Funny how love is sometimes
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Can make you do many things, many sacrifices. I have a girlfriend whom I love very much. She loves me too but she feels that sometimes she does too much for me she took made a lot of moves for a girl if u know what I mean.
But even though sometimes I can be a bit stupid, I try to be the best person to her. Doing lotsa things for her like treating her, talking to her, accompanying her and all those stuffs. There are times when I would go over to her house just to take a 2 hour+ walk home. That time I used to live in Malaysia. So public transportation was worse than lining up for NDP tickets. And mind you, the time I would normally reach home would be 3 to 5AM so imagine walking for 2 hours in the wee hours of the morning. Not that I mind, I mean I would do anything within my reach for her.
So lately she tells me she wants to break up with me and I sort of like beg her not to. And she accepts me back.
Now she has a problem of feeling sorry for herself of the way she treated me last time. I mean this is good news to hear from anyones point of view right ? WRONG she wants to break up with me because of that reason........
Sigh...........Some times i regret -
What do you regret about? And you said she feels sorry for how she treated you in the past? As in?
Anyway, girls are quite confusing at times. Most often, when guys initiate a break-up, the reasons are quite straightforward and predictable. Maybe you have fallen in love with another girl, you have no more feelings for her or you got tired of her. But for a girl to do so, their reasons are beyond your imagination, as many as the stars in the galaxy.
It is a good thing for her to accept you back since you love her so much. I guess she has strong feeling for you too, hence her decision. Just find out where the problem lies and talk to her. Communicate. Do not treat as if nothing has ever happened and hope for the better. Cause you won't know what will happen next.
Cheer up man. Don't sound so depressed. -
take care brudder.
love takes time to heal when you're hurting so much. -
try tis out...
breakin up coz she felt she's gettin too serious and wan to protect her own heart from gettin hurt. . . . . -
Heard this somewhere before. Maybe the girl has a phobia? She got hurt by some guy before. Yeah, unfair. This I know. But what to do?Originally posted by ZecHs:try tis out...
breakin up coz she felt she's gettin too serious and wan to protect her own heart from gettin hurt. . . . . -
phobia? hardly....... juz said a she dun like the feelin of gettin involved and the restriction....Originally posted by Wind:Heard this somewhere before. Maybe the girl has a phobia? She got hurt by some guy before. Yeah, unfair. This I know. But what to do?
well guess dat the worlds realli unfair to us guys eh -
What's with women these days? It seems only god understands them.
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Well siad brudder..Originally posted by Wind:What do you regret about? And you said she feels sorry for how she treated you in the past? As in?
Anyway, girls are quite confusing at times. Most often, when guys initiate a break-up, the reasons are quite straightforward and predictable. Maybe you have fallen in love with another girl, you have no more feelings for her or you got tired of her. But for a girl to do so, their reasons are beyond your imagination, as many as the stars in the galaxy.
It is a good thing for her to accept you back since you love her so much. I guess she has strong feeling for you too, hence her decision. Just find out where the problem lies and talk to her. Communicate. Do not treat as if nothing has ever happened and hope for the better. Cause you won't know what will happen next.
Cheer up man. Don't sound so depressed.
i agree girls initiate break up sometimes is really due to some unexpected reason... cos they confused with their feelings. And hence dun wanna affect u as well...
Then after some time after e break then realise that actually they still wants you....
kinda of weird but that is GIRLS
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Some people are just looking for excuses to break up... Some people are just confused... How old are the both of ya.....? What kinda girl is she like in your eyes...? How long have the both of you been together...?Originally posted by Acrux:Can make you do many things, many sacrifices. I have a girlfriend whom I love very much. She loves me too but she feels that sometimes she does too much for me she took made a lot of moves for a girl if u know what I mean.
But even though sometimes I can be a bit stupid, I try to be the best person to her. Doing lotsa things for her like treating her, talking to her, accompanying her and all those stuffs. There are times when I would go over to her house just to take a 2 hour+ walk home. That time I used to live in Malaysia. So public transportation was worse than lining up for NDP tickets. And mind you, the time I would normally reach home would be 3 to 5AM so imagine walking for 2 hours in the wee hours of the morning. Not that I mind, I mean I would do anything within my reach for her.
So lately she tells me she wants to break up with me and I sort of like beg her not to. And she accepts me back.
Now she has a problem of feeling sorry for herself of the way she treated me last time. I mean this is good news to hear from anyones point of view right ? WRONG she wants to break up with me because of that reason........
Sigh...........Some times i regret -
2 reasons for this:Originally posted by Acrux:Can make you do many things, many sacrifices. I have a girlfriend whom I love very much. She loves me too but she feels that sometimes she does too much for me she took made a lot of moves for a girl if u know what I mean.
But even though sometimes I can be a bit stupid, I try to be the best person to her. Doing lotsa things for her like treating her, talking to her, accompanying her and all those stuffs. There are times when I would go over to her house just to take a 2 hour+ walk home. That time I used to live in Malaysia. So public transportation was worse than lining up for NDP tickets. And mind you, the time I would normally reach home would be 3 to 5AM so imagine walking for 2 hours in the wee hours of the morning. Not that I mind, I mean I would do anything within my reach for her.
So lately she tells me she wants to break up with me and I sort of like beg her not to. And she accepts me back.
Now she has a problem of feeling sorry for herself of the way she treated me last time. I mean this is good news to hear from anyones point of view right ? WRONG she wants to break up with me because of that reason........
Sigh...........Some times i regret
I) More than meets the eye
II) She grew tired of this relationship.
When someone is tired of this relationship (like someone else, or simply tired, etc), and when their other partner is basically a good bf/gf, there is no reason to dump them because they never did anything (No two timing, no possessive, etc). In the end? the excuses they receive would sound really quite lame.
There is certainly more than meets the eye. Either she never tell you or you never post it. Well, some question i could like to ask is about the same as Uncle Devil and one more thing: Why did she wanted to break you the previous time? Reasons being? Situation involving? etc, etc.
Cheers -
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