am i a monster?
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we were together for 4 years, but were never really happy because of one problem.
he is unacceptably (to me) sticky with his twin brother. they sleep on the same bed at home, share all clothes and boxers, share laptop. same school throughout (but school put them in different classes). applied to all the same overseas unis and went to one of them together. chose each other as roommates. all their friends are common friends (they have different classmates, but some classmates got to know the other twin, and they dont really talk to people not friends with their twin.
they were never separated, except for couple of months during summer when they did different internships. they got so lonely and depressed that they said sometimes they cry.
last christmas i made my boyfriend fly back to sg during his break. his twin wanted to stay in US, but i managed to persuade my boyfriend to fly home (we are in an LDR and only get to be in the same country 2 months a year). so they both flew home. he wanted to spend christmas with his brother and friends (all guys). they were having dinner in town, so i said we could have desert together after his dinner. so he left them after dinner and met me. an hour later his brother called saying he has reached home and wants him back. so he left, and i almost cried on the mrt home.
they are now working in the same state in US (but not same company cos they both didnt get into any company together) and they got a car so they can see each other all the time. i am in and have been in singapore all along.
i have no other problems with my boyfriend. he is nice to me, listens to me gripe about work, watches "girly" movies with me... well he doesnt give me any valentine's present or birthday present, nor does he send me home, but i dont mind. what i mind is that he is saving money for his brother. he buys expensive shoes and watches and clothes (and shares these with his brother), but he cant afford a card for me on valentine's day.
he asked me to marry him, and said the 4 of us can live in a big house with big tv. i dont want. i want to be the one he calls when he needs help, i want to be the one he discusses stuff with and share things with, but i'm not. i said i'll leave the relationship if he doesnt not behave like an independent man his age (ie cannot call and talk on phone every day with his bro, try to make new friends without asking his brother along). but he said why should he, it's his brother. he also said all their friends called me a monster for trying to split them up.
am i a monster?
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no, just break up seriously..
if not dun b surprise to find them both nake on the bed with each other's dick in their mouth, one day..
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Originally posted by BlueBlack Pie:
no, just break up seriously..
if not dun b surprise to find them both nake on the bed with each other's dick in their mouth, one day..
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i think the twins are cute, u dun troll ok
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Originally posted by TehJarVu:
i think the twins are cute, u dun troll ok
seriously?
it might be exaggerated but at least she didnt plunge into the marriage and then regret.
the twins gotta live their own lives seperately man. i mean how old are they already.
they wanna live together when they are married? wtf???
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Originally posted by Pitot:
seriously?
it might be exaggerated but at least she didnt plunge into the marriage and then regret.
the twins gotta live their own lives seperately man. i mean how old are they already.
they wanna live together when they are married? wtf???
becos i dun believe in the story
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if it is true, it still isnt cute
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twins like doing things together are cute what
becos i oni know twins who dun wan to wear same clothes cut same hairstyle carry same bag
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yeah i dont understand why these kind of twins want to find girlfriends. they are cute together, but not with me.
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i think u shud end this relationship. its totally not healthy lo. where got bros so sticky one. unless u like 买一�一 la. then again, still a lousy deal. u can tell the bros love each other more than u.
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Originally posted by eyes_n_nose:
yeah i dont understand why these kind of twins want to find girlfriends. they are cute together, but not with me.
did u get me?
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Originally posted by BlueBlack Pie:
no, just break up seriously..
if not dun b surprise to find them both nake on the bed with each other's dick in their mouth, one day..
I have the same thinking as you.
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hahha if it's purely sexual, i actually dont mind. but i want to be the best friend, the soul mate. howww? breakup not easy. 4 years liao
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go out with the other twin then
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did they play "exchange dates" with you ? ....
is this how twins behave ? ......
it sounds a bit extreme ....... doesn't sound normal ...
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Originally posted by jonchao72:
go out with the other twin then
actually, it's an good idea to have both fall in love with TS...if they fall out over TS, her problem could be solved.
if they never fall out and instead wanna share TS among themselves....i dunno how TS may wanna view this scenario...
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Originally posted by kengkia:
actually, it's an good idea to have both fall in love with TS...if they fall out over TS, her problem could be solved.
if they never fall out and instead wanna share TS among themselves....i dunno how TS may wanna view this scenario...
Have a 3some
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"he asked me to marry him, and said the 4 of us can live in a big house with big tv. i dont want. i want to be the one he calls when he needs help, i want to be the one he discusses stuff with and share things with, but i'm not..."
You are right you're not the one.
You're just an accessory to him.
Remember it will always be a 2+2 four-some.
You have been four warned, er...forwarned against breaking them up.
Anyway many impose conditions for their relationships in the hope of happiness, but it always turn out bad.
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Originally posted by Chris88110:
Have a 3some
TS, have fun...
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Originally posted by eyes_n_nose:
we were together for 4 years, but were never really happy because of one problem.
he is unacceptably (to me) sticky with his twin brother. they sleep on the same bed at home, share all clothes and boxers, share laptop. same school throughout (but school put them in different classes). applied to all the same overseas unis and went to one of them together. chose each other as roommates. all their friends are common friends (they have different classmates, but some classmates got to know the other twin, and they dont really talk to people not friends with their twin.
they were never separated, except for couple of months during summer when they did different internships. they got so lonely and depressed that they said sometimes they cry.
last christmas i made my boyfriend fly back to sg during his break. his twin wanted to stay in US, but i managed to persuade my boyfriend to fly home (we are in an LDR and only get to be in the same country 2 months a year). so they both flew home. he wanted to spend christmas with his brother and friends (all guys). they were having dinner in town, so i said we could have desert together after his dinner. so he left them after dinner and met me. an hour later his brother called saying he has reached home and wants him back. so he left, and i almost cried on the mrt home.
they are now working in the same state in US (but not same company cos they both didnt get into any company together) and they got a car so they can see each other all the time. i am in and have been in singapore all along.
i have no other problems with my boyfriend. he is nice to me, listens to me gripe about work, watches "girly" movies with me... well he doesnt give me any valentine's present or birthday present, nor does he send me home, but i dont mind. what i mind is that he is saving money for his brother. he buys expensive shoes and watches and clothes (and shares these with his brother), but he cant afford a card for me on valentine's day.
he asked me to marry him, and said the 4 of us can live in a big house with big tv. i dont want. i want to be the one he calls when he needs help, i want to be the one he discusses stuff with and share things with, but i'm not. i said i'll leave the relationship if he doesnt not behave like an independent man his age (ie cannot call and talk on phone every day with his bro, try to make new friends without asking his brother along). but he said why should he, it's his brother. he also said all their friends called me a monster for trying to split them up.
am i a monster?
Maybe the twin bro, exchange place. When your bf turns up, he is more intimate, but when his twin bro turns up, he suddenly appears to be unfriendly and unopen. Maybe your bf and his bro are playing musical chairs with you. So you could be dating two guys. 2 for the price of one, you are lucky. -
Originally posted by BlueBlack Pie:
no, just break up seriously..
if not dun b surprise to find them both nake on the bed with each other's dick in their mouth, one day..
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i dont talk to the twin at all la. he is also not interested in me. he is only interested in his brother. he always calls his brother when his bro is with me. (that was after i said his bro cant come along on our dates- i just want one! i'm not teenager liao, working adult...)
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if u cant change them, id suggest breaking up la...their frens feel its ok for them coz they are their FRIENDS. they arent the ones sharing their entire life with the twins. dun b bothered abt their comments, they are not standing in ur point of view.
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Actually, they are twins, they are borned differently from us, they are very much linked to each other, some twins hated each other, some twins love each other alot. Yes it will affect the way you and him in the relationship and all, however if u really love him, accept he's this very bit, afterall they were borned tgt, they've gone through everything tgt, since young. I read it somewhere that twins are connected in a way that, when one's hurt, the other feel for him. It is true and eerie.
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I don't think you're a monster.
In fact I think you've been quite tolerant already.
You have to decide lor, you wanna be sandwiched in between them or you wanna break free and find another future? Which decision you think you can live with and not regret?
Better decide fast. No point dragging anymore.