I'm in love with a prostitue
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wah
not simple.
usually girls like that ish 有钱有爱情。
usually la.
try knowing more about her before u decide whether she is the one.
im quite sure right now, u are only infatuated with her.
and should u really decide that u wan her,
u have to be prepared to face the social stigma, and useless remarks from people.
not going to be easy.
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Originally posted by Icygecko84:
This kind of story no good ending de la. The girl always do something in the end make the guy suffer like go back her country or reject him later on or cheat his money all that. What for like this kind of girl? Some girls you just can't be with them no matter how much you like them.
Agreed that if something bad happen, the girl will go back to her old trade...and imagine if you have kids...you will suffer till you mati. -
Originally posted by Pritzzi07:
I'm a 30 y-o unmarried man. The problem is i'm in love with a woman same age as me who is working as a night club hostess and part time prostitute. I want to marry her but I know my family and friends will not accept this and i don't know what to do.
I first me met her during a night out with a group of my friends at the nightclub she works in. It was the first and only time i have visited a night club. She kept me company there and we had a good chat. I fell for her after that night and could not forget her. She followed me and my friends to one of my friend's house that night and 2 of my friends paid to have sex with her there. I refused to do the same. Both of them paid to have sex with her again several times more after that night. I kept in touch with her after that night though phones and finally, 2 months after that i asked her out for the first time. She said yes, and we have been going out regularly for dates for 3 months now.
I haven't really express my feeling to her yet although i told her i enjoy going out with her very much.
What should i do? Any advice?
With almost one decade of being around in AA, cases such as this do crop
up from time to time. I have always challenge the poster to come back
and share their success stories with maybe a PM or a topic post.
None ever came back.
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Both of you are living in two different dimensions and have two separate
developmental needs. You being the unmarried bachelor is hoping to
fall in love, date and marry the woman you love. She is one woman
working to pay her bills and fuel her current standard of living. Her
encounter with you is merely a business transaction, eloquently said by
ditzy.
Despite heeding to your moral intention of not having to pay her for sex, that does not mean that her dealing with you does not stem out of a business transaction. On one hand your simple minded perspective just want to love her for love sake, on the other hand, it is highly probable that she actually perceive you as a 'lucrative' business deal that could rake in much more than 'per-session' deal.
Surely a woman, regardless how slattern, is entitled to their pursue of love. However, the astrological causal connection towards how the man first begin the relationship with these ladies is all too familiar: the classic Neptune-afflicted relationship, thrown with a couple of karmic strings attached to it. It would be worst if your profile somewhat belong to either one/more of the following:
1. You do not have any meaningful relationship before OR isn't in a meaningful relationship for a long period of time.
2. You do not receive much positive responses from ladies in a romantic sense. You have encountered multiple rejection/failed chase process towards forming meaningful relationships.
3. Your life has history of being involved in/as (i) third party, (ii) sub-rosa relationship, (iii) elicit relationship.
P.S: Not all presenting choices are benign. Some existed because these are karmic landmines to get us into deep shit. You have been warned.
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actually there is no difference between licensed prostitutes and "non-licensed prostitutes or NLP" if u know what i mean....and there are such many NLPs be it locals such as mistresses etc...
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hence, its rather difficult to define "modern love" nowadays
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fell in love with a prostitute ? Either your balls and your brain must have switched places that night or been in the wrong place for the last thirty years !
Same for the prostitute who fell in love with her client.. and as it takes 2 hands to clap, it takes 2 such person to make a tragedy !
I suggest the following:
a. visit other night clubs. you do not know what you may find. you may fell in love with another one..
b. join more social activities, know more decent women and know your options. as someone says, no other gals is it ??
c. read more books so that your brain can work properly
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true....but also beware of "decent angels" (could be one of the hot non-licensed pros)....
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I am sure prostitutes are regular Human Being with feeling and longing to have a "normal" Life.
From what i read your post it sound like you still do not know how she felt about you? Also you are also not sure what she wants in her life?
If you are serious about the relationship.......and you gone thru the decision and consequences process.......How do you transit her to work in a normal stream of work and not fall back into Prostitution?
It takes 2 person with great effort....if you want the relationship to work. Does she share the same mind as you or easy way out?
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Hi...
She is a problem woman, and you wont have any future with her....
She has some issues.......
Maybe even health problems / STDs....
Why should you do that...?
There are other women out there....I think you are just confused because you are lonely, and thus your loneliness is channelled into her, and you think she is the answer, and you love her. But I dont think so......Do you know her? How long have you known her ? Do you know her personality, her past, her dreams, etc all these ? You barely even know her. You just met her a few times.
If you can go meet prostitutes....my suggestion is go join dating agencies and go to dating events........rather than going to prostitutes.....
Because at least if you join dating events, maybe you can meet someone more suitable and has long-term potential.....stop wasting time visiting prostitutes.....they dont do anything, really. Maybe you should even change your friends. No offense bro but your friends are bad influence.
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it's just my opinion, this relationship is going to be very difficult, although true love can overcome almost everything and anything, but eventually one day it may break you down... if u ask me, if i really love the girl, i really dun care about anything else. but then again, i'm the type of guy who dun care what others say and dun go the usual path or tradition...
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Ts,
What is lacking is ''self''-love and the other thing is that u unconsciously seem to be projecting what you deem as love when it is not. If it was love - u would not be here. it belies the fear, the need to ... also, approval and acceptance; all offer opinions, views and even advice but no one is privy to that aspect that belies the facade of projections/role that you seem to be engaged in now and only when you are of your own volition willing to see and may it be amenable to the other or even absenting the other.
Being self-honest mite make you see ''issues'' ''reasons'' 'fears' and ... these if unresolved, if unreconciled is bound to surface in another relationship even if this flounders. How can one who is unintegrated within relate. At the most it is a mutual benefit scheme. Two beggars with invisible bowls using and fulfilling each other. It is a dicey affair and bound to derail cos only one thing is certain - change and when the reasons to love once fulfilled - the demise of that begins.
In this instance, it is a ''prositute'' but it could be another and it wont make any difference. What one really is bound to surface. When unreconciled one is an accident waiting to happen. The friendship, the relationship is a mere excuse!
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Not simple btw. Beware that she will be cheating your money. There are some cases like that
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please wake up..
if you have money to patronise a night club, kindly become a member of a match-making agency....
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With a woman such as this, the relationship is an easy one. There is no challenge as there would if it was an ordinary girl. There was not much wooing, no courting, as would be with other girls.
There is only misplaced sympathy.
She know how not to piss off a man, and know how to flatter a man.
It is easy to be infatuated with a prostitute.
She will find you acceptance of her welcoming, but she will also have her conflicts in her mind. She will deal with it clinically.
You on the other hand, will have to live with the knowledge of her past. This will always surface when you meet your friends in social situations, when you have sex with her, when you put on a bold front, whenever you declare that you don't care about her past, when other prostitutes are in the news, it will never go away. Can you handle it?
To come clean about her past, or to hide it?
Whatever, you will be between a rock and a hard place. And it won't be easy for her either.
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Originally posted by woodstock22:
fell in love with a prostitute ? Either your balls and your brain must have switched places that night or been in the wrong place for the last thirty years !
Same for the prostitute who fell in love with her client.. and as it takes 2 hands to clap, it takes 2 such person to make a tragedy !
I suggest the following:
a. visit other night clubs. you do not know what you may find. you may fell in love with another one..
b. join more social activities, know more decent women and know your options. as someone says, no other gals is it ??
c. read more books so that your brain can work properly
Yes agreed with what you said.There are many decent and pretty ladies out there.
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TS, ever ask yourself why she is a prostitute?
Reasons:
1) Due to poor family background, force to work as a chicken.
2) Got cheated by her bf.
3) Repay debts.
4) Love money.
TS, you should find out more before you committed this kind of relationship.
Usually once she earn enough, she will leave you.
Not to pour cold wter on you, just to be careful on yourself.
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TS, supposing you married that girl.
And your friend ever have sex with her meet you and the girl.
Can you accept your friend as a friend whom he has sex with your wife last time?
Very sensitive issue, you need to think over it carefully.
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Ya also 1 thing i just thought of, if your wife naked pics appear on sammyboyforum without your permission you can tahan or not?
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Originally posted by trolol:
Ya also 1 thing i just thought of, if your wife naked pics appear on sammyboyforum without your permission you can tahan or not?
Or if any leaks of video of your wife having sex with yr friend...can you also tahan?
There are many factors TS need to look at seriously before you really want your gf to be your wife. -
if its real love... nothing can stop you...
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Originally posted by mistyblue:
if its real love... nothing can stop you...
Long term love is hard to maintain. -
Originally posted by mistyblue:
if its real love... nothing can stop you...
doesn't exist
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Originally posted by trolol:
doesn't exist
That is love at first sight.Dont play such a love, will hurt everybody.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
That is love at first sight.Dont play such a love, will hurt everybody.
love at first sight lol.
Watashi aishiteru.....plays violin*
Xiaoxin.... wake up lo..... <3
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Luv at 1st sight not safe. See below: Serial Molester.
Robert Joseph "Dolly" Dunn (ca. 1941 – 11 July 2009) was an Australian convicted child molester. He was a school teacher by profession, working for the Marist Brothers, a Catholic religious order.
He began a 20-year jail sentence in 2001 for 24 sexual offences occurring between 1985 and 1995. In 1996, a Royal Commission chaired by Justice James Woods was shown home videos and photographs from Dunn's collection, which included many images of child sex abuse, usually featuring Dunn himself as the perpetrator. Dunn fled the country, but was later found in Honduras after being tracked down by Australia's 60 Minutes program. Then-US Secretary of State Madeleine Albright authorised his extradition back to Australia after he was deported from Honduras to the United States.[1]
Dunn had a long history of abusing boys between the ages of seven and 15, often videotaping them. Usually, he would offer them money and marijuana in exchange for anal sex. From jail, he repeatedly made written and verbal statements to the effect that he saw nothing wrong with sex between a man and a boy. He previously spent time in Indonesia and the Netherlands. He was a friend and accomplice of Australian diplomat William Stuart Brown, another convicted child molester.[2]
In 2004, Dunn underwent coronary bypass surgery after suffering from angina. Believed to be at high risk of retaliation from other prisoners, he was isolated from the main prison population.
Dunn died on July 11, 2009, aged 68,[3] from multiple organ failure. He would not have been eligible for parole until November 9, 2015.