I'm in love with a prostitue
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I'm a 30 y-o unmarried man. The problem is i'm in love with a woman same age as me who is working as a night club hostess and part time prostitute. I want to marry her but I know my family and friends will not accept this and i don't know what to do.
I first me met her during a night out with a group of my friends at the nightclub she works in. It was the first and only time i have visited a night club. She kept me company there and we had a good chat. I fell for her after that night and could not forget her. She followed me and my friends to one of my friend's house that night and 2 of my friends paid to have sex with her there. I refused to do the same. Both of them paid to have sex with her again several times more after that night. I kept in touch with her after that night though phones and finally, 2 months after that i asked her out for the first time. She said yes, and we have been going out regularly for dates for 3 months now.
I haven't really express my feeling to her yet although i told her i enjoy going out with her very much.
What should i do? Any advice?
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forget her better
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be rich and provide her a living so that she does not need to work as a hostess? gd luck anyway.
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T pain was in love with a stripper. You should make a song about this .
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TS, can u take it if your friends said "Hey i banged your wife before."
If u can, go ahead.
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does she come with free std?
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You think you love her, because you cannot tell the difference between love, and a business transaction.
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Well, if you really love her so much, by all means, go for her.
And if you can realy wont mind her past, by all means, go for her.
Remember next time you ever quarrel, DO NOT EVER bring up her past.
Before marry, it is better to bring her for HIV and blood test.
I do hope that the girl is not using you.
Good luck.
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Originally posted by Pritzzi07:
I'm a 30 y-o unmarried man. The problem is i'm in love with a woman same age as me who is working as a night club hostess and part time prostitute. I want to marry her but I know my family and friends will not accept this and i don't know what to do.
I first me met her during a night out with a group of my friends at the nightclub she works in. It was the first and only time i have visited a night club. She kept me company there and we had a good chat. I fell for her after that night and could not forget her. She followed me and my friends to one of my friend's house that night and 2 of my friends paid to have sex with her there. I refused to do the same. Both of them paid to have sex with her again several times more after that night. I kept in touch with her after that night though phones and finally, 2 months after that i asked her out for the first time. She said yes, and we have been going out regularly for dates for 3 months now.
I haven't really express my feeling to her yet although i told her i enjoy going out with her very much.
What should i do? Any advice?
YOU ARE IN DANGER OF TURNING INTO A SERIAL KILLER. GARY RIDGEWAY WAS MARRIED TO PROSTITUTE AND BECAUSE HE WAS BETRAYED STARTED KILLING PROSTITUTES:
Gary Leon Ridgway (born February 18, 1949), known as the Green River Killer, is an American serial killer. Ridgway murdered numerous women in Washington during the 1980s and 1990s.[1] He strangled them, mostly with his arm, but he would also use ligatures. After strangling the women, he would dump their bodies throughout King County.[2]
On November 30, 2001, as he was leaving a Renton, Washington factory where he worked, he was arrested for the murders of four women whose cases were linked to him through DNA evidence.[2] As part of a plea bargain, he was spared the death penalty and received a sentence of life imprisonment without parole.
Early life
Ridgway was born in Salt Lake City, Utah, to Mary Rita Steinman and Thomas Newton Ridgway. He has two brothers—Gregory Leon and Thomas Edward. He was raised in the McMicken Heights neighborhood of SeaTac, Washington.
Ridgway's homelife was somewhat troubled; relatives have described his mother as domineering and have said that young Ridgway witnessed more than one violent argument between his parents.[3] As a boy Ridgway had a habit of wetting the bed. His mother would often be the one to discover the accidents and would bathe him immediately. She would belittle him and embarrass him in front of his family. While she was bathing him she would usually be wearing a bath robe that would sometimes open. When the bath was done, she would dry him completely, even into his early teen years. From a young age, Ridgway had conflicting feelings of sexual attraction and anger toward her.[4]
As a young child, Ridgway was tested with an I.Q. of 82, signifying low intelligence, and his academic performance in school was so poor that at one point in high school he had to repeat a single school year twice in order to attain grades decent enough to pass. His classmates at Tyee High School describe him as congenial but largely forgettable. His teenage years, however, were troubled; when he was 16, he stabbed a six-year-old boy, who survived the attack. According to the victim and Ridgway himself, Ridgway walked away laughing and saying, "I always wondered what it would be like to kill someone." While in high school, Ridgway joined the Navy. After graduation, he was sent to Vietnam, where he served on board a supply ship,[5] and saw combat.[3]
Friends and family, questioned about Ridgway after his arrest, described him as friendly but strange. His first two marriages resulted in divorce because of infidelities by both partners. Both a prostitute and his second wife claimed that, in 1991, he had placed them in chokeholds.
In 1975 his second wife gave birth to his son, Matthew, who is a Marine now living in the San Diego area.[6]
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The murders
Throughout the 1980s and 1990s, Ridgway is believed to have murdered at least 48 women near Seattle and Tacoma, Washington. Most of the murders occurred between 1982 to 1984. Most victims were either prostitutes or runaways picked up along Pacific Highway South (State Route 99) whom he strangled. Most of their bodies were dumped in wooded areas around the Green River in Washington, except for two confirmed and another two suspected victims found in the Portland, Oregon, area. The bodies were often left in clusters, sometimes posed, usually nude. Because most of the bodies were not discovered until only the skeletons remained, four victims are still unidentified. Ridgway occasionally contaminated the dump sites with gum, cigarettes, and written materials belonging to others, and he even transported several victims' remains across state lines into Oregon to confuse the police.
Ridgway began each murder by picking up a woman, usually a prostitute. He sometimes showed the woman a picture of his son, to help her trust him. After having sex with her, Ridgway strangled her from behind. He initially strangled them manually. However, many victims inflicted wounds and bruises on his arm while trying to defend themselves. Concerned these wounds and bruises would draw attention, Ridgeway began using ligatures to strangle his victims. Most victims were killed in his home, his truck, or a secluded area.[2]
In the early 1980s, the King County Sheriff's Office formed the Green River Task Force to investigate the murders. The most notable members of the task force were Robert Keppel and Dave Reichert, who periodically interviewed incarcerated serial killer Ted Bundy from 1984. Their interviews with Bundy were of little help in the Green River investigations but elicited confessions from Bundy on unsolved cases. Also contributing was John E. Douglas, who has since written much on the subject of the Green River Killer.
Ridgway was arrested in 1982 and 2001 on charges related to prostitution. He became a suspect in 1983 in the Green River killings. In 1984, Ridgway took and passed a polygraph test, and on April 7, 1987, police took hair and saliva samples from Ridgway. These were later subjected to a DNA analysis, providing the evidence for his arrest warrant.
On November 30, 2001, Ridgway was at the Kenworth Truck factory when police arrived to arrest him. Ridgway was arrested on suspicion of murder of four women nearly 20 years after first being identified as a potential suspect when DNA evidence conclusively linked semen left in the victims to the saliva swab taken by the police. The four victims named in the original indictment were Marcia Chapman, Opal Mills, Cynthia Hinds, and Carol Ann Christensen. Three more victims—Wendy Coffield, Debra Bonner, and Debra Estes—were added to the indictment after forensics laboratories detected microscopic paint particles similar to those used at Ridgway's job at Kenworth.
[edit] Plea bargain, confessions, sentencing
Early in August 2003, Seattle television news reported that Ridgway had been moved from a maximum security cell at King County Jail to an undisclosed location. Other news reports stated that his lawyers, led by Anthony Savage, were closing a plea bargain that would spare him the death penalty in return for his confession to a number of the Green River murders.
On November 5, 2003, Ridgway entered a guilty plea to 48 charges of aggravated first degree murder as part of a plea bargain, agreed to in June, that would spare him execution in exchange for his cooperation in locating the remains of his victims and providing other details. In his statement accompanying his guilty plea, Ridgway explained that all of his victims had been killed inside King County, Washington, and that he had transported and dumped the remains of the two women near Portland to confuse the police.
Deputy prosecutor Jeffrey Baird noted in court that the deal contained "the names of 41 victims who would not be the subject of State v. Ridgway if it were not for the plea agreement." King County Prosecuting Attorney Norm Maleng explained his decision to make the deal:
“ We could have gone forward with seven counts, but that is all we could have ever hoped to solve. At the end of that trial, whatever the outcome, there would have been lingering doubts about the rest of these crimes. This agreement was the avenue to the truth. And in the end, the search for the truth is still why we have a criminal justice system ... Gary Ridgway does not deserve our mercy. He does not deserve to live. The mercy provided by today's resolution is directed not at Ridgway, but toward the families who have suffered so much ...[7] ” On December 18, 2003, King County Superior Court Judge Richard Jones sentenced Ridgway to 48 life sentences with no possibility of parole and one life sentence, to be served consecutively. He was also sentenced to an additional 10 years for tampering with evidence for each of the 48 victims, adding 480 years to his 48 life sentences.
Ridgway led prosecutors to three bodies in 2003. On August 16 of that year, remains of a 16-year-old female found near Enumclaw, Washington, 40 feet from State Route 410, were pronounced as belonging to Pammy Annette Avent, who had been believed to be a victim of the Green River Killer. The remains of Marie Malvar and April Buttram were found in September. On November 23, 2005, The Associated Press reported that a weekend hiker found the skull of one of the 48 women Ridgway admitted murdering in his 2003 plea bargain with King County prosecutors. The skull of Tracy Winston, who was 19 when she disappeared from Northgate Mall on September 12, 1983, was found by a man hiking in a wooded area near Highway 18 near Issaquah, southeast of Seattle.
Ridgway confessed to more confirmed murders than any other American serial killer. Over a period of five months of police and prosecutor interviews, he confessed to 48 murders, 42 of which were on the police's list of probable Green River Killer victims, plus six more murders.[8] On February 9, 2004, county prosecutors began to release the videotape records of Ridgway's confessions. In one taped interview, he told investigators initially that he was responsible for the deaths of 65 women, but in another taped interview with Reichert on December 31, 2003, Ridgway claimed to have murdered 71 victims and confessed to having had sex with them prior to killing them, a detail which he did not reveal until after his sentencing.[9] In his confession, he acknowledged that he targeted prostitutes because they were "easy to pick up and that he hated most of them".[10] He also confessed that he had sex with his victims' bodies after he murdered them, but claimed he began burying the later victims so that he could resist the urge to commit necrophilia.[11]
Ridgway talked to and tried to make his victims comfortable before he committed the murders. In his own words, "I would talk to her... and get her mind off of the, sex, anything she was nervous about. And think, you know, she thinks, 'Oh, this guy cares'... which I didn't. I just want to, uh, get her in the vehicle and eventually kill her".[12]
Later in a statement Ridgway said that murdering young women was his "career".[13]
Ridgway is incarcerated at Washington State Penitentiary in Walla Walla, Washington.
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Victims
# Name 
Age Disappeared Found 1 Wendy Lee Coffield 16 July 8, 1982 July 15, 1982 2 Gisele Ann Lovvorn 17 July 17, 1982 September 25, 1982 3 Debra Lynn Bonner 23 July 25, 1982 August 12, 1982 4 Marcia Fay Chapman 31 August 1, 1982 August 15, 1982 5 Cynthia Jean Hinds 17 August 11, 1982 August 15, 1982 6 Opal Charmaine Mills 16 August 12, 1982 August 15, 1982 7 Terry Rene Milligan 16 August 29, 1982 April 1, 1984 8 Mary Bridget Meehan 18 September 15, 1982 November 13, 1983 9 Debra Lorraine Estes 15 September 20, 1982 May 30, 1988 10 Linda Jane Rule 16 September 26, 1982 January 31, 1983 11 Denise Darcel Bush 23 October 8, 1982 June 12, 1985 12 Shawnda Leea Summers 16 October 9, 1982 August 11, 1983 13 Shirley Marie Sherrill 18 October 20–22, 1982 June 1985 14 Colleen Renee Brockman 15 December 24, 1982 May 26, 1984 15 Alma Ann Smith 18 March 3, 1983 April 2, 1984 16 Delores LaVerne Williams 17 March 8–14, 1983 March 31, 1984 17 Gail Lynn Mathews 23 April 10, 1983 September 18, 1983 18 Andrea M. Childers 19 April 14, 1983 October 11, 1989 19 Sandra Kay Gabbert 17 April 17, 1983 April 1, 1984 20 Kimi-Kai Pitsor 16 April 17, 1983 December 15, 1983 21 Marie M. Malvar 18 April 30, 1983 September 26, 2003 22 Carol Ann Christensen 21 May 3, 1983 May 8, 1983 23 Martina Theresa Authorlee 18 May 22, 1983 November 14, 1984 24 Cheryl Lee Wims 18 May 23, 1983 March 22, 1984 25 Yvonne "Shelly" Antosh 19 May 31, 1983 October 15, 1983 26 Carrie Ann Rois 15 May 31–June 13, 1983 March 10, 1985 27 Constance Elizabeth Naon 19 June 8, 1983 October 27, 1983 28 Kelly Marie Ware 22 July 18, 1983 October 29, 1983 29 Tina Marie Thompson 21 July 25, 1983 April 20, 1984 30 April Dawn Buttram 16 August 18, 1983 August 30, 2003 31 Debbie May Abernathy 26 September 5, 1983 March 31, 1984 32 Tracy Ann Winston 19 September 12, 1983 March 27, 1986 33 Maureen Sue Feeney 19 September 28, 1983 May 2, 1986 34 Mary Sue Bello 25 October 11, 1983 October 12, 1984 35 Pammy Annette Avent 15 October 26, 1983 August 16, 2003 36 Delise Louise Plager 22 October 30, 1983 February 14, 1984 37 Kimberly L. Nelson 21 November 1, 1983 June 14, 1986 38 Lisa Yates 19 December 23, 1983 March 13, 1984 39 Mary Exzetta West 16 February 6, 1984 September 8, 1985 40 Cindy Anne Smith 17 March 21, 1984 June 27, 1987 41 Patricia Michelle Barczak 19 October 17, 1986 February 1993 42 Roberta Joseph Hayes 21 Last seen leaving a Portland, Oregon jail on February 7, 1987 September 11, 1991 43 Marta Reeves 36 March 5, 1990 September 20, 1990 44 Patricia Yellowrobe 38 January 1998 August 6, 1998 45 Unidentified White Female 12–17 Died prior to May 1983 March 21, 1984 46 Unidentified Black Female 18–27 1982–1984 December 30, 1985 47 Unidentified White Female 14–18 December 1980 – January 1984 January 2, 1986 48 Unidentified Female 13–24 1973–1993 August 2003 - The bodies of Avent, Buttram, and Malvar were found in August and September 2003 by police search crews who searched areas identified by Ridgway as part of his plea agreement.
- The skull of Tracy Winston was found in November 2005, miles away from the discovery site of the rest of her body. Police assume someone carried it to the location where it was ultimately found near Tiger Mountain. The remains of her body were found in Kent's Cottonwood Park in March 1986.[14]
Ridgway has also been considered a suspect in the following disappearances/murders, although no bodies (with the exception of Agisheff, Liles, Girdner, and Kurran) have been found and no charges have been filed:
Name Age Disappeared Amina Agisheff 35 July 7, 1982 Kasee Ann Lee (Woods) 16 August 28, 1982 Kristi Lynn Vorak 13 October 31, 1982 Rebecca Marrero 20 December 3, 1982 Tammie Liles 16 June 9, 1983 Keli Kay McGinness 18 June 28, 1983 Angela Marie Girdner 16 July 1983 Patricia Ann Leblanc 15 August 12, 1983 Patricia Osborn 19 October 20, 1983 Rose Marie Kurran 16 August 26, 1987 Darci Warde 16 April 24, 1990 Cora McGuirk 22 July 12, 1991 - Ridgway denied killing Amina Agisheff whose remains were found on April 18, 1984. Agisheff does not fit the profile of any of the victims of the Green River Killer considering her age, and she was not a prostitute or a teenaged runaway.[15]
- Although he has never been charged with her murder, Gary Ridgway did confess to killing Kase Ann Lee. During police interrogations in 2003, Ridgway stated that he strangled Lee in 1982 and left her body near a drive-in theatre off the Sea-Tac Strip. As of October 2008, law enforcement officials have been unable to locate Lee's remains at the dump site that Ridgway indicated.[16]
- Ridgway is also a suspect in the death of Tammie Liles. Her body was discovered in April 1985 within a mile of the bodies of known victims Shirley Shirell and Denise Bush. Liles remained unidentified until 1998.[17]
- Evidence exists to suggest that Ridgway murdered Keli Kay McGinness. Shortly before her disappearance, McGinness was questioned by a Port of Seattle police officer while "dating" Ridgway near the SeaTac Strip. Furthermore, during the summer of 2003, Ridgway led authorities to the bodies of several of his victims. One of those bodies (which later turned out to be April Buttram) was initially identified by Ridgway as being that of Keli Kay McGinness. According to Ridgway, he often confused McGinness with Buttram because of their similar physiques.[18]
- Ridgway is also a suspect in the death of Angela Marie Girdner. Her body was discovered on April 22, 1985, within a mile of the bodies of known victims Shirley Shirell and Denise Bush. Girdner remained unidentified until October 2009.[17]
- National Basketball Association player Martell Webster's mother, Cora McGuirk, disappeared when he was four years old. Her body has never been found, and Ridgway is suspected of having killed her.[19]
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pritzis,
u let yer frends screw the gal u love????i suggest u not get married at all n just slice off yer dick n get on with yer life.havin more people like u makes the world a confusing and shitty world.
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not sure how to answer you..
but an old saying comes to mind ->
"you can marry a "bad" girl, cause she can be good,but you musn't marry a girl that will turn bad later".
in your case, U have to be crystal clear on what you want, and what the gal wants, don't get pulled into a r/s you regret.
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TS,u damn CCB!!!!!!!!!! love prostitue for what???no other gal is it???dun disgrace me can?
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Luv at first sight
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Originally posted by onźźa:
Luv at first sight
Luv know no boundries. -
Many years ago, I have an old friend, he ever fall in love with a bar girl. Quite pretty and everyday, he very sad cos when he want to visit her, he has to go to bar and fork out at least $100.
He madly in love with this girl until the girl in the end, went back home (malaysia) for good. He did not hear from her thereafter.
He was love sick, everyday asked me to drink with him (I dont know how to drink), just followed him. He almost everyday got drunk.
Pity him to see him like this.
But time heals everything slowly but effectively.Good thing, he let go.
Presently he married with a lady he love happily. Of course not a bar girl.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
Many years ago, I have an old friend, he ever fall in love with a bar girl. Quite pretty and everyday, he very sad cos when he want to visit her, he has to go to bar and fork out at least $100.
He madly in love with this girl until the girl in the end, went back home (malaysia) for good. He did not hear from her thereafter.
He was love sick, everyday asked me to drink with him (I dont know how to drink), just followed him. He almost everyday got drunk.
Pity him to see him like this.
But time heals everything slowly but effectively.Good thing, he let go.
Presently he married with a lady he love happily. Of course not a bar girl.
Wher got pretty Malaysian Bar Girl ??? Malaysia Girl not pretty one le. Sg girl better. -
hello...30 yr old man. what have you been doing for the past 30 years?
no one can decide for you if you should go ahead with this girl of yours. But whatever you have decided on, you bear your own consequences for your decision. Some day in future don't ever look back and tell yourself that you regret, saying how stupid you are for doing this, because you only live life once and there's no clock for you to turn back. Be sure that when you look back you're telling yourself I have made the right decision and you're living in happiness.
This doesn't just apply to marrying her, but for many other decision makings in life.
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forget about her
find ur true true love
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To TS, be frank and be fair to her too when you make your final decision whether to be with her for life or move on.
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TS very 1st post is this kind of topic...............the whole story is bullshit lah people.....................
if story is real then marry the girl................at least she can make more money as part-time hooker/hostess than TS mah.............
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This kind of story no good ending de la. The girl always do something in the end make the guy suffer like go back her country or reject him later on or cheat his money all that. What for like this kind of girl? Some girls you just can't be with them no matter how much you like them.
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there can be true love...but true love must withstand trials and tribulations...
if u a rich...thats a good reason why....if u r poor...some benefit of the doubts....ask her not to work for the next 3 months first to quit her prostitution and get a proper job (but promise to feed her with simple "porridge and doughs") ...u will soon find out
