeply. (I am not sure if this meant any weightage for our relation now ?)And in sms this morning, he explained that its he doesn't dare to push away coz he felt its rude. rubbish.. haiz.. he also mentioned in one of our chatting sms in jokingly tone " lucky i am not his gf if not he might not get a chance to go club anymore" sigh.. Coz he club rather frequently, i am not those who are against clubbing as i do club too but not as often as him.
Over the last occasion, he mention to me he like to be with me but not the gf type relation (He jokingly told me "he isn't suitable to me".
He also mention in chat that to get together and be together is two different things. Suckz.. its hurts..
Often in chatting time, he does at times poke joke on me "he isn't suitable for me" ..
but on the other hands he is playing this.. At times i imagine he like me but he would be there at different timing bursting my dream bubbles telling me in joking term " he isn't suitable for me". I want to give up but the advance he present me make me wonder in circle. There are time my sense telling me his is trying to hide his feeling. how do i know and what can i do ? or am i still dreaming ? sigh..
Is there anyone that can help me to view this.. i am lost... and badly need help.
You guy or girl?
Hes just a scared little boy trying to bait you to see how you react then move in for the kill.
Real men aren't afraid of rejection and understand rejection is all part and parcel of the "game".
He probably wet his panties while trying to explain why he didnt reject the girls kiss.
I suggest YOU tell him what kind of guys you like.
Hopefully it doesn't resemble whimpy guys like him.
what kind of a fucking idiot would try to make someone he likes jealous by letting another woman kiss him? lol That's taking it too far.
Albert einstein says he gives up
Originally posted by LonelyApple:sucks to like someone when the person just treat u as a fren. sucks for the person too cus the person feel awkward i think. try to not like him so much lol.
its even suckier when sluts treat guys like walking ATM or punchbags according to bitchy whims and fancies...
ironical when sluts wants to be loved and cared for but would only use guys to achieve all that is best for themselves...
that is Sg Love....worse than hypocrites
Originally posted by Fcukpap:its even suckier when sluts treat guys like walking ATM or punchbags according to bitchy whims and fancies...
ironical when sluts wants to be loved and cared for but would only use guys to achieve all that is best for themselves...
that is Sg Love....worse than hypocrites
no WAY! some guys are worse. treat girls as sex objects with no respect.
maybe u can try this, lol
typical buaya tactic. new only to noobs like TS. bring a girl he wanna bed to a club he is well known for fooling around, let her see the other girls who are vying for his attention. after that, he tell you he is no good for you - so if u fall for him, its your problem. and he is not responsible. if u want him, then its just FWB or maybe just ONS. but nothing else beyond that for sure.
oh ya. one more thing. while you are pining for him all alone, he is having loads of company every night you are not with him XD
stop seeing this guy to prevent further damage in future
Dont hate the player... hate the game.
lol .. k la k la..
The male ego at work here again. Then u confront him and ask him EXACTLY what he means and what he or you meant to each other.
If he still beats around the bush giving pretty lame excuses.. or dilly dallying.. well.. seems like he is laying the groundwork for some fast in fast out. Looks like he wants some fast food takeaway, tell him.. sorry. Yours is chef prepared.
Originally posted by farnee:Is he trying to make me give up ?
But yet he still keep his caring mode on me and would go out with me :((
He already stated that he is not interested in you as a gf.
So please do not see him as a bf. Just take him as a chat buddy, someone whom you can talk to with, but preferably kept at arm's length.
Just ask for the truth...
If the situation is like, "he like you, you like him", then congrats...
If the situation is like, "he just treat you as friends", also, congrats, you'll know the answer...
Originally posted by LonelyApple:sucks to like someone when the person just treat u as a fren. sucks for the person too cus the person feel awkward i think. try to not like him so much lol.
Yea... Totally... And it sucks not knowing does that person treat you as just a friend, or more then that...
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trust me on this one, kiddo. this is typical buaya effect. hard to resist, no? only if you know the ending first, will you be able to resist. hence i give u the ending.
another thing. u think he bring you out no benefit to him? wrong. it makes him very attractive to the other girls in the clubs. any guy who can bring a girl to a club will auto attract other girls in the club. cos they know he must have something to attract a girl to go with him. those single guys who go to clubs are either losers or lone wolves. his tactics are more subtle.
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