Married but thinking of another man

• Gary oak77

  1 Dec 10, 11:44

  Originally posted by Kuali Baba:

  Any guy with a iota of honour in him would not pursue a relationship with a woman who is attached or married.

  
    Eventually you will realise that men with an iota of honour are few and far between. The number that act like they have honour of course is infinate

• Gary oak77

  1 Dec 10, 11:46

  Originally posted by Thinkingofyou:

  Hi. A quick update.

  I am no longer interested or give a damn about this man.

  I managed to track him down through facebook. And found out he's a lying cheating scum. he's lame too, with a blog that has spelling mistakes and also found that he has a twitter account which is lame to the max with the most spastic tweets.

  I can't believe I fantasized about leaving my precious husband for this lying creep.

   

   HAHA    Told ya   HAHA

• Twinkle33

  5 Dec 10, 01:39

  I jus wonder if you had a kid with your hb, would things have been different? Imagine ur kid looking at you, bearing the same look as ur hb, would that make u crave for ur hb more? Im just wondering aloud because if u have something that reminds u of ur hb constantly, u probably wun have time to think of the other man.

  The other man always forms the solace grounds esp when thgs get negative/lonesome on this end of ur marriage, ie, the distance separating u and hb.

  i hope to encourage you on in ur marriage... jus think... out of so many people out here... u chose hb to be The One. Dun back out bcos of some trivial matters... these days, distance apart is compensated by internet. Control the mind and all would be well.

  There, you have my maiden post...the very first  Dun take life too seriously...its too short to be going backwards...onwards i hope you will go from now.

   

• Gary oak77

  6 Dec 10, 11:09

  Originally posted by Kuali Baba:

  Any guy with a iota of honour in him would not pursue a relationship with a woman who is attached or married.

  
      How many guys do you know that actually have any honour and not merely know how to act like they have honour ?

• elindra

  6 Dec 10, 12:34

  I think most guys will act like they have honor or even act with honor if the woman you speak of is not an object of their interest

   

  Sad to say that from experience, men I think will act with honor proved otherwise when it came to a woman they desired.

   

  Maybe I’m cynical but I think humans are selfish and they prefer to take what they want if possible.

   

  I can’t remember what the TS wrote since it been sometime since I read from the beginning but commitment phobic guys are really very nice and sweet and you think that you are heading somewhere but when it does, they disappear.

  Oh and they tend to re-appear in your life once you are attached.

   

  I’m not going to preach to TS about any morals because that pt of view have been said so many times in this post and TS don’t seem to be listening.

   

  My adv to TS is that whatever you want to get into, be sure you can handle it and not get yourself caught in some emotional web.

  From experience from my friends, most of them will come back crying about what a bastard that guy is and they should not have cheated.

  If TS wants to be a player, make sure you can walk out of it without scratches

• Gary oak77

  7 Dec 10, 11:31

  Originally posted by elindra:

  I think most guys will act like they have honor or even act with honor if the woman you speak of is not an object of their interest

   

  Sad to say that from experience, men I think will act with honor proved otherwise when it came to a woman they desired.

   

  Maybe I’m cynical but I think humans are selfish and they prefer to take what they want if possible.

   

  I can’t remember what the TS wrote since it been sometime since I read from the beginning but commitment phobic guys are really very nice and sweet and you think that you are heading somewhere but when it does, they disappear.

  Oh and they tend to re-appear in your life once you are attached.

   

  I’m not going to preach to TS about any morals because that pt of view have been said so many times in this post and TS don’t seem to be listening.

   

  My adv to TS is that whatever you want to get into, be sure you can handle it and not get yourself caught in some emotional web.

  From experience from my friends, most of them will come back crying about what a bastard that guy is and they should not have cheated.

  If TS wants to be a player, make sure you can walk out of it without scratches

  
         This I believe is what I had said  but in a more detailed fashion