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not the only fish out there.....
It is not about 'fishes' out there, but the right fish to swim with.
I would always says start out as frenzs first, know each other likes and dislikes. Until you can do that then you can decide to go one step further. Many are caught in the infatuation syndrome (at least I call it so) not knowing if there is space to move forward. When she blabber in drunkard state, do you listen to her truth of the matter? I believes if you can resolve those matter, you can make her more happy and her less turning to alcohol. With that she may sees the caring you and things might turn around. The old saying it takes two hands to clap, but also it takes each other hand to slap. So choose one.
Originally posted by frenzs:It is not about 'fishes' out there, but the right fish to swim with.
I would always says start out as frenzs first, know each other likes and dislikes. Until you can do that then you can decide to go one step further. Many are caught in the infatuation syndrome (at least I call it so) not knowing if there is space to move forward. When she blabber in drunkard state, do you listen to her truth of the matter? I believes if you can resolve those matter, you can make her more happy and her less turning to alcohol. With that she may sees the caring you and things might turn around. The old saying it takes two hands to clap, but also it takes each other hand to slap. So choose one.
what do you mean by the sentence "The old saying
it takes two hands to clap, but also it takes each other hand
to slap." your english quite weird
Well time to move on
lack of communication...
I never tell her all these things. What for ? Our relationship not strong in the first place
What for? Well for one thing you would definitely get a load off your chest once you tell her everything.
I really think you should just tell her everything you want her to know. At least then you won't look back in regret or what.
Take this pain and move on bravely.
Trust me, it makes you a stronger person.
go punch wall
as hard as u can
will help 1
in life there is always one that slip away.. dont forget the whole thing.. cherish it and remember the lesson it taught it! never let it happen again.
i been through worst than u.. been with a gal for 4.5 year till now almost 2 year... almost everyday i will tot of her.. even when i am in another relationship. sigh!
Originally posted by myjobsucks:in life there is always one that slip away.. dont forget the whole thing.. cherish it and remember the lesson it taught it! never let it happen again.
i been through worst than u.. been with a gal for 4.5 year till now almost 2 year... almost everyday i will tot of her.. even when i am in another relationship. sigh!
nah i don't cherish it. it's in the dumpster long long time ago.
Originally posted by yumii:what do you mean by the sentence "The old saying it takes two hands to clap, but also it takes each other hand to slap." your english quite weird
The same hands can nuture on a relationship or caused its downfall with emotional hurt.
Seem like love is blind from the starts.
i didnt even read but do you need someone to console you?