haha same same free thinker. lols. i wonder why and how you wanna help those that is unbalanced in energy? lolz. you are like preaching about life. lols.
fear of disappointment and lack of trust of good outcome. hmmm, well i believe most ppl have fear of disappointment. it's like a human nature.
hmmm. aiya got lots to say but i duno where to begin. Therefore i shall not begin. =p
do not forget that the system is partly accountable for the state of mind of the citizens...
in fact...quite substantial part as their policies do affect or enforce upon the citizens..
take women charter as an example....IT HAS TO BE CHANGED AND AMENDED TO ACHIEVE BALANCE.....THEIR SLOW REACTION IS AFFECTING MILLIONS OF MEN'S LIVES....get it?
Originally posted by voltrons.:haha same same free thinker. lols. i wonder why and how you wanna help those that is unbalanced in energy? lolz. you are like preaching about life. lols.
fear of disappointment and lack of trust of good outcome. hmmm, well i believe most ppl have fear of disappointment. it's like a human nature.
hmmm. aiya got lots to say but i duno where to begin. Therefore i shall not begin. =p
If readers can make sense of what I've shared, then I've done my part. It's up to people's choice on how to lead their lives. No real right or wrong. Just cause and effect. Actually, all the problems raised in AA forum can be solved, if people are willing to make some tough decisions, starting with truly honest self-assessment.
If a person can feel joy in his/her life at least half the time, the positive effect on the people in his/her life would be very significant. Unfortunately, the opposite happens most of the time instead.
Reason why it's important to start feeling joy in our lives now is that it'll get harder in future. Everyone needs time to practise to be adept at finding joy, no matter how difficult life may seem.
Rainbow Jigsaw of Life
negative in mid life
positive in early and late life
sometimes negative may not that bad, then again it can be quite frustrating eg . all say about locals whom dont want/fussy to take certain jobs ( you shall see some companies small whom are choosy also )
"that's it you 100kg porn watching saliva dripping keyboard loser." i think to myself.
my inbuilt dictionary speed towards the farthest n filthiest end of insults n comebacks known to forum history, flip to useful chapters, set smartass remarks on highest possible decibel n I take a deep breath...
but before i can begin, suddenly the floor begins shaking violently. the ceiling crumbles n the other half of my better nature, obi wan kenobi descends from the mighty cosmic space n upon the world of real people, men, women, child. he looks angry.
'i am obi wan kenobi. from star wars!" he roars.
i stare at him in shock, hands still glued to the letters D n F.
"soleachip! i command u to cease typing immediately!" he thunders.
"y should i!!!? i retort. the curtains flapping furiously in my room.
"look at that man." he draws his light sabre, points to HH n continues. "what do u see?"
i look at the man. a massive hirsute teen is switching windows between pornography n sgforums uncomfortably, occasionally twitching his grubby fingers on a worn out optical mouse.
"take a good look at him! what do u see!?" he roars again.
"i... he... but... so i'm going to let this one go? sit by do nothing n watch as his severe chronic idiotism take a downward turn? watch him turn terminal?" i ask glumly.
nodding his head solemnly, obi wan replies, "yes. screw him."
i frown and muster whatever force that is left of a hammered jedi knightress, leap into bed and away from the dark side. the crickets creak, for added emphasis.
Originally posted by soleachip:"that's it you 100kg porn watching saliva dripping keyboard loser." i think to myself.
my inbuilt dictionary speed towards the farthest n filthiest end of insults n comebacks known to forum history, flip to useful chapters, set smartass remarks on highest possible decibel n I take a deep breath...
but before i can begin, suddenly the floor begins shaking violently. the ceiling crumbles n the other half of my better nature, obi wan kenobi descends from the mighty cosmic space n upon the world of real people, men, women, child. he looks angry.
'i am obi wan kenobi. from star wars!" he roars.
i stare at him in shock, hands still glued to the letters D n F.
"soleachip! i command u to cease typing immediately!" he thunders.
"y should i!!!? i retort. the curtains flapping furiously in my room.
"look at that man." he draws his light sabre, points to HH n continues. "what do u see?"
i look at the man. a massive hirsute teen is switching windows between pornography n sgforums uncomfortably, occasionally twitching his grubby fingers on a worn out optical mouse.
"take a good look at him! what do u see!?" he roars again.
"i... he... but... so i'm going to let this one go? sit by do nothing n watch as his severe chronic idiotism take a downward turn? watch him turn terminal?" i ask glumly.
nodding his head solemnly, obi wan replies, "yes. screw him."
i frown and muster whatever force that is left of a hammered jedi knightress, leap into bed and away from the dark side. the crickets creak, for added emphasis.
I must be very successful at planting imaginative hallucanations that make you think your pathetic lonely life has turned into star wars. You now think you're Obi Wan Keropie wielding your dickless light saber, salivating and jerking over your pornographic imaginations. INCEPTION is the name.
Wake up and get a life, loser.
Originally posted by soleachip:"that's it you 100kg porn watching saliva dripping keyboard loser." i think to myself.
my inbuilt dictionary speed towards the farthest n filthiest end of insults n comebacks known to forum history, flip to useful chapters, set smartass remarks on highest possible decibel n I take a deep breath...
but before i can begin, suddenly the floor begins shaking violently. the ceiling crumbles n the other half of my better nature, obi wan kenobi descends from the mighty cosmic space n upon the world of real people, men, women, child. he looks angry.
'i am obi wan kenobi. from star wars!" he roars.
i stare at him in shock, hands still glued to the letters D n F.
"soleachip! i command u to cease typing immediately!" he thunders.
"y should i!!!? i retort. the curtains flapping furiously in my room.
"look at that man." he draws his light sabre, points to HH n continues. "what do u see?"
i look at the man. a massive hirsute teen is switching windows between pornography n sgforums uncomfortably, occasionally twitching his grubby fingers on a worn out optical mouse.
"take a good look at him! what do u see!?" he roars again.
"i... he... but... so i'm going to let this one go? sit by do nothing n watch as his severe chronic idiotism take a downward turn? watch him turn terminal?" i ask glumly.
nodding his head solemnly, obi wan replies, "yes. screw him."
i frown and muster whatever force that is left of a hammered jedi knightress, leap into bed and away from the dark side. the crickets creak, for added emphasis.
I must be very successful at planting imaginative hallucanations that make you think your pathetic lonely life has turned into star wars. You now think you're Obi Wan Keropie wielding your dickless light saber, salivating and jerking over your pornographic imaginations. INCEPTION is the name.
Wake up and get a life, loser and stop taking drugs, you're hallucinating.
"Negatively" or "Positively" is not something most people can see easily on the surface. People can appear all friendly and nice towards friends/colleagues/customers but react totally opposite towards family(parents/siblings/spouse).
I know of a young adult that is "quite negative". If I am to tell her directly that "You are a negative person.", she will flare up, deny it and even declare that "I am a positive person!". This is a common attitude problem that people with huge ego will have, and they do not see that having a huge ego is the problem.
When she is in a angry/mad state, everything other people said about her is "wrong" and everything she said about others is "right". She is not aware or realise that being angry, bitter and unforgiving has caused herself and her love ones much pain and suffering, and will carry on to cause more suffering in future if she does not break out of "negativity".
If someone is to tell me that "You are a negative person!", I will probably ask him/her which part of me is "negative" and analyse the problem with curiosity and with an open-mind. In this case, I am able to receive negative input, reverse it to produce a positive outcome. I do not need to return negativity with even more negativity. Thus, personally, I have freed myself from "negativity".
To break free of negativity requires knowledge and wisdom. There are various ways to acquire knowledge and wisdom.
The way "I get it" is the through the knowledge of my "personal experiences" and the "Four Noble Truths".
To move towards positivity requires love and compassion. All I can say, it can only come from the heart.