Help my cuz is a Bapok

• Spartacus x24x

  13 Sep 10, 23:46

  I have a freakin big prob , I just discovered my cuzzin is a "Bapok". It was shocking to see him with long hair, A-cup titties, dressed ina freakin tube and freaking thick make up. I'm disgusted at the same time I want him to change. The fucker is now 22 yrs old.. help!

• the Bear

  13 Sep 10, 23:48

  i think the problem is you, not your cousin  

• Fugazzi

  14 Sep 10, 00:14

  Why u so kapoh lah - if he is happy and like the way he is - frankly it is none of your business. Unless you are taking care of him financially, ''socially'' and parenting hime or even being a guardian. Otherwsie, let me be.

  The Bear, above put it aptly lah - u are the PROBLEM!

• littlemissbonkers

  14 Sep 10, 00:28

  

  grow up la TS

  and learn to mind your own business

  

• kilfer

  14 Sep 10, 00:28

  if your cuz is not causing anyone harm, just let him be.

• TTFU

  14 Sep 10, 00:32

  Whats the name of the english teacher who  taught you english language

• trolol

  14 Sep 10, 01:39

  Wah TS.. then how, need report police or not?

• burndog85

  14 Sep 10, 05:21

  What's wrong with him being a one? If he likes it, then let him be. People change their genders to fit into the crowd, maybe he's not happy being a guy. There's plenty of trannies in Australia and does that bother me, no not really. At least he's not coming up to you and asking you to come into bed with him, right?

• _Da_Dood_

  14 Sep 10, 07:55

  eeek!!! TS quickly call police

• Caborana007

  14 Sep 10, 08:28

  Eeeeeks!!!!!@TS. This is Discrimination!!!!!! Somebody help TS!!!!!

• BadzMaro

  14 Sep 10, 08:32

  Ooh ? Suddenly this is discrimination ? What happened to the people who call others retard ? How come no one stone them to death for discimination and being too smart. lol!

   

• CutePenguin

  14 Sep 10, 11:07

  as long as he is happy , let him do what he wants . So what if he is your cousin , does that make it ur problem too.  He is already a bapok , so just let him be and as for you , stfu and live on

• Simple_Bear

  14 Sep 10, 11:19

  Originally posted by Spartacus x24x:

  I have a freakin big prob , I just discovered my cuzzin is a "Bapok". It was shocking to see him with long hair, A-cup titties, dressed ina freakin tube and freaking thick make up. I'm disgusted at the same time I want him to change. The fucker is now 22 yrs old.. help!

  If you are hitting on him or he is hitting on you then you should be concern, if not, just leave the guy be what he wants to be...

  

• mancha

  15 Sep 10, 00:24

  You are right, you have a freakin big prob.

  You want to help him, not change him.

  Do not block his  options, or he will feel ostracised, and go underground, and when that happens there is only one option left, prostitution.

  Try and help him, to become what he wants to be.

  First talk to him about what he really, really wants.

   

• MinMuangMo0on

  15 Sep 10, 00:26

  I believe being a bapok is legal in SG. is it. hor?

• Fire Cracker

  15 Sep 10, 09:23

  yeah TS. u r the core of the problem.

  the problem is u have weak brain.

  and weak brain got 1 cure.

  it's to kill yourself. go and die.

  go eat some rat poison and die.

• CutePenguin

  15 Sep 10, 10:40

  bloody kid making a big fuss ... its not even ur blood brother for goodness sake. 

• CutePenguin

  15 Sep 10, 10:40

  You know what , just mind your own business