" can consider" what does this imply?

• Hunter-two-one

  28 Sep 10, 13:41

  recently asked a gal to be my gf and she just reply "can consider"

  afterwards when we go out machiam like nthing happened b4 lidat and she hasn't given me a definite reply even when we go out.

  playing hard to get or mind games?

  means still gt chance or gg liao? pls advise

• hasene

  28 Sep 10, 13:47

  performs magic on her to get her be your gf

• storywolf

  28 Sep 10, 14:05

  Originally posted by Hunter-two-one:

  recently asked a gal to be my gf and she just reply "can consider"

  afterwards when we go out machiam like nthing happened b4 lidat and she hasn't given me a definite reply even when we go out.

  playing hard to get or mind games?

  means still gt chance or gg liao? pls advise

  
  can consider - mean yes got chance , let see how you court me !!!

   

   

• FireIce

  28 Sep 10, 14:10

  means u are not the first choice but in case her first choice did not choose her, u can be the spare tyre

  meanwhile, u can try to score more points to upgrade to first choice

• likeyou

  28 Sep 10, 14:13

  Yes, you still have chance.

  Be nice to her, be good to her, be patient to her.

  And not try to be dirty ya? Or else, good bye to you.

   

  Patient, do not rush.

  Try to go out often with her.

  And not rush her for results.

   

  She's picking her choice.

  Good luck!

   

• Fugazzi

  28 Sep 10, 14:16

  It was very wise of her to adopt that stance of hers lah (though not conscious) cos beggarly love has nothing to offer or share excepting exploitation - the other is a means to one's ends!

• likeyou

  28 Sep 10, 14:19

  Yeah, to see how a guys can last for how long...patient....and endurance.

• gunner77

  28 Sep 10, 14:43

  means she preparing you as back up.

  If other hot and handsome guys come, she will go with them. If don have, and she will go with you.

   

  in other words, you are not the 1st choice.

  You want to go out with this kind of girl? 

• likeyou

  28 Sep 10, 14:48

  If what Gunner said is true, better siam her.

  She's not loving you but treat u as a spare tyer.

• Hunter-two-one

  28 Sep 10, 14:54

  Originally posted by gunner77:

  means she preparing you as back up.

  If other hot and handsome guys come, she will go with them. If don have, and she will go with you.

   

  in other words, you are not the 1st choice.

  You want to go out with this kind of girl? 

  i'm having major doubts leh.. and i dun wanna waste time dwelling u see. i think i'll seek an ultimatum, make or break, if break den moving on liao sian

• likeyou

  28 Sep 10, 14:56

  Originally posted by Hunter-two-one:

  i'm having major doubts leh.. and i dun wanna waste time dwelling u see. i think i'll seek an ultimatum, make or break, if break den moving on liao sian

  
  Dont give up.

  There are many resaons behind : Can consider.

  You still got the chance.

  Look for clue ya.

• gunner77

  28 Sep 10, 14:59

  Originally posted by Hunter-two-one:

  i'm having major doubts leh.. and i dun wanna waste time dwelling u see. i think i'll seek an ultimatum, make or break, if break den moving on liao sian

  
  Whats her character and social circle like?

  Is she the type that go clubbing hooking up guys or those average next door girl with many guys going after her?

  Currently any guys going after her?

   

• Hunter-two-one

  28 Sep 10, 15:07

  Originally posted by gunner77:

  
  Whats her character and social circle like?

  Is she the type that go clubbing hooking up guys or those average next door girl with many guys going after her?

  Currently any guys going after her?

   

  
  traditional but v independent, social circle is normal

  i would say she's a typical uni gal. no clubbing ( i wldnt go after a chiongster , they are more like flings than gf material to me)

  as of who's gg after her i'm not too sure..

• trolol

  28 Sep 10, 15:09

  I think no chance.

• likeyou

  28 Sep 10, 15:10

  Maybe she set her standard very high?

• gunner77

  28 Sep 10, 15:13

  Originally posted by Hunter-two-one:

  
  traditional but v independent, social circle is normal

  i would say she's a typical uni gal. no clubbing ( i wldnt go after a chiongster , they are more like flings than gf material to me)

  as of who's gg after her i'm not too sure..

  
  ok from your 1st sentence, i tink you still stand a chance, as i tink she is playing hard to get.

  then your last sentence, makes it abit not stable. Can you go and try and find out if there is anyone after her?

  If got one guy after her, u also stand a chance la.

  But if there is more than 1 guy after her, you game over already.

• ditzy

  28 Sep 10, 15:14

  It means "definitely maybe".

• Fugazzi

  28 Sep 10, 16:20

  It actually means two persons with invisible begging bowls waiting to be fulfilled. It is ok but dont say love when it is not.

   

• littlemissbonkers

  28 Sep 10, 20:24

  Means you have to ask again

  

• charlize

  28 Sep 10, 20:26

  Depends on how old the 2 of you are.

   

  20? 40? 60?

• Just_do_it_lah

  28 Sep 10, 20:28

  

  

  You must do this.....

  

• mancha

  29 Sep 10, 02:47

  It just means you are under consideration.

  It also means any other competitor is also under consideration.

  Meanwhile you continue to do your best to woo her.

  You can also consider other girls, and place her under consideration too.