Another chance.

• Swiftwinds95

  29 Aug 10, 17:45

  Okay so, i need another chance from this girl. In the past i broke a lot of promises and stuffs. But she refuses to give me another chance, she will keep asking me this ' how many last chances you want me to give you? ' She says she's utterly disappoint and lost the trust in me. But i really need the chance. How?

• voltrons.

  29 Aug 10, 18:08

  I wonder why should you even get another chance?

  Since you say broke a lot of promises and stuffs. lol.

   

• littlemissbonkers

  29 Aug 10, 19:18

  

  The gal is right not to give you another chance.

  If you can break her trust once you will break it again and many times more.

  Leopards don't change their spots that easily.

  

• Arapahoe

  29 Aug 10, 19:24

  never give up!!! thats all i can say.

  Do some self reflection why u break whatever.....issued and seriously do some repent infront of her.....

• DRC

  29 Aug 10, 19:25

  Tell us why should she give you another chance?

  Action speaks louder then words.

  Since you know that you will break your promise again why borther to even ask for another chance?

  Imagine she always break your promises will you forgive her?

   

• mancha

  29 Aug 10, 19:26

  Yea she knows you really need this last chance, like the last chance before, and the one before that. 

  Well she ain't giving it to you this time.

  Tough luck, mucker.

• fudgester

  29 Aug 10, 19:37

  Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:

  Okay so, i need another chance from this girl. In the past i broke a lot of promises and stuffs. But she refuses to give me another chance, she will keep asking me this ' how many last chances you want me to give you? ' She says she's utterly disappoint and lost the trust in me. But i really need the chance. How?

  You break 1st promise: you got one chance.

  2nd promise broken: last chance.

  3rd promise broken: last last chance.

  Then there's 4th, 5th, 6th, etc.....

  You get the point?

  What is there to convince her that this is really the last chance when so many were already given to you? 

• TTFU

  29 Aug 10, 19:44

   Dont give up. Well.... next time you have your chance, treasure it kay ?

• Fenixx

  29 Aug 10, 19:50

  Stop being a pathetic wussbag! Be a man and move on......

• Genie99a

  1 Sep 10, 15:22

  Originally posted by Fenixx:

  Stop being a pathetic wussbag! Be a man and move on......

  
  Move on basically and don't repeat it when you meet your next partner.

   

  Kind Regards

   

  Genie

• CutePenguin

  1 Sep 10, 17:27

  now u wonder why more and more local females prefer a non-sg bf ?   here is the perfect example .

• Simple_Bear

  1 Sep 10, 22:04

  Originally posted by CutePenguin:

  now u wonder why more and more local females prefer a non-sg bf ?   here is the perfect example .

  Next time when people post negative traits of some Singaporeans gals, we will see people posting 'now you wonder why more and more local males prefer a non-Singaporean girlfriend. Here is the perfect example.'

  

   

• CutePenguin

  3 Sep 10, 09:01

  we singaporeans hate our own breed . LOL

• Simple_Bear

  4 Sep 10, 10:09

  Originally posted by CutePenguin:

  we singaporeans hate our own breed . LOL

  We are what we hate...

  

• parn

  4 Sep 10, 10:52

  Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:

  Okay so, i need another chance from this girl. In the past i broke a lot of promises and stuffs. But she refuses to give me another chance, she will keep asking me this ' how many last chances you want me to give you? ' She says she's utterly disappoint and lost the trust in me. But i really need the chance. How?

  
  It's easy, GO AFTER HER AGAIN AND WIN BACK HER LOVE FOR YOU.

   

  If you can make her love you in the past, I don't see the reason why you are unable to make her love you again.

   

  Unless YOU ARE UNWILLING TO DO SO.

   

  Then you are the person with the problem.

• mancha

  5 Sep 10, 01:55

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  It's easy, GO AFTER HER AGAIN AND WIN BACK HER LOVE FOR YOU.

   

  If you can make her love you in the past, I don't see the reason why you are unable to make her love you again.

   

  Unless YOU ARE UNWILLING TO DO SO.

   

  Then you are the person with the problem.

  He did exactly that, again and again.

  And again.

  And  he is still willing as ever to do so again.

  So the problem is actually the girl. She had enough of him.

• parn

  5 Sep 10, 08:12

  Originally posted by mancha:

  He did exactly that, again and again.

  And again.

  And  he is still willing as ever to do so again.

  So the problem is actually the girl. She had enough of him.

  
  I'm sure his desperate-ness drove him mad and he did went after the girl.

  But it's not about how many times he went after the girl, it's about his mindset and willingness to be together with the girl again.

  If he was able to win the love of the girl in the past, so why is it so difficult for him to win her back again when he have obviously understood more about the girl when they were together in the past.

  It's his fault also if he doesn't move on when it is time for him to move on.

  I don't even give second chance and he should be eternally grateful to the girl for allowing him to betray and abuse their relationships in the past.

  "DO NOT TELL ME IT IS IMPOSSIBLE, SHOW ME YOU CAN MAKE THE IMPOSSIBLE INTO POSSIBLE!!!"

• Aceone10

  5 Sep 10, 14:00

  Whether in politics or in life,  you always give cock comment and argue for the purpose of arguing.  Like the whole world only you got brain all the rest "NAO SI CHAO".. sigh

• mancha

  5 Sep 10, 22:24

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  I'm sure his desperate-ness drove him mad and he did went after the girl.

  But it's not about how many times he went after the girl, it's about his mindset and willingness to be together with the girl again.

  If he was able to win the love of the girl in the past, so why is it so difficult for him to win her back again when he have obviously understood more about the girl when they were together in the past.

  It's his fault also if he doesn't move on when it is time for him to move on.

  I don't even give second chance and he should be eternally grateful to the girl for allowing him to betray and abuse their relationships in the past.

  "DO NOT TELL ME IT IS IMPOSSIBLE, SHOW ME YOU CAN MAKE THE IMPOSSIBLE INTO POSSIBLE!!!"

  Did I tell you its impossible?

  I am teling you the problem is not at the boy's, but at the girl's side.

  He says, "She says she's utterly disappoint and lost the trust in me."

  You don't give second chances, so tell us what his chances are. From your perspective.

• CutePenguin

  6 Sep 10, 14:20

  my advice for you TS is just go fark yourself and get a grip . Chances are not meant to be given , it has to be earned .

• Swiftwinds95

  10 Sep 10, 13:40

  So what should i do to get a chance? :/

• Genie99a

  14 Sep 10, 08:34

  Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:

  So what should i do to get a chance? :/

  
  Easy.... you need to accept the reality that you will never get that chance.

   

  Kind Regards

   

  Genie

• CutePenguin

  14 Sep 10, 08:40

  Originally posted by Genie99a:

  
  Easy.... you need to accept the reality that you will never get that chance.

   

  Kind Regards

   

  Genie

  
  I think this is one of the most sensible comments here , this dude clearly is living in LA LA Land