Does she love me ?

• grey heron

  23 Sep 10, 13:54

  I love this girl but can't tell if she feels the same for me, we work close together at work, care for each other, and always have lots of fun and laugther at the work place, we often drink from the same can of drink or from same straw among others.

  Thinking if she has any feelings for me ..... confused ....

• Simple_Bear

  23 Sep 10, 17:44

  Just ask...

  Don't assume...

  

• TTFU

  23 Sep 10, 18:02

  You think, i thought, who confirm ? Be daring and go gao bai. Make her yours before shes gone !

• charlize

  23 Sep 10, 18:46

  As long as she is not your boss.

• Asromanista2001

  23 Sep 10, 18:54

  boss, better what...............

• charlize

  23 Sep 10, 19:03

  Originally posted by Asromanista2001:

  boss, better what...............

  You don't want to be gossip fodder.

   

  You can live with the "He got the promotion because he was sleeping with his boss" talk floating around the office?

• Bus&Soccer l0v3r (VO3x 1)

  23 Sep 10, 19:07

  Dun think

   

  Juz do it

   

  Go ahead and ask, and if she say NO, plz move on ..

• jojobeach

  24 Sep 10, 03:31

  Sharing germs is not love, it's negligence.

   

• Fugazzi

  24 Sep 10, 23:38

  TS,

  If u love her u wont be posting here and wondering.

• LonelyApple

  24 Sep 10, 23:45

  heez. u sound her out la? like ask if she has a crush on anybody...dont so direct if not  she dont like you ...it might be the end of the friendship.

• grey heron

  27 Sep 10, 12:58

  jojobeach say "Sharing germs is not love, it's negligence" ... hmm .... quite true, but i guess that means people all over the world are doing the wrong thing by kissing, cos that definitely spreads germs ya.

  thanks for all the advice .... will see how things go, sometimes, it's a bit tough, quite true, a friendship might be terminated if i did not handle this well.

• grey heron

  27 Sep 10, 13:05

  jojobeach say "Sharing germs is not love, it's negligence" ... hmm .... quite true, but i guess that means people all over the world are doing the wrong thing by kissing, cos that definitely spreads germs ya.

  thanks for all the advice .... will see how things go, sometimes, it's a bit tough, quite true, a friendship might be terminated if i did not handle this well.

• gunner77

  28 Sep 10, 14:45

  test water la.

  ask her what kind of guys she like etc, etc, if the description fits you then bingo!

• Fugazzi

  28 Sep 10, 14:50

  TS,

  if one is friendly, if one is is loving - who cares whether the other loves or not. In this instance, it is the lack of both but masquerading as something else.

  Self-honesty is essential, otherwise if not now it will come back to haunt and most likely misery and pain the mainstay.

• mancha

  29 Sep 10, 02:38

  This is only at the work place.

  Have you gone on an outing to places?

  Try spending a day at Sentosa, or the Zoo, and see how  the two of you can do get along together.

  Its not easy to walk together, decide what to do, what to talk about, decide what and when to eat, how to move about, who makes what decisions, how problems along the way are tackled, how expenses are settled.

  Drink from the same straw is easy, walking together is more complicated.

  You don't want to fell in love dreamily.